I dated this this girl for 3 years. Lived togather for 2 years we been split up 2 months and i havnt moved on. Our relationshup had alot of jealousy issues on both of our part Is it normal to let your gf go out all night with friends and bars cause i didnt let her i kinda feel like she has a life too. Other hand she wouldnt let me do it either so we broke up. She still calls mme but usuallygets mad cause i tell her that i miss her she says if i want anything then i need to not be so jealousand controlling. I understand what she is saying do you think she really wants to try again??
2006-12-07 15:57:13 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if you're willing to meet her halfway, meaning... give her her space... don't be so controlling.. you guys aren't married, so there's no reason to hold her down...
2006-12-07 16:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by hawaiiangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been living with the same man for going on 11 years. Before we even started being serious we both kept waiting for the other to start showing our true colors because we both have been in really bad relationships.
Neither one of us has changed yet, but it took us two years before we started relaxing with each other. You both should be passed that part also. I have no desire to go out and get away from him because we don't fight and we really get along well. That's not to say we don't have disagreements from time to time, but that's normal. Find things you can do together that you both enjoy.
I don't recommend bars separate or together, that always leads to fights of jealousy and distrust. Do you have any kids? either of you seperate or together?If you are going to fight and not trust each other, then there's no reason to be together. Look up the definition of love and caring and trusting. I f you can't do that, then move on, there are still plenty of good people out there.
2006-12-07 16:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by lauraclark9949@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you two were living together, you weren't married. So in my opinion you both had a right to go out with the girls/guys for an all nighter if you needed it. About the jealousy, just try and work on it. All women are naturally jealous/territorial creatures and we feel we have to control and watch over what is "ours". Some of us have been able to work through that issue. Both of you need to acknowledge that there were problems and talk through them. Communication is key in a relationship. And if she says something you don't agree with don't get upset. It's important to try and see both sides to everything. Hope this helps.
2006-12-07 16:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking that having a loving relationship means that we are not tempted by other women is natural and even intuitive. Unfortunately, the reality is that we are tempted all the time despite being in a healthy relationship. Sex is generally separate from love in our minds whereas for women, the association is closer. Don't confuse temptation with the desire to cheat though. If your BF is genuinely into you, the temptation stops at just short of flirting with another girl. If you BF is shy and introverted, this will happen less often. If you have an alpha male in your life, prepare to be jealous a whole lot.
2016-05-23 05:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she does to me. When youve been with someone so long its hard, especially for us women, to move on. If you do want to get back together, you MUST work on trust issues. Me and my boyf had the same problems during the first few years of our relationship. Once we learned to be more trusting in one another, everything became a lot better
2006-12-07 16:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by prudentzeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people are living together, they don't often stay out all night without their partner. I don't think you were wrong for not allowing this. She may want to get back together but only on her terms. You need to decide if it's something you can accept or not.
2006-12-07 16:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it seems. If she calls u after a break up that means she wants 2 try again...
2006-12-07 16:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by LoL ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are trust issues on both sides here. you need to let her go out and have fun, she needs to let you go out and have fun. but it will be awful if all night your wondering where she is, and what she is doing. you need to work on trusting eachother. if you cant trust eachother, you cant be together. trust is HUGE in a relationship.
2006-12-07 16:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might want to try again but seems she is not sure yet coz she's thinking about the reasons why u broke up
2006-12-07 16:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is willing, but only if you get it together.
2006-12-07 16:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋