Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

he treats me more like a friend. ok, heres my story..


at lunch i sit with my best guy friend (tyler) and my boy friend(andy). well me and tyler fight alot at lunch cuz we call each other hurtful things just for fun. well andy gets mad at me and tyler and he says "what did i do to deserve the 2 of u". not in a nice way but a bad way. he talks to me like im one of his buds. he dont ever say he loves me or treat me like a gf. should this be the end of our releationship or should we hold on to see if things improve?

2006-12-05 08:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few things forgot to mention to help with the decision. At first I told him I wasn't sure about coming there since he didn't call for 2 weeks and he said well I guess I'm just going to have to fly out to see you. He has given me his phone number and business card with phone and email address. We would be staying at his house. The reason he wants me to come there is he wants to show me around North Carolina and we might drive up to Atlanta. I'm not scared of him he's a professional very nice guy. The only thing is he makes a lot of money why would he not offer to fly me out? I have never flown out to meet a guy before not that there is something wrong with it it's just the holidays and expensive. Please give advice.

2006-12-05 08:37:34 · 11 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 08:36:59 · 1 answers · asked by Pacific Princess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is a software engineer and very into computers. Still a really cool guy:) Very into sports! Favorites are football and ice hockey. I'll take anything at this point!!

2006-12-05 08:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by Lauren B 1 in Weddings

ok i been kind of talkin to this dude but we only text. at first when we started talkin it was jus kind of a friendship. but then one day he ask me did i want to go with him but i told him that i had a boyfriend. we stilled talked or what ever. now i dont have a boyfriend and i really like him. he says he likes me to but he has a girlfriend now. (tears) what should i do. i really want to be more than friends

2006-12-05 08:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I've been married for almost 4 years, have two baby girls, love my husband, chose him over this guy.
This guy keeps popping back up into my life. I have many ex boyfriends but it's just this one that I keep seeing or having contact with!
Anyway, I randomly run into him and his wife (they have no kids) at odd places like restaurants, driving past them on the street, construction sites, etc. My husband used to work for him, too, after we were married and that was an accident too!! Also, I just found out that we have unclaimed property under BOTH our names so I've been in contact with him several times the last few weeks and supposedly he's coming over tomorrow night to get the stuff together to send to get our property back. So, what's up with all of this? What do you think of it? I always wanted to just be friends with his wife and him, but his wife is jelous.... and really young! So, what should I think of this? What should I do? And I have unresolved concerns dealing with him

2006-12-05 08:35:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and faince' been together for 6years, we have 2 boys, my fiance' go into his office and go on the website of porn sites, why does he go there when he has a wife to be!is the cheating?

2006-12-05 08:35:14 · 22 answers · asked by Jill h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He told me that it just a box he had when we meet and that was in the year of 2003. He said that he is not using them. What should I do? I ask him is he seeing someone else and he said no. and I ask him to throw the box away he said that it cost to much to throw away and that was it. I hurts so bad for someone to tell me a lie like that and knowing that I know that he is using them on someone else we don't use condom. So should I just let this go and try to look over it or what should I do?

2006-12-05 08:34:49 · 18 answers · asked by lightcake29 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends asked him out for me today and he said yes he would if he wasn't dating somebody else. One person said he was dating someone else, the other said he wasn't. Is that good or bad? I know i should ask him myself, but it's really hard if you're as shy as I am. What should I do?

2006-12-05 08:34:46 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs.Joseph.Adam.Jonas 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 08:34:41 · 3 answers · asked by pink princess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 08:34:11 · 4 answers · asked by ~♥~ *CHEEKY* ~♥~ 6 in Friends

He told me that it just a box he had when we meet and that was in the year of 2003. He said that he is not using them. What should I do? I ask him is he seeing someone else and he said no. and I ask him to throw the box away he said that it cost to much to throw away and that was it. I hurts so bad for someone to tell me a lie like that and knowing that I know that he is using them on someone else we don't use condom. So should I just let this go and try to look over it or what should I do?

2006-12-05 08:32:47 · 31 answers · asked by lightcake29 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a daughter who will turn one this month. Her biological father hasn't seen her since she was born and hasn't had anything to do with her, no phone calls, support or anything else. This doesn't bother me because I told him when we split up that he either needed to be a full time father or stay out of her life. He is immature and self absorbed with making his own life happy.

I am wondering if there are any websites that will help me with information about making sure he can't try to take her from me. I have heard about having paperwork that he could sign to give up his rights but I doubt he will sign them, just because he didn't even sign her birth certificate. Does anyone have any suggestions?

2006-12-05 08:32:42 · 4 answers · asked by Sassy Mom 2 in Family

2006-12-05 08:32:32 · 2 answers · asked by Pacific Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

i know wot im doin wrong but i cant help it.i stay out without letting my parents know, i cant hold a job down and ive never got any money.i keep doin things wrong without meaning to.i know im not a nightmare kid but i keep messing up.wot do i do?

2006-12-05 08:31:52 · 36 answers · asked by chloe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

CAUSE I HELP HER PAY ALL THE BILLS AND I FEEL LIKE IM THE ONE GIVING THE MOST AND ITS MY AUNT,COUSIN AND ME

2006-12-05 08:31:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my dad doesnt even know alot about me but he said that he wouldnt let me go out with him he thinks that he does drugs i know that he doesnt the only drugs he does is legal drugs for depression.

2006-12-05 08:31:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and i are going through a divorce. He has been gone since the middle of april. We have had no contact since then. Can we file taxes seperately? We have no children together and we had nothing that we bought together. It was basically like we were married but doing everything on our own.

2006-12-05 08:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 08:31:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok me and this boy have gone out like a bunch of times and like he kept breaking up with me like after 3 days and then today he asked me out and like ummm i told him that idk b/c i dont want him to do that again and he told em that if i do then i can kick him in his d**k 3 times as hard as i can kick ....so i told him yes ....should i have done that ....wat do you think???

2006-12-05 08:30:57 · 11 answers · asked by meee 1 in Friends

i sold him a baggy for about $20 and he didnt have money so i told him to pay me ASAP! and now he wont pay for the baggy! should i call the cops on him? or just beat him down? hes 12 and im 36 so i dont think i should beat him down.

2006-12-05 08:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by TIE MY SHOE 1 in Friends

i cant get him out of my head, when ever i see some one that looks just like him i shrink down inside. and its killing me, and i dont get to see him until winter break. but the thing is that i have a really sweet boyriend now, but i cant get my ex out of my head, and he still has a thing for me..... i fear i might cheat on my bf with my ex, becuase when im around him i just feel free, i feel like i can be myself, I am usually the one giving advice to people but in my situation I have now, I am lost. I went out with my ex for a month and a half…… I am lost can some one please help me, I have asked my friends what I should do, and I don’t really get the answers, because they have issues them selves. Help me please!

2006-12-05 08:30:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the same man

2006-12-05 08:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was on my way home from work when i called my girlfriend and told her that i was on my way home she go pissed off at me because of that and started an arguement with me would you a go to the hospital feeling unwanted. and also would you go if she told you that she would meet you at home later. i went home smoked weed and did not tell her that i did when she ask me if i smoked i told her yes i did. is it a lie if i left out that part of my day

2006-12-05 08:29:34 · 14 answers · asked by darkchocolate_41_41 1 in Singles & Dating

I only want to know one reason.. beacuse if you do a good job (not bothering or making the girl feel uncomfotable), she will probably ask for a second date, or you would and she will accept. So why is there so much hurrying up when you could wait for a month or so and see them without bra?

2006-12-05 08:29:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I mean anyone, I mean people you don't really fancy.

2006-12-05 08:28:56 · 19 answers · asked by Kevinlad 3 in Singles & Dating

What does this really mean? When after almost an 8 year relationship and all you hear the whole time is how much in love this person and they will always be in love with you and that you will "always be together no matter what" Then, they say they have changed thier mind and that is only what they felt at that time but now they are no longer in love. How do you explain this?

2006-12-05 08:28:43 · 4 answers · asked by alexzabtoe 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend have been really close for a long time, we go out alot and have a great time.I'm a bit wild and free,n she's much more reserved.
Her grandad died recently and she's havin a tough time at home,Ive been as supportive as I can and think I've been a 'gud m8'.Then she just stopped answerin my calls and replyin to my messages. I gave her a few days as I though she must need some space and I can identify with that.
Then I text her last saturday to see how she was and she didn't reply.
I didn't think much of it and went out with another friend. When I was out I bumped into her in the toilets with another girl I vaguely know. It was really awkward but I tried to be nice and invited them both over to sit with me and my other friends in our VIP booth.They said yeh they might just do that.
I didn't see her for the rest of the night though.The next day I text her n no answer,I text her today what have I done, n she said she doesn't like herself when shes with me!What did I do?

2006-12-05 08:28:10 · 14 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a soldier currently in Iraq serving my country. I just found out my wife has a 650 cell phone bill. I look at it and see that she been talking to other dudes at 2 and 3 in the morning. I want to know what would you think it is and should I just ask her about it? I know if I do she going to say she ain't got to explain herself.

2006-12-05 08:27:35 · 25 answers · asked by TMAC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy but i don't know how to get hia attion. Help. please

2006-12-05 08:27:34 · 16 answers · asked by Cool Penguin 2 in Singles & Dating