Guy A:
was a guy a met about 2 yrs ago
he happened to call me one night when i was suicidal and saying "god i will kill myself now if u dont give me a sign"
and he barely knew me and called me 5 minutes later at 2:30 cuz he wanted to talk and by the end of the night i was smiling my head off and i considered him my angel
later on he dated me and wounded up leaving me for her and kinda cheating and stuff too... but i kno he didnt use me cuz there are some things you cant pretend... and he came to my house apologizing and broke up with her to be with me and says im all he ever thinks about and hes all i ever think about
guy B;
would NEVER hurt me
never cheated
always there for me
buuut we dont have a whole lot in common like guy A and he doesnt make me as happy or give me butterflies but i kno hel stay faithful
i need to decide soon i cant do this anymore
its not fair to Guy B for me to stay with him when i have feeligns for A but i dont wanna get hurt again =/
2006-12-06 19:27:43 · 8 answers · asked by yourguardianangel88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go where your heart leads you sweetie....... There is always the risk of getting hurt no matter what relationship your going to be in now or 10 yrs down the track!!!
""Guy A sounds like a bit of a crawler, you don't know maybe she dumped him and he's lying and has just come crawling back, I say once a cheater always a cheater but if it will make you hapy nobody or nothing should stand in your way.... No matter what decision you make someone is going to get hurt so think carefully and choose wisely my friend as it's your life and nobody elses.... Being happy is all that we have these days and if we can't be happy what do we have.... The risk of failure and bad decisions reflects on us as human beings and makes us who we are from knowledge of our mistakes and right or wrong decisions..... just think can guy B make you happy so that your in the clouds or is it guy A???? you have the answer sweetie...
All the best and good luck
Ibanez xoxo
2006-12-06 19:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by ibanez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater; always a cheater. OK, so you have very little in common with guy B. That's good; you both are Young and can find things you both like to do and find common grounds.. Communication is the biggest thing to overcome, if you have that, you will be able to verbalize your feelings for different things and agreement on things to try. As for the butterflies; with like comes love, and with love comes happiness. A good, honest, caring, god fearing man is hard to come by. Look inside of him and you will find what you want, just don't be to hard on what you want out of your man because some expectations are set much to high.. Think about it..
2006-12-07 03:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you know this, but there are more than two men in this world. You don't need to choose between these two. Why do you need to be with a guy? Sounds like you are the kind that doesn't like to be alone. Maybe you don't like yourself enough or think that you're worth enough to only date good marriage material guys. By the way, don't worry about feelings, they come and go. Mistakes and time are two things you can't take back.
The only guy you really need is Jesus Chirst.
2006-12-07 03:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by J9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh'.. Is there guy "C" we can talk about? Possibly someone you don't know. That first guy sounds nice and all if you over look him doing the worst thing you can do in a relationship, cheating, and it's nice that you feel safe with guy B and don't actually like him but you're still with him.. but based on those two little diagnoses, maybe you should look for a guy C?
2006-12-07 03:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
neither because if you cheat on a good guy you dont deserve him and guy A is not worth trusting but since you cant be trusted either maybe hes right for you
2006-12-07 03:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by lamli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with guy b and get over guy a, he cheated, and chances are he does it again this time to you, but of course guy b is the nice sweet guy so he will get passed over for the *** who will end up hurtin you, just like all girls tend to do when their stuck between two guys, they always go for the one who will do them wrong
2006-12-07 03:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by kydd 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
how are you so sure B wont end up like A..
2006-12-07 03:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by DannyC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
who cares
2006-12-07 03:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋