Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

well my grandmother raised me and i think she did a good job. i like 2 believe i'm a good person i have a great job and good friends a na a great boyfriend, but i do wish she hadnt spoiled me as much some times i wish she had been a little tougher on me i think it would have prepared me better 4 life.

2006-12-06 03:32:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i wanna know this thing about men.

if a 37 year old man was sitting, a man of morals and a good man.
and a 16 year old hot sexy attractive beautiful girl passees by him.
will he get attracted to her, i mean he wont go talk to her and hitt n her because he is a man of morals, but i mean the thought, will it come to his mind.

will he think of her.

2006-12-06 03:32:25 · 37 answers · asked by hgfd f 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is 23. He has been taking money out of our savings for gambling. About 3,600.00 in the past 2 weeks. He lies to me about going to this poolhall where he plays the machines there and loses like hundreds of dollars. When i find out about it he turns it around and tells me he doesn't want to be with someone who controls him. I honestly never tell him what to do. He tells me he doesn't want to go to the poolhall anymore because he loses so much money there, then 2 days later he goes and then lies about it and says he's working. It's like he chooses to make a responsible decision himself or willingly then lies about it. But he gets mad whenever i confront him about it so half the time i have to just bite my tongue so he doesn't get mad even though he was in the wrong for something. I want to support him through this gambling problem but i don't know how he won't go to meetings

2006-12-06 03:32:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would a perfect man for all women be a guy that invented a toilet seat that automatically goes down itself after use?

2006-12-06 03:31:14 · 26 answers · asked by Ed G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how come i answer a question but a few days later its deleted!??

2006-12-06 03:30:44 · 7 answers · asked by I'm a HBIC 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When is good time to move in with some one that you love, how long do you wait? My boyfriend and I have very limited time together, with school and work.

2006-12-06 03:30:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 03:30:35 · 15 answers · asked by Shit Ban 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend is really into sports he used to play football so hes a fan but there is only one problem I dont know what to get him for christmas I need HELP!!

2006-12-06 03:30:20 · 6 answers · asked by Pink Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

what is most attractive in a girl? and what could a girl do to make u fancy her?

2006-12-06 03:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy and we went out awhile ago and we are still friends. We still talk on the phone and stuff and when we do he tells me that he still has feelings for me, and all this other stuff...like he likes being around me, i make him feel good as a person and down there. He tells me all this stuff and i wonderedmaybe he really does still have feelings for me and stuff. But then a friend of mine asked him if he still liked me and he said no ive been done with that.. and she would not lie to me! so idk if all what he is telling me is a lie or if its the turth...i dont konw what to believe. i think that he does still care about me but he doesnt want otther people to know that. What should i do?? Who should i believe?

2006-12-06 03:30:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always been attracted to intelligent, confident women. My fiancee and I have been dating for three years now, and in that time we've graduated from college. She's gone on to grad school, and I'm in the military. Her self-discipline and determination are paying off handsomely, and I have no doubt that she will earn her PhD as planned. I will be getting out of the military soon because we want to start a family, but I am not at all confident in what I will do when I get out. Sometimes I find myself comparing myself to her, which only makes things worse. What can I do to overcome my lack of confidence so that I can just be happy with the possibilities of the life ahead of us?

2006-12-06 03:29:51 · 4 answers · asked by generalist 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard from a friend that he's just waiting for me to do the moves, because according to him, he has the pride so he can't contact me..for the past 2 years im always the one who does the move to communicate everytime we have a fight but im not gonna give in now to his pride. am i doing the right thing? should i still wait for him or just forget about him?

2006-12-06 03:29:19 · 15 answers · asked by julietwithoutmyromeo 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is in a nursing home. I am the only child and I live in Arkansas (she is in California) and the only granddaughter lives in Virginia. She needs 24 hour care but I feel so guilty for not being there to take care of her. I am a property manager so I can not move. My daughter is in the military. Any suggestions on how to cope with this?

2006-12-06 03:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by Sim 2 in Family

2006-12-06 03:28:37 · 24 answers · asked by ashika s 1 in Singles & Dating

that you are a "Good Catch".....what do you do for your lover that makes you unforgetable?

2006-12-06 03:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by beachnut222000 4 in Singles & Dating

I know how I feel...but I wanted your opinion/views on the pros & cons of dating guys who are 10-12 years younger?

2006-12-06 03:27:50 · 13 answers · asked by godsmacksun23 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night I was talking with my G/F and while I was doing that her son was teasing my dog with his toy. She had asked him to stop but he keept doing it, a bit later I got a bit upset and grabbed his arm and took the toy from his hand to give it to my dog. Her son then wen't to the living room and a couple of minutes later my G/F told me it was best if I just wen't home. He told her that I had squeezed his chest and she told me he was red around his chest area. I know what I did and what I didn't do but she seemed to take his side more. We emailed each other last night but it just seems like I am telling the lie and not her son. She will always take his side, so what should I do? What if one day he says that I did something really bad that could get into trouble just because he doesn't want me around? Please give me good advice, thank you.

2006-12-06 03:27:21 · 10 answers · asked by Skullsoda 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay there is this girl right. You know the story. I've known her for years but we were never close. ANd to top it off I was raised in a not very social house. So now when I'm around this girl I feel kind of wierd. Like I want to talk to her and get to know her, but I can't. Its wierd. I feel so strange when ever she is around. I don't know if this is because I like her or not. If so. What should I do?

2006-12-06 03:27:19 · 5 answers · asked by Tetris 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has an awesome job, and he is pretty responsible. His family situation is complicated, the bottom line?
His mother(wonderful lady) has a drinking/gambling problem...
My boyfriend is constantly helping her out. Going to work for her (they both work at the same company) for free. Lending her money, without expecting it back.
I feel bad for him. He has such a big heart. He thinks he's helping her, and I just feel all he's really doing is enabling her to continue with her addictions. On top of it...his older sister is dating a much older guy, and recently got pregnant. The two of them had no where to go seeing they were evicted from their previous apartment. And because my bf lives in a 2 bedroom apartment, his family left him with no choice but to take his sister, and her bf in. He's an awesome bf, I just don't know what to do.

2006-12-06 03:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

described herself as independent ...would you guy be put off asking her out

2006-12-06 03:27:04 · 7 answers · asked by cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

he doesn't treat you good or bad. how long will you keep him around just for amazing sex?

2006-12-06 03:26:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok theres this guy that i like,an he just so happens to be my maniger at wor.hes about 5 years older then me.but i really like him and i finly told him how i felt. so then he starts coin over to my house an we make out...but then once i ask him how he feels he says he doesnt want a realatinship right now an he doesnt want 2 be commited..........then i ask him if he even sees me as more then just a friend. he tells me idk. iam so confuse he acts like he cair but when i want 2 be more then friends he backs away...what does this mean? am i just waisting my time?

2006-12-06 03:26:02 · 12 answers · asked by AUBRIE L 2 in Singles & Dating

Can you still have your heart broken if you had fallen for someone or does it only happen when you are in love?

2006-12-06 03:25:34 · 4 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I have been best friends for 15 yrs, in most ways shes a great friend shes kind funny full of good advice but theres one problem shes really jelaous! We re both big girls shes quite a bit larger than me though, I'm currently on a diet and the weights starting to come off slowly, I ve also started going to the gym, but she loves to put the knife in, she l say things like oh you look much more attractive bigger, you looked terrible slim your face was too long, when I started the gym she rang to inform me that she d read in the paper someone had dropped down dead on his way home from the gym, when I told her my doctor had advised me to loose weight she implied my doctor didint know what she was talking about and that because i'm tall i dont look overweight anyway!!! (my friends a nurse and thinks she knows everything about everything) i ve tried including her by asking her to come with me but no, I really like her but this envy things driving me crazy!!!! help

2006-12-06 03:25:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i asked earlier and the only answer I got didn't help much...Trace Adkins released the video for "Ladies Love Country Boys" well, there's this red head on the street (she's the one on the left in the white blouse and a greenish gray skirt) right after he steps out of his truck (she about has to go the chriopracted after rubbernecking like that) and she's in the end of the video front and center....she winks at the camera....kinda messes up her hair and everything....man.....she is HOT!!! who is she????...someone told me to google the credits...well...all I get is the something about view the video without a credit card...how do I find her....or does anyone know who she is?????

2006-12-06 03:24:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 03:23:38 · 11 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

...hook up with. She told me all about it and said that he was asking her if she still thought about "it" meaning either the time they hooked up or his penis. Should I be worried?

2006-12-06 03:22:29 · 20 answers · asked by smithduq 1 in Singles & Dating

When something bad happens, all you need is one person. It doesn't matter what the rest of the world thinks; all you need is one good friend who understands you and will love you no matter what mistakes you make. But i have no one. There is not a soul that i can talk to. I have made a mistake, and i don't have the guts to talk about it. I physically cant talk. I would come out and tell the truth- but there isn't one. There's no big secret, i just messed up. But that makes me look like a horrible person. Who would be that irresponsible on purpose? I used to be the one that everyone trusted. I was always the responsible one and everyone depended on me. Now i am nothing but a failure and a burden to all those around me. I would need an excuse to gain trust- but i don't want to gain trust by telling a lie. I cannot live my life that way anymore. So i have decided that i am better off alone. I dont want anyome to get hurt because of me.Redemption is too far away for me now. I must start ove

2006-12-06 03:22:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm not complaining, just wondering is this something that other women think about/do?

2006-12-06 03:22:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my man alot...just yesterday I posted that I wanna get married someday but he just told me he has a baby by another woman...my heart is so broken, we been together for two years off and on and he actually cheated in january on me when we wre still talking...I cried so much...it hurts that i have to take the back seat now to this "baby mama" as he calls it...ugh it always happens to me...every man I love ends up getting some girl preg and im not joking. my very first love had a child then a recent breakup w my other ex now him...ugh God why is it spiraling like this! Damnit I love him and I know I will get so jealous and everythime he mentions or sees the child i will want to ugh Damn!!!!!!!!!! What do i do as a good gf? What can I do to get rid of this jealous rage!

2006-12-06 03:21:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating