Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

Guy A:
was a guy a met about 2 yrs ago
he happened to call me one night when i was suicidal and saying "god i will kill myself now if u dont give me a sign"
and he barely knew me and called me 5 minutes later at 2:30 cuz he wanted to talk and by the end of the night i was smiling my head off and i considered him my angel

later on he dated me and wounded up leaving me for her and kinda cheating and stuff too... but i kno he didnt use me cuz there are some things you cant pretend... and he came to my house apologizing and broke up with her to be with me and says im all he ever thinks about and hes all i ever think about

guy B;
would NEVER hurt me
never cheated
always there for me
buuut we dont have a whole lot in common like guy A and he doesnt make me as happy or give me butterflies but i kno hel stay faithful

i need to decide soon i cant do this anymore
its not fair to Guy B for me to stay with him when i have feeligns for A but i dont wanna get hurt again =/

2006-12-06 19:27:43 · 8 answers · asked by yourguardianangel88 2 in Singles & Dating

Need a frank response from guys and gals...

2006-12-06 19:27:09 · 5 answers · asked by akumar122 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend made 12 million! I am so jealous! I made six figures and I felt good about it until I heard about what he made.

2006-12-06 19:24:17 · 10 answers · asked by DeadmanWalks 3 in Friends

2006-12-06 19:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by mam 2 in Singles & Dating

I went calling the guy I like crying on the phone saying I'm in love with him. I've been told that I shouldn't have done that coz I looked pathetic and it's very unattractive and that based on the guy's response, he seems to be irritated at my approach. That I came on too strong that just because I'm in love with him doesn't mean he owes me a relationship. That I looked pathetic and I had no self-esteem.

I know I'm wrong. I shouldn't have done it. People said I should go see a therapist due to my behavior and what I did to him and that I had self-esteem issues.

I might have lost a friend in the guy I like. What should I do? He hates me now. I'm going to see him again tonight coz there's this party he and I are both invited to. How should I act around him tonight? Should i keep a distance and ignore him?

Sorry, I asked a lot of questions. It's just that my crying to this guy last week very much affected me.

I apologized to him.

2006-12-06 19:23:34 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pomegranate

I really hate eating this fruit. I'm not really scared of it... it just makes me uneasy. Maybe because it's so WEIRD!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Pomegranate03_edit.jpg

It's just that the seeds being all clumped together like that is kind of weird/scary.

Does anyone else feel uneasy about eating these??

2006-12-06 19:23:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so we have been together for almost a year and now hw wants to try taking a break for us to try being a part for a while and i still love him and dont want to lose him what do i do?

2006-12-06 19:23:18 · 10 answers · asked by Bethany In Houston 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 19:21:07 · 12 answers · asked by smith 1 in Singles & Dating

i just got married 3 months back... my husband stayed here with me till one month.. then he left to other country where he do job... my mother in law is not fair with me... she always creates fuss just becouse she cant keep me in her control... she wants me to be in control of her.. she want me not to take even a single decisions of myself .. i have to ask permision from her for every small thing... & my husb tell me to obey her.. the problem is she is not fair with me. I take permision from her for everything as they want.. but still she do my complains to my husband by calling him when she feels that iam not in her control... THE MAIN PROBLEM IS my husband believes his mother more than me !!! to support his mother he can even tell lie to me ! i have seen that.. and also i have proof of it with me ! But these things are spoiling our relationship.. TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO.. so that .. the relation between my husband and me should not spoil....

2006-12-06 19:21:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-06 19:19:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got married 3 months back... my husband stayed here with me till one month.. then he left to other country where he do job... my mother in law is not fair with me... she always creates fuss just becouse she cant keep me in her control... she wants me to be in control of her.. she want me not to take even a single decisions of myself .. i have to ask permision from her for every small thing... & my husb tell me to obey her.. the problem is she is not fair with me. I take permision from her for everything as they want.. but still she do my complains to my husband by calling him when she feels that iam not in her control... THE MAIN PROBLEM IS my husband believes his mother more than me !!! to support his mother he can even tell lie to me ! i have seen that.. and also i have proof of it with me ! But these things are spoiling our relationship.. TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO.. so that .. the relation between my husband and me should not spoil....

2006-12-06 19:19:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is my question... Why do men not want to date me?
I mean... I can't beleave I'm saying this online... but I did'nt get my first kiss yet! I'm cute and funny... SURE I play video games and I play with the oujia board but I stoped becouse my mother got a bad report on her cancer levels and SURE I can do things that knowone could but me like relax for thee hour no distractions and oh and I can't spell that fast or in big words...

2006-12-06 19:17:55 · 6 answers · asked by farmgoddess19 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 19:15:57 · 8 answers · asked by rulik33 1 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to my crush yesterday
We are both seniors at high school
I have been secretly crushing on this girl and hinting her

we were talking about movies (i just got back from it at that time) so she suggested some other ones that i should see

then she followed up with when am I going to go see it
cause she says "cuz i want to come too" (since she work there so I think she can go in for free)

I said sure

Does she want to give me a shot (How does she know i like her)?

What should i do now? in the movie?

I do NOT want to screw this up...
Should i bring her a gift? (I have already bought her a gift that she told that she wanted it but since dont got any money at the moment cant get it... should i give it to her on that day or as
orginiall planned - as her xmas present?)

Today she was waving at me in class but i thought she was waving to her friend so i didnt wave back... I found out when she was told me and was so embarrassed....

2006-12-06 19:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 19:12:22 · 15 answers · asked by mam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help. If I rent it under my name, its a big liability...he cannot do it coz he does not have a credit card to do it...he said he will pay me cash..which is k...but in case something happens to the car it is my responsibilty! Right! But he is a good friend...any suggestions! Please help..thanx in advance.

2006-12-06 19:12:21 · 19 answers · asked by Msfunloving 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok guys, here's the deal. i've been with my this gf for over 2 years now. this july, she went over to aussy to further her studies. at 1st its fine, but when time goes by, she get to know a lot guy frenz and she would tell me she's going ktv with her frenz, you know stuffs like dat. i am actually quite a paranoid person. very insercure to be exact. i keep thinking negative things, like she's flirting with other guys. maybe she does, maybe she doesnt, but i juz couldnt trust her totally. she cheated on me once b4, but its juz those online bf that they used to call and chat and sms but has never met up.
anyway the point is that i cant seem to trust a gal completely, is there sth wrong with me? or it cuz i've been cheated b4, so tats y? (my ex gf sort of cheated on me as well)
is there anyway dat i could help myself?

2006-12-06 19:12:01 · 5 answers · asked by sulaji84 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 19:11:28 · 6 answers · asked by dafiahmad 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend died. She left me her guitar. I went to the lake to be alone to grieve. I met this old bum living on the lake in a tent. He was dying of alcoholism and looked very scarey. Still, I saw somthing in his eyes and I knew I had to help him. I found out he used to be in a band and he had pawned his guitar. I had my friends guitar in my car and I handed it to him and asked him to play. To my overwhelming surprise, his cracked dirty fingers rolled over the strings playing the most beautiful music I had ever heard, accompanied by the voice of an angel, totally on key. Tears uncontrolably rolled down my face. It took all my efforts, but I got him into a half-way house. After staying drunk for fourty years, he's now been sober going on five years, and he plays for free at charity events. 'And of course all my partys'. He's one of my best friends, now. Alot like the friend I had lost. My question is,"Was this fate?" Or is there another name for the series of events that took place"?

2006-12-06 19:11:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy I am dating (for about a year) keep asking me how many guys I have slept with. I am so annoyed. Why does he need to know? Is it because he is insecure? I don't get it! I have probably slept with more people than he has and I know he won't be happy, but I also can't lie to him. I've been just avoiding to answer it but now he is asking almost everyday and I am so sick and tired of it. What should I do?

2006-12-06 19:10:09 · 25 answers · asked by takooo80 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 19:09:48 · 2 answers · asked by tony 1 in Friends

BBW is used by females only

2006-12-06 19:09:43 · 12 answers · asked by Alex R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 19:09:41 · 4 answers · asked by zeepogee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl Lucy...shes in england and planning to get married soon.I'm in oz and I love her so much..we are good friend ...but I love her and i want to be with her...should I tell her how I feel?

2006-12-06 19:06:46 · 42 answers · asked by Peter L 1 in Singles & Dating

it was a full moon one night and me and my boyfriend was out on a night ride when he started rubbing and kissing all on me finally i stopped the car and their we we're but naked on the hood of the car (freaky or what?)

2006-12-06 19:06:02 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

We my fiance and I have temporary custody of the children she has been in jail for 1 year and now in prison why do they keep making more court dates,and is able to drag things on for over a year.Ive had the kids for 2 years. She had them taken away from the state and given to me but Im still going thru one court date after another.IM tired !!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-06 19:04:09 · 5 answers · asked by turnpage692002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, most just use dating as bragging rights, and more often then not, are ignorant too! I bet 9 out of 10 teenagers don't know who Tony Blair is.

2006-12-06 18:59:01 · 20 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating

Here's what I mean. A guy whos relationship is definitely on the rocks, is a musician, starts talkin' to you and he has a gf who says that its ok for him to sleep with someone while on the road b/c he's lonely or horny, but that its to be a one time thing....then he hears my standpoint that I'd worry bout a guy being faithful, I'd like to be the only one doing that (if he was dating me), and for many health reasons (STD's, crazed fans popping holes into condoms & then gets pregnant), why does HE stick around? The guy is a distance away from me, is it because I'm a challenge?!? Supposively with that response, along with the fact that I don't sleep around unless I'm at that level with a bf, I'm supposively not "sexual." He knows my view doesn't click with him, he knows I'm a classy girl, yet he keeps talking to me. I want to think its because he's not getting the attention from his current gf & is going to break up w/her soon.

2006-12-06 18:58:55 · 6 answers · asked by fbiforensicsgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be in "love" with my now current boyfriend. To make story short, he has said some things in the past that have really hurt my feelings. Now, although he hasn't been saying these things to me...I still feel like those words are still there and gnawing away at me. I want to get better. But, I can't. He has sincerely seemed to have wanted to change, but I hear those words over and over in my head when I look at him or when I kiss him.

I still love him though. I'm so confused. Is a relationship like this mendable, or does it only get worse? I know only my heart can tell the answer to this.

P.S. You can read my other ?'s if you really must know some of the things he has said.

2006-12-06 18:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by zombiefrog 2 in Singles & Dating

If you met a man online, how long would you wait before going out with him?

2006-12-06 18:56:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating