how do you forget someone?

Question

i liked her in the 6th introduced to her by a friend(her ex) we were great friends all trhough Middle school when i was taken out of public school i never got to say good bye and i went to a private school 8and 9grade i tought she had moved to a diff city but my sophmore year the day i finnally see her again my hearth is racing and i cant even stop to say hello in the public school hallway

when classes finnaly started i made the mistake of sending her a poem not knowing she had a BF me and her talked but not a whole lot big school

not a day went nor goes by that i dont think of her

she is now married and has two beautiful girls
but how do you forget a crush that big

a "something" that wasnt "anything"

i can honestly say i love her yes she know that i liked her and
i was told later that she would have gone out with me BUT because i was to shy to ask her nothing happened

what do i do PLEASE NO STUPID ANSWERS

even when i talk to her on myspace i still feel something BTW im in collge now its been 7yrs and i still feel the same way about her

Answer 1

only thing you can do now, learn a lesson from this because you have paid dearly for it. There is nothing you can do to retrieve what might have been, that door is closed, but you can remember this and never let your fear or the opinions of others prevent you from doing what your heart tells you. You can never have a dream come true if you never go after your dreams. Use this to motivate you the next time shyness tries to hold you back and do not let it happen to you again. Good Luck

EDIT: Stop torturing yourself and stop risking her marriage and her family. Nothing good can come of talking to her on MySpace or anywhere else. What is the point? Is she going to leave her husband for you? is she going to cheat on him with you? Can you live happily ever after? The answer to all these questions is NO. Please let the wounds heal and they can't if you continue contact. I think you know that already but if you needed to hear it, I just said it for you.

Answer 2

I think this is great. I am 25 and I had my first kiss at 15- he was also my first boyfriend. I am still in love with him to this day. I only realized it ultimately when he told me that he was engaged and I just felt so sad. It makes no sense because I have been married for 5 years now. Some people will just always have a piece of our heart, but we just have to move on. Time will heal you somewhat but not completely.

Answer 3

You can never forget somebody that had your heart. I still think about my highschool crush and it has been 12 years since I liked him. I never really went out with him either. Just keep her as a good memory and try to move on. Once you find somebody that you truly love, the thoughts of her wont be so strong in your mind. Good luck! It is hard to control obessive thoughts!

Answer 4

if she is married now , then do yourself a favor , and move on..........find someone else (and do not say that there is noone else),YOU NEED TO LOOK OUT FOR YOU !!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

You don't forget!....You move on.