I was talking to my crush yesterday
We are both seniors at high school
I have been secretly crushing on this girl and hinting her
we were talking about movies (i just got back from it at that time) so she suggested some other ones that i should see
then she followed up with when am I going to go see it
cause she says "cuz i want to come too" (since she work there so I think she can go in for free)
I said sure
Does she want to give me a shot (How does she know i like her)?
What should i do now? in the movie?
I do NOT want to screw this up...
Should i bring her a gift? (I have already bought her a gift that she told that she wanted it but since dont got any money at the moment cant get it... should i give it to her on that day or as
orginiall planned - as her xmas present?)
Today she was waving at me in class but i thought she was waving to her friend so i didnt wave back... I found out when she was told me and was so embarrassed....
2006-12-06 19:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
since its my 1st date
I have NO IDEA what i should do...
SO NERVOUS =s
2006-12-06 19:15:10 · update #1
Lisa u misunderstood me..
2006-12-06 19:20:27 · update #2
first dates are always so nervous and fun! when my fiance and i first went out it was to that larry the cable guy: health inspector movie. i was nervous!!!it was half way through the movie before we held hands or anything. i wanted to, but i was nervous!!!
don't give her the gift until christmas if that is what you bought it for.
maybe a rose. not a dozen, just one. let her know you care, but don't be too forward about it. i know the pressure is on, but it will be ok. hold hands, but don't kiss or make out yet. give her something to come back for if you know what i mean. people get bored if there is nothing new to experience.
as far as how she knows that you like her, she may not. she may be interested in you and her inviting herself to go with you is a way of her showing that.
good luck!!!
2006-12-06 19:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by chantal h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you wrote, I would say that she's definitely interested. It's okay to be nervous on your very first date, and I believe it's even okay to let her know that you feel nervous. Women tend to appreciate honesty more than if you just try to cover it up. Plus, it subtly tells her that you like her enough to feel nervous, and that's a compliment.
Something else that might help is talking to her more to get to know her better. Ask her some open-ended questions such as what her hobbies are, what she likes to do during her free time, what her plans are after high school or some other things like that. The better you get to know her, the less nervous you'll feel. And remember, she's just another human being trying to figure out this thing called life.
2006-12-06 19:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Michael C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a modern-day on a universal date is purely too lots. keep the present for Christmas. protecting her hand for the duration of the movie may well be superb. purchase her movie fee ticket until she tells you she has a loose pass she is going to apply. the two in the previous or after the movie pass someplace you could communicate and proportion a plate of food. Shared food is friendly and slightly greater intimate than basically a pair of burgers. possibly a huge plate of fries, or some ribs, or a pair of appetizers off the menu, some thing casual. loosen up. you have a super time. keep the kiss for yet another date.
2016-10-17 22:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by woodworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring anything except for yourself and some money. When your going to the movie, get to the seats first, and let your hand rest right where hers is going to during the movie... If her hand goes on yours and she doesn't react badly, then she probably likes you! If she looks at you funny, then probably not.
2006-12-06 19:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Be Nervous!!! Be yourself man!
but watch out and make sure she is not just using you for movies and gifts.
Take her to a scary movie so when she pretends to be scared to have a reason to hold her and comfort her. ;)
good luck
2006-12-06 19:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP being so nervous this girl obviously like,s you Go on the date,Give her the gift,And enjoy your first date
2006-12-06 19:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i got as far as you trying to get into the movies for free since she works there.....and i come up with that you are a "LOSER" if you cant take her out and pay for the date then you do not deserve her company.....that is a good way to get kicked to the curb before you even get into the car
2006-12-06 19:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, remember she likes who you are so don't try and be somthing else. And whatever you do don't come off as needy or can't live without type stuff, you'll lose most women instantly. Good luck
2006-12-06 19:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by 6986isin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous! Play it cool. If she wants a kiss, you will know it!
Good luck!
Oh- try to hold her hand or put your arm around her during the movie:)
One more thing. . . DON'T FORGET YOUR DEODORANT!
2006-12-06 19:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act cool. Maybe buy her chocolate .Don't buy anything fancy. Just keep it simple and enjoy yourself. Compliment on hows she look.
2006-12-06 19:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by JAson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋