k heres my problem my ex we went out for about 10 months and we really had something you know but her family and friends do not like me at all. because of this she broke up with me and for about a month or two we have been going out off and on she tells me that she loves me and no matter what she has said that she does and breaking up with me was the biggest mistake of her life. k heres some more to add on she now has a boy friend and she said that he treats her badly and all he wants is sex. and she is wanting to go out with me just as friends but not tell him i dont know i what to do should i go back out with her or will she just dump me again as soon as i trust her
2006-12-07 15:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by jbird 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I'd say if it didn't work the first time,and you haven't resolved why that was. then you should expect the same thing to happen.
remember there was a reason it didn't work out.
do you want to go through it again?
hopefully not.
move on she is just playing with you.
if you feel like you want her back then you should sit down and find out exactly where you both went wrong and rectify that situation before you decide to go another round.
think about it for a bit, she's not going anywhere.
good luck do what you feel in your heart is the right thing, don't just jump in.
2006-12-07 15:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by celestialangel43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow- if everything you say is completely true, then your ex has problems. It's never a good idea to become friends or remain friends with an exes friend. Once it's over, you should break all ties. Otherwise, it's a recipe for real trouble, at some point. If I were you, and if you insist on keeping the other girl as your friend, I wouldn't even mention your exes name. She likes to stir up trouble. It's best to keep her as far away as possible. Sooner or later, she'll be seen for what she truly is.
2016-05-23 05:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves the sex with him and just wants you to be her intellectual emotional buddy that she pours her heart out to before going to her boyfriend's place to get satisfied sexually. That's what I'm getting out of what you wrote. Don't talk to her again, and find someone that wants to really be in a relationship with you. Don't be that shoulder to cry on for her thinking that she'll leave the guy for you, because she's just gonna do it so she can stay with the guy. She already told you she just wants to hang out with friends take that as a clear sign and move on.
2006-12-07 15:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just using you go find a real woman and forget about that DOG. She just wants you because she sees you like the way out. Don't play her game. Find Someone that would not take you for granted.
2006-12-07 15:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by gloisl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to find someone else, dont even get in the middle of this...
2006-12-07 16:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you will not be her emotional booty call and that she needs to make up her mind because you need closure and need to move on
2006-12-07 15:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by mist28nc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for her to stop listening to others.move on and if and when she grows up then think of her as an option again
2006-12-07 15:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by d3adbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust her. She dumped u once she'll do it again
2006-12-07 15:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Vic 420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check it. idk why you would want to get back with her!!! if she wanted u back she would break up with her BF... she says he treats her bad but then why is she with him.. girls like *** holes and i take ur not one... so if u want her back be an *** hole to her and she will be all over nuts in no time... so blow her off and ur golden.
2006-12-07 15:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she didn't say she cannot have more than one bf
2006-12-07 15:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋