i cant get him out of my head, when ever i see some one that looks just like him i shrink down inside. and its killing me, and i dont get to see him until winter break. but the thing is that i have a really sweet boyriend now, but i cant get my ex out of my head, and he still has a thing for me..... i fear i might cheat on my bf with my ex, becuase when im around him i just feel free, i feel like i can be myself, I am usually the one giving advice to people but in my situation I have now, I am lost. I went out with my ex for a month and a half…… I am lost can some one please help me, I have asked my friends what I should do, and I don’t really get the answers, because they have issues them selves. Help me please!
2006-12-05 08:30:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go back!
The feelings u feel for your ex r "misty water colored memories" (thanx Barbara S.}
You're simply choosing to forget the painful memories & they r there that's y he is your ex!
Take a deep breath & move on..take all the good that u got from the ex & share them with your new man by being a BETTER girlfriend!
The rewards r priceless! for example, u miss the "comfort level" u had w/ your x..develop a comfort level w/ the new guy or teach him to act a little like the old guy.
UNDERSTAND HONEY?
2006-12-05 08:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness. I had one of those. We were together a year and a half, and getting over him was a process.
If your current bf is sweet, hang on to him. It helps. Going back to the ex never works. But don't expect yourself to get over him all at once.
2006-12-05 08:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Recruiter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
expensive in case you relatives member yet another lots, you will not be Ex's. this is particularly no longer healthful that a super style of your wellbeing and emotional happiness grow to be broken in view which you 2 broke up. those emotions which you experience once you spot him? are actual from the memories that your strategies pulls up once you spot him. yet in addition, it particularly is WHY it is so freakin' annoying to recover from somebody, you have lots historical past and a super style of memories with them. of direction he won't have the ability to offer up finding at you, he's sees you likely shifting on and seeing different adult males, and if he nevertheless enjoyed you, and that i'm speaking genuine love here no longer the intercourse lust crap, he might have carried out some thing to tutor you by employing now. So p.c.. up those happy memories and fuzzy emotions which you had with him and tuck them away, by way of fact now it's time to locate a guy who's going to guard you and stick by employing you thru each little thing existence has to furnish. remember, you will desire to kiss a super style of frogs formerly one will become a prince.
2016-10-14 02:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through I've been with someone for 1 year then he cheated on me with my best friend now I'm with someone else and he totally gets me, yes you'll still miss them no matter what their always going to be there but the thing is you have to choose the one that's right for you, the one whose always going to be there the one who is going to do you right like tell you the truth all the time and won't do you wrong.
2006-12-05 08:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by goodgyrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know girl, i am in the same boat, absolutely in love with my ex, but he left me and am single so don't have your dilema.
sounds like your not totally into your new man if he doesn't make you feel like yourself and your already thinking of cheating. why'd you break up in the first place? is it a legit reason or should you be together? you said he has a thing for you so maybe you should tell him you still have feelings for him and cool it with the new guy.
honesty is the best policy in my book
good luck
2006-12-05 08:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Pinky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i actually had this exact problem bout 2 months ago. (cept i was dating my ex for 7 months n he was my first love) my new bf was awesomely nice and totally respectfull of me n everything but he just wasnt the one for me. i dumped him and now im going back out with my ex. its going alrite, i know we love eachother. u jus gotta factor in WHY did you break up in the first place,?, is it possible to change that?? youl be fine hon!
2006-12-05 08:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats means u still love him
if u cant go back to him
then u need to leave the current bf or just take it slow
i was in ur shoe and it wasnt fair to the new person in my life cuz everything i did with her i always thought of me and my gf before her to do it
be easy
2006-12-05 08:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to be fair to your new boyfriend please break up with him . you are not into him and it's not fair to him . you are still feeling your ex and from the sounds of it you are gonna sleep with him when you go on your winter break. and if you feel this way you should be more honest with your new boyfriend before he gets hurt . remember what comes around goes around . lol
2006-12-05 08:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that you need to figure out which one means more, which one would treat you better, and which one you would be happier with. once you figure that out I think you know what to do from there. I know it's hard to make a decision like that, but we've all had to do it. Good luck.
2006-12-05 08:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by candice_42506 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over your ex and move on. You have something great right in front of you. Most girls would kill for that.
2006-12-05 08:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋