Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

The other day my mother-in-law and her nephew came to our house while we were at work to pick up some furniture. While she was there she allowed her nephew to take a movie of ours without asking us first. Though yes it is just a movie I felt my space had gotten invaded by her just taking it without asking. We would have said yes anyway but to me it was the principle of the thing. Well I happened to call her and in a very calm manner explained to her how I felt, that I didn't want to argue and that I loved her but I felt this was an invasion of privacy. She got highly offended (as she always does if anyone says anything negative towards her) and started to raise her voice. I simply told her that I just thought she needed to know how I felt. After all, she has done things like this in the past without asking but I never said anything. To me this was the last straw and something needed to be said. My husband agreed with me and told her she shouldn't have taken the movie. Was I wrong?

2006-12-07 15:59:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Will I get the record number of answers for my question above?

2006-12-07 15:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost my job last month and can scarcely afford Christmas presents let alone a proper wedding gift. Is it crass to bring a card now, and send a proper gift later? I saw their registeries; is spending under 30 too paltry? Help!

2006-12-07 15:59:26 · 20 answers · asked by Are you kidding me? 2 in Weddings

2006-12-07 15:59:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i liked her in the 6th introduced to her by a friend(her ex) we were great friends all trhough Middle school when i was taken out of public school i never got to say good bye and i went to a private school 8and 9grade i tought she had moved to a diff city but my sophmore year the day i finnally see her again my hearth is racing and i cant even stop to say hello in the public school hallway

when classes finnaly started i made the mistake of sending her a poem not knowing she had a BF me and her talked but not a whole lot big school

not a day went nor goes by that i dont think of her

she is now married and has two beautiful girls
but how do you forget a crush that big

a "something" that wasnt "anything"

i can honestly say i love her yes she know that i liked her and
i was told later that she would have gone out with me BUT because i was to shy to ask her nothing happened

what do i do PLEASE NO STUPID ANSWERS

2006-12-07 15:59:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 15:58:55 · 5 answers · asked by im always right 3 in Friends

4 yrs ago my guy left me, and the very next day began a serious relationship with a girl he had stopped dating to be with me. (They're still together and getting married in a few months-this news has made the following feelings) I've been married to my hubby (whom i love) for 2 yrs & I have a beautiful 16 mth old baby, but I can't get over this feeling of wanting my ex & his girl to be unhappy. I just feel like I want him to go thru what I did, I never thought they'd last because their relationship started out dishonestly. Where is justice? He was my life, then one day it was over. I wanted to die. I was in & out of the hospital for panic attacks & put on suicidewatch. For 2 yrs ALL i did was go to work & home. I was messed up. Im mad because I suffered & want justice. Where's karma? So now I just want to get over this & forgive/forget & get rid of those scars my ex gave me. I'm shaken up over how much this is effecting me, I want to cut that time of my life out of my mind

2006-12-07 15:58:36 · 6 answers · asked by no one 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 15:57:15 · 12 answers · asked by violet46 3 in Singles & Dating

I dated this this girl for 3 years. Lived togather for 2 years we been split up 2 months and i havnt moved on. Our relationshup had alot of jealousy issues on both of our part Is it normal to let your gf go out all night with friends and bars cause i didnt let her i kinda feel like she has a life too. Other hand she wouldnt let me do it either so we broke up. She still calls mme but usuallygets mad cause i tell her that i miss her she says if i want anything then i need to not be so jealousand controlling. I understand what she is saying do you think she really wants to try again??

2006-12-07 15:57:13 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

My darling husband died last year after months of fighting lung cancer He was the love of my life and I have been very lonely without him. I don't know if I am ready for a relationship yet but I do know I do not want to spend the rest of my life alone. I would like to find someone to love who would love me back, or maybe I just want some company. Is it too soon to feel that way?

2006-12-07 15:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by CindyLu 7 in Singles & Dating

ok. So I started going out with this guy, Chris, back in May. And I've liked him since the first time I met him back in 2002. But he was going out w/ this girl for 6 1/2 years and they were engaged for a year and a half. Well, once they were done, we hung out and became involved. Well, we went out for almost 5 months and the first 2 1/2 months were GREAT and we loved each other. And than he came to me and told me that he cheated on me w/ his ex and this is when he became distant. And stopped hanging out w/ me and seeing me as often. Well. I told him that if he was willing to work on this relationship, than I was, and because he came to me about the situation right away, I gave him a second chance. And we went out for another month and a half or so. And than all of a sudden, back in September, he broke up w/ me. And I'm crushed because I love him so much and don't understand how things could get so bad so fast. I want to know if he'll come back to me. I feel he's the one.

2006-12-07 15:55:52 · 14 answers · asked by Justine M 1 in Singles & Dating

Exhibit A: about 3 years older than me, in a rock band, part of my social circle. We've sort of dated off and on for about a year, but never with the title... he's still very unsure that he wants to commit to us. We're both aware that we may never get together "officially." Yet we're both very attracted to one another.

Exhibit B: A new interest, sort of... little less than a year younger than me, involved in the same activities. He recently got out of a relationship, but we're both attracted. We're good friends and work together... we're just not sure whether we want to date or what.

2006-12-07 15:55:28 · 14 answers · asked by centralwimusic 3 in Singles & Dating

also, why was this question removed before?

2006-12-07 15:54:55 · 24 answers · asked by lovelyladypoet 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I am not sure what to do . My friend Sarah is really getting on my nerves with this car thing again. Her and I have gone through this a few times before and I am sure she knows how I feel about it. The problem is, a while back when we were patching things up she told me if this is going to be an on going problem she doesn't want nothing to do with me and lately it hasn't botherd me until now. I told her my car is probably going to need new breaks and I don't want to risk anyone elses life driving my car and right now I don't have the money to do it. I mean she'll drive but she says this all the time"well im only drivin if the weather isnt bad. otherwise i dont care about goin to racine if weather is nutsty. thats the only place i can go tho." That's the only place she can go...thats bs cuz she always says that yet me and our other friends drive to diff places and dont make a big deal about, yet she says she can only drive to that place and that's it...I think that's so unfair...it's not like we're asking her to drive all over the place, just drive for that ONE night.. it's really tickin me off again and I'd like to say something but I don't want to start another fight and junk...so I have no idea what I should do or how I should word it . I told her I can pick up some of the people in the group and meet her somewhere and we can take her car from there..so I think that's pretty fair... I just wish she'd do more of the driving...My friend Courtney and I do the majority of it....it wouldn't hurt Sarah to drive now and then either .

2006-12-07 15:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by mccamel1666 3 in Friends

Have you ever sat on someone's face who you were not friend going out with?

2006-12-07 15:52:43 · 2 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Singles & Dating

Last week i did this prank to the guy i liked. I left a thong (never wore it) in his car antena with a letter saying to meet me there the next night cause i wanted him to fu*k me in his car. So i told him to meet me at 11pm. So i went and hid, i wanted to see if he would actually go. About half an hour went by, but no one came. SO i left with my cousin, she was there with me. Then i went to my house and wanted to go back. i wanted to pass through his housed. So we went and were standing right next to his car when he walked in. Me and my cousin were shocked and just moved to another car, he was there like for 5 minutes and then he left. We never meant for him to know it was me. Should i talk to him, or no, i really like him. Once he said how come i never said hi, and after that he never said hi to me Does he like me, or what?

2006-12-07 15:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by lizx002 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I've been dating for 10 months and known for 3 years has still not told me that he loves me. He has never had a serious relationship before. He calls me all the time, will send me text messages in the morning saying "Good morning, beautiful" and messages at night saying sweet dreams. He even started to take me hunting with him, which is his ultimate passion! His parents took and picture of us in our camo and he got them developed and gave me one of us in a frame! I told him that I loved him about a week ago and he just told me that he "definitely cares for me a lot" What in the world?? Oh he has also told me that I was "growing on him"!!! Even his friends talk about how crazy he is for me and ask when we are getting married. Do you think he loves me by his actions and is just afraid to say it?? Keep in mind that his mom told me that his dad did not tell her he loved her until their wedding day!!! What should I do, is it worth hanging in there for?

2006-12-07 15:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by missinghim 1 in Singles & Dating

If not, mail me i shall introduce myself ....

2006-12-07 15:50:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 15:50:07 · 38 answers · asked by diamondg4u2c 3 in Singles & Dating

youknow who you are tell me you love me......you are the greatest thing in my life and i love you .
anyone else out there in love like me?? if so tell them here how you feel...

2006-12-07 15:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

with me for christmas?

2006-12-07 15:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by diamondg4u2c 3 in Singles & Dating

Invisible in school...invisible in class....same with teachers, god and so called friends
Ask the question hundered times....dont get an answer at all
What does it mean to be me?
You just cant figure it out i see
All you do is hate and ignore....well thats all your good about anyways
Think im a geek....guess what your a freak
Ignoring is your habit
Hating is your game
well guess again I've been there
no matter how many times
Im used to it now
SO GO FIND SOMEONE ELSE CAUSE IM GONE!

2006-12-07 15:49:10 · 12 answers · asked by Me 6 in Friends

I think they are smart because they know they cannot afford to keep waiting for the ideal man to come about. And they grab when a decent one come along, for some they are blessed with the choice they made and live happily ever after.

what do u think?

2006-12-07 15:48:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been getting along pretty well but as of lately shes been a little distant, so i asked her what was wrong, and she said that our relationship is straying away from the way it used to be. At first me and her we really good friends and id joke a lot but not she says that is going away and that she thinks that i see her just as a girlfriend now and not a friend anymore. How do i fix this?

2006-12-07 15:48:37 · 3 answers · asked by Tom F 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 15:48:34 · 15 answers · asked by deedubya 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How can i scan my photo in bharitya.com.

2006-12-07 15:48:22 · 7 answers · asked by SAPNA D 2 in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 months and hes 20 and im 16 i really want to get him something great for christmas but what should i get him?....also his birthday is coming up one the 31 what should i get him for that? i really want to get him something that makes him say wow she really does care?

2006-12-07 15:47:56 · 12 answers · asked by Princessbrj 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 15:47:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have a close friend who I treat like a sister. Three months ago, we had a major fight, actually we have many fights as friends do but this time, she called the police and had them stop me from calling her. Now I don't know why she did this since she knew that she had broken a promise to me and that I've looked out for her for so long. Maybe she knew this and she had done this many times and this time, she thought it was the last straw - I'm guessing guys...

So she is probably back from overseas and it's been about 3 months since there's been contact. Her friends say she never wanted things to go this far either but after all this, can I really forgive her? Even if I did, I can't ever trust her. I am 22 and she is 17, just letting you guys know if it helps. What do you guys reckon? Is there hope since I actually miss her and what do you guys reckon she'll do? Any answer is a good answer. Thanks.

2006-12-07 15:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by C. W. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

k heres my problem my ex we went out for about 10 months and we really had something you know but her family and friends do not like me at all. because of this she broke up with me and for about a month or two we have been going out off and on she tells me that she loves me and no matter what she has said that she does and breaking up with me was the biggest mistake of her life. k heres some more to add on she now has a boy friend and she said that he treats her badly and all he wants is sex. and she is wanting to go out with me just as friends but not tell him i dont know i what to do should i go back out with her or will she just dump me again as soon as i trust her

2006-12-07 15:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by jbird 2 in Singles & Dating