I heard from a friend that he's just waiting for me to do the moves, because according to him, he has the pride so he can't contact me..for the past 2 years im always the one who does the move to communicate everytime we have a fight but im not gonna give in now to his pride. am i doing the right thing? should i still wait for him or just forget about him?
2006-12-06 03:29:19 · 15 answers · asked by julietwithoutmyromeo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you haven't spoke for 1 1/2 months you really didn't have a relationship in the first place. Why do you think he needs to apologize. If you make the first move than you would know where he stands. If it was worth the fight it should be worth an answer. You may have grown apart. I would say talk to him and work it out to just be friends. It may be time to move on.
2006-12-06 03:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by daisygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has no problem not talking to you for such a long amount of time then you need to rethink why you are in any kind of relationship with this guy. If it's something you think is worth keeping then you are going to have to work with his pride. Personally, I'd find someone who valued time with me more.
2006-12-06 03:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that thick headed that he cant say "i'm sorry" because of male pride, then what other issues does he have? This male ego crap, dosent make for good relationships, because all their concerned with.... Is themselves. MOVE ON & find yourself a guy who isent afraid to express his feelings, you'll be better off.
2006-12-06 03:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a lot of guys seem to be pretty stubborn like that...i think if ou REALLY care about him and dont want to lose him then call him up BUT talk to him about how u need him to make some moves too the next time u fight and that you cant always be the one trying to fix things....rememner it takes two to have a lasting relationship..
best wishes :)
2006-12-06 03:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant always be the one to make the move. his pride will have to give at some point if he really cares for u. but if ur really in love with him then try to make it work. if ur hesitant about getting back in a relationship with him then move on and dont look back...
2006-12-06 03:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you feel in your heart? That is your answer. By the way a relationship is 100/100% input from each partner. If you feel you are putting in 125% to his 0%, then that is a huge red flag. You deserve better.
Take care-
Cat
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2006-12-06 03:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl if he doesnt make the move dont wait 4 him it obvious he thinks he is in charge if you always have to make a move thats wrong then proboly its just a booty call i say forget about him
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-06 03:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Pink Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, who's in fault? 2nd, ru able to end this relationship in such way? 3rd, If his pride is so important den u,ask him to move aside. Aft 2yrs of giving in,dont u feel sick & tiring? It's time for u to get some pamper & dote. Stay cool gal....
2006-12-06 03:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to live like that your whole life? Just to save him his pride? I think that you should move on, if he loves you and wants to be with you he will get over it and just do it!
2006-12-06 03:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by JennDawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Just playing games.
2006-12-06 03:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by bigd49512 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋