also, why was this question removed before?
2006-12-07 15:54:55 · 24 answers · asked by lovelyladypoet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am waiting until marriage to have sex! Good for you-- this is the best decision and there aren't very many of us. I have that man now and we are engaged. I'm enjoying every single day loving him more and more, and knowing that he will be forever. That kind of pure love should be rewarded by a pure body! I hope the same for you and stay strong in this decision!
2006-12-07 15:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by reba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a virgin and PROUD to say that I'm waiting till marriage to have sex.
This is how I feel about it ...
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I have a boyfriend of almost 10 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2006-12-07 15:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why your question was removed - it is a viable question. I waited 24 years to have sex before marriage. I am a guy and have been married 35 years. My wife and I have something in common - we have only had sex with one another only. Oh, I was tempted, but I am glad that I waited according to God's instruction to us.
2006-12-07 16:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Doug R 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i want to be, i've come close to losing that already. But i will hold on because i really think the guy i'm with right now is the one for me but if he isn't then i don't want to give part of my body to him that doesn't belong to him. hold onto your virginity sweety, it'll be the best gift your husband can give you on your wedding night.
Sex was designed by God to be used within the guidelines. Many, many, many people abuse his rules and play without them. this may sound weird but compare sex to a basketball game and a fire. one, the basketball game has to have rules right? well, what if one of the players decided that there is no out of bounds and all that. it wouldn't be basketball, as it was meant to be played. As a fire...think of a fireplace, it can be comforting and warming within the boudaries of the firplace, if it released, it will burn the house down. Sex was designed to stay within the bounds of marriage, so my answer is...no matter what people say about you because you want to wait ( and i hope you do ) don't let them discourage you and put you down. you're waiting to give that very important, special gift to the one you know will support you in life and will love you unconditionally for the rest of your lives together. wait, please and set the example for the other young people in your area. oh and another thing...if your boyfriend/fiance pushes you to have sex with him. then he doesn't love you, because if he does love you he will respect your decision and wait with you until the vows are said and the ceremony is over. After that, go for it! God Bless i hope you keep your word and stay by your boundaries, but always remember, the fire, do you want to burn or be warm? your choice.
2006-12-07 16:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when I got married. I was tempted many times during my dating times, but I always knew I wanted my first time to be with somone I could trust, love, and know he was going to be there in the morning and not gone. And there was also the concern on the HIV thing. I say wait, until you know it's gonna be forever. I'll tell you my husband says it's somthing he appreciates about me and he says he respects me more as a wife and woman to know he's been the only man in my life. GOOD LUCK! Even if it feels right, and youre not 100 and 10% possitive it's what you want, then you need to wait.!
2006-12-07 16:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had thought about waiting to have sex until I was married. I only lost my virginity about 3 months ago and I'm 20. I my as well have been married though because this is the guy I'm going to spend the rest of my life with.
It's nice to know that I've only ever had sex with one guy in my entire life and no one else.
2006-12-07 15:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by memoriesareabeach 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should wait because many things can go wrong. the person could be lying to you and might have aids or many std's. also condoms don't always work and you may end up pregnant. if you don't wait till marriage then at least wait until you are positive you are in love and a commited relationship
2006-12-07 15:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by xo marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i had. The first person I ever slept with was my (now) husband, but we split up for a little while and i slept with a friend of mine. Then there was a drunken night that i did some stuff with a female friend of ours and then he did some stuff with her and i did some stuff with her boyfriend. I wish none of that would have happened. I wish I would have waited until we were married, because that is a commitment that i respect way more than dating, and he would have been the only one that i had every been with.
2006-12-07 16:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the important thing is that you date a guy who's on the same channel... i mean, if you both *want* this that's great! but if he's just pretending to go along just hoping you'll give up some day and have sex with him then it's not so cool... in my experience guys as a species aren't big fans of the whole waiting thing ;-)
2006-12-07 16:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I wanna do it with someone I really care about and feels the same about me. He would know me quite well, so losing my virginity to him won't feel so akward but natural.
Sex is a pure way to express love, and my hubby will be the only one guy I can love like this.
Sorry if that sounded a little "Bridget Jones", but I've been waiting to type this for a while.
2006-12-07 16:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋