...hook up with. She told me all about it and said that he was asking her if she still thought about "it" meaning either the time they hooked up or his penis. Should I be worried?
2006-12-06 03:22:29 · 20 answers · asked by smithduq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the problem with the past, it profoundly affects our future. It's a shame we don't have more discretion.
You can't control what she thinks about and though it's not pleasant to hear she probably still does. No different than you think about past girls too.
But the good news is if this current relationship is flowing well, if there are tons of happy and good times she'll be thinking more about you and less about him. You can replace some of her older memories by making new ones with her right now. But...of course not if you're paralyzed by fear or worry.
2006-12-06 03:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PUA....Stands for Pick Up Artists. I know it seems scammy and weird, but when i read some of the tips, they seemed pretty legitimate and i think if a guy used these on me, it would totally work. The link in the blog talks about getting out of the friend zone and actually the girl u want
2016-05-23 00:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would depend on how she answered your questions. The fact that she did tell you about it shows some honesty so its unlikely you have anything to worry about, but that's not true in every situation either.
2006-12-06 03:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by niknac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you trust her? She told you about the IM so it doesn't sound as if she is hiding anything. She can't control someone IMing her, if it continues then you should worry, but not with just one message.
2006-12-06 03:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Halo? Ru ok? I mean some1 asked ur GF such quest. U still sound calm & able to ask our opinion.. My goodness, U dont seem care much for her. So i guess she's not the 1 for u ya.
2006-12-06 03:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u don't know what could happen, even if you do trust her u should still be worried what about you if u got a im from 1 of your xgf don't you think she would think the same thing that u r thinking about?
2006-12-06 03:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by jamie_lynn_duke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend should respond to the inappropriate nature of the IM by telling him that it was inappropriate and that she is in a relationship. This would hopefully stop any future contact and its the right thing to do out of respect for herself and you.
2006-12-06 03:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by Melli 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, i mean is a good sign she told you about it, how ever keep an eye on it you never know. Make sure she doesnt talk to him again, nicely mention to her that you wouldnt like her talking to him again. Good luck
2006-12-06 03:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not reason to be worry about.Most of men think they are or were so important in women's life and they need to have their ego in a good standing.Just drop it, she was very honest with you.
2006-12-06 03:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by lovetoyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should worry. Tell her to tell him to leave her alone! That is none of his business! Get her straight and kick that guys as S. Well... thats what I did in the same situation.
2006-12-06 03:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Brevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋