Have a close friend who I treat like a sister. Three months ago, we had a major fight, actually we have many fights as friends do but this time, she called the police and had them stop me from calling her. Now I don't know why she did this since she knew that she had broken a promise to me and that I've looked out for her for so long. Maybe she knew this and she had done this many times and this time, she thought it was the last straw - I'm guessing guys...
So she is probably back from overseas and it's been about 3 months since there's been contact. Her friends say she never wanted things to go this far either but after all this, can I really forgive her? Even if I did, I can't ever trust her. I am 22 and she is 17, just letting you guys know if it helps. What do you guys reckon? Is there hope since I actually miss her and what do you guys reckon she'll do? Any answer is a good answer. Thanks.
2006-12-07 15:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by C. W. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your friend is still young.
You however are an adult(legally) at 22.
Let her grow up a bit, and if she makes contact with you asking for forgiveness, give it to her and move on with your life. If she wishes to get together, say in a year or so, go ahead. You would be at less risk of trouble from dating(or more) a minor in a year or so.
2006-12-07 16:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by csburridge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Chill out
you must understand that reaction under pressure is an impulse that she has had time to think,
If she is a real friend no matter the age, she can talk now,
Just be gentle and be sincere not weepy or begging.
2006-12-07 23:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jon S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a person asking you Sorry, that person is Man (human being)
if u forgive that person, u are God. dont you knoe forgiving is the great punishment for a wrong. i dint tell you punish her. u can forgive her and u can have conacts with her. from ur point of view its better if u have a limited relationship with her. after u start to talk with her u can ask her why she did it? anyway u little be careful about her. this is my comment. if u actually dont want to talk with her, then dont talk. u have to decide. anyway take care of ur self. God bless you.
2006-12-07 23:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by karan v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since there's a restraining order and she's a minor, it's better to stay away from her before you get arrested as a sexual predator.
2006-12-07 23:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what happened in the fight. shes young, you probably scared her bad
2006-12-07 23:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me she is still young and it will come to her in time so don't give up on her OK
2006-12-08 00:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by leahstone67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋