Well I am not sure what to do . My friend Sarah is really getting on my nerves with this car thing again. Her and I have gone through this a few times before and I am sure she knows how I feel about it. The problem is, a while back when we were patching things up she told me if this is going to be an on going problem she doesn't want nothing to do with me and lately it hasn't botherd me until now. I told her my car is probably going to need new breaks and I don't want to risk anyone elses life driving my car and right now I don't have the money to do it. I mean she'll drive but she says this all the time"well im only drivin if the weather isnt bad. otherwise i dont care about goin to racine if weather is nutsty. thats the only place i can go tho." That's the only place she can go...thats bs cuz she always says that yet me and our other friends drive to diff places and dont make a big deal about, yet she says she can only drive to that place and that's it...I think that's so unfair...it's not like we're asking her to drive all over the place, just drive for that ONE night.. it's really tickin me off again and I'd like to say something but I don't want to start another fight and junk...so I have no idea what I should do or how I should word it . I told her I can pick up some of the people in the group and meet her somewhere and we can take her car from there..so I think that's pretty fair... I just wish she'd do more of the driving...My friend Courtney and I do the majority of it....it wouldn't hurt Sarah to drive now and then either .
2006-12-07 15:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by mccamel1666 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont want to lose a friend over a stupid thing like this but I feel like she's being selfish in this area! It wouldn't hurt her to drive a little more!!
2006-12-07 15:55:24 · update #1
We each have our own cars, but its stupid to all go sperately if we're all hanging out and going to the same places anyway, and Courtney and I drive most of the time I'd just like Sarah to do a little more..I dk how to word it??
2006-12-07 16:18:11 · update #2
Simply refuse to do the driving for a while.
If in order for her to like you and to be your friend, you have to drive her every where, shes not a true friends. True friendships are unconditional. Try to word it in the nicest way possible to avoid a fight.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 15:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by onekewlpenguin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could have an intervention. Everyone meet and report all the driving that each person does. This is only effective in a group, otherwise it turns into another fight.
Just start it off by saying we need to find a fair way to split the car pool.
2006-12-08 00:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. watch out !
2006-12-07 23:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Robert P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋