Why is it that 90% of the guys in the world are after sex? Yes. I know it isn't just guys, like 85% of girls want what them 90% have. But, I just can not find one guy that wants a relationship because they actually...i don't know....CARE for the girl. I mean most of the guys that I know that relationship=sex. I just want to know if there are some guys out there that want something more out of a future relationship or a current relationship, whatever...Just give me some feedback please
And please no crude or vulgar comments!
2006-12-07 12:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by krazie_beautiful_2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem with the women that you have with the men. Believe me, I love sex, but I want it only in a committed relationship. I don't date just to date. I date to find my life partner and best friend. So if a woman suggests sex before we are committed to each other...I scratch her name off the list...not that I have a list.
I wish there were more women like you... good luck to you.
2006-12-07 12:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly! I think you kind of have to make them work for what they have. That way when they are able to date you, they will be grateful and not want to mess it up. My guy and I dated over a year before we had sex. I had told him I wasn't going to do that with him at all and he still wanted to date me. But, after a year, I was ready and I was able to choose what I was comfortable for. So, yes there are a few out there. You just have to set the boundaries and let them know where they stand from the beginning. Good luck!
2006-12-07 20:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by txaggie2514 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that the men who dont go after sex are usually the more shy guys. Like me! well we are usually the last to speak cause we dont have semen running through our veins.
some times you have to make the move. And try a guy who is usually more quiet! give em a chance and you maybe very happy
2006-12-07 20:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by darrel s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, some guys actually do want a relationship with a girl for who she is at some point in their life. some just want to have their fun first.for example, myself, i just want to be with one girl for who she is , i feel as though ive had my fun. I'd honestly rather be with one girl than have sex with a different girl everyday. and i can
2006-12-07 20:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by playboy10888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your standards a bit. maybe you are just going after the wrong type of guy. try changing it up and go for someone opposite of what you noramally would. hope that helps good luck=)
2006-12-07 20:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase they know you are
2006-12-07 20:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by uphemie girl lovin it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋