i love this guy soo much and we have been dating for 6 months. well we use to be able to see each other alot but he has sooo much church going on in his life and soo much school and soo much home life i have barley talked to him in 3 weeks. Im thinking of breaking up with him thing is i dont want to do it by txt, phone, cell, messanger, or email, but i dont see him during the day cuz he goes to a different school. o this may help u im only 14. help
2006-12-07 12:12:55 · 5 answers · asked by Mae-Day 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love him but im getting hurt by not talking to him i cant even tell you how he is feeling any more i feel like he is a stranger
2006-12-07 12:20:17 · update #1
the best would be to do it in person, but if that's not possible, i guess phone would be better than texts or emails. just explain yourself and try to sound apologetic. good luck!
2006-12-07 12:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, well first of all, your too young to say that you "love" somebody. Save that phrase when you're about to marry the guy. And second of all, maybe you should ask him to get together with him over the weekend, sometime when he's not busy, and just tell him honestly, that you think that your relationship isn't working too well, and all that stuff. If you "love" him as much as you say you do, then he might just understand. But, don't just break it to him in a mean manner, or he'll start hating you.... (don't worry, I'm sure your a great person) Just, be honest. That's all you have to do, and say what you feel.
2006-12-07 20:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by lalala <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him but you want to break up with him? That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. I love it how people ask questions and then contradict themselves in the description. No offense to you though.
If you love him then you wouldn't want to break up with him. Instead you do things to work it out with him, you know.
But if you really want to break up with him, just tell him straight up and don't forget to include the explanation. You should do it face to face. You do it through electronics and you're just going to make it harder on yourself when you have to meet him to tell him about it.
2006-12-07 20:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your gonna break up with him let him know nicely like you can say this"i know that we been going together for a while and i had a lot on my mine and i think we should break up so we can see the world. i think we are better off friends" and i think you should tell him face to face that
2006-12-07 20:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by yvonne s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, im 14 too and i have the same problem!! i say talk to him 1st maybe he feels the same way - dont just say - sry i dont think we should be together anymore..... see what he has to say and tell him how he's feeling - and uestion for you.... dont you see him @ school??
DO WHAT YOU THIK IZ RIGHT - Cinderella
2006-12-07 20:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sk8erlvrprep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋