He told me that it just a box he had when we meet and that was in the year of 2003. He said that he is not using them. What should I do? I ask him is he seeing someone else and he said no. and I ask him to throw the box away he said that it cost to much to throw away and that was it. I hurts so bad for someone to tell me a lie like that and knowing that I know that he is using them on someone else we don't use condom. So should I just let this go and try to look over it or what should I do?
2006-12-05 08:32:47 · 31 answers · asked by lightcake29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pay for a lie detectors test...maybe he is telling u the truth but who knows... best of luck sweety if he is lying to you kick him to the curb!!!
2006-12-05 08:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't trust him then why are you with him??? It is a lot of condoms (costly) so he probably is saving it to use with you. If you guys are going to have sex soon then why should he throw it away??? He's probably a cheap guy who wants to get his moneys worth without thinking that the condoms could be less effective after a while. You can count how much condoms are in the box, and if after 2/3 weeks you count and there's a couple missing, then you know what to do. If your "female intuition" is telling you that he is using it on someone else then trust your instincts and move on to someone who is worth your time.
2006-12-05 08:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if he had those condoms since 2003 they must be expired by now, check if they date that far it should be on the box or on the wrapper. If the date is too close say 2006-2010 he's not lying. Keep track of how many he has in the box. Or you could have him followed? If you don't trust him hun get rid of him. Trust is a very important factor in a releationship and if you can't seem to trust him, tell him to get!!!! Good luck.
2006-12-05 08:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not certain he's cheating on you just bec you found condoms.
But what I am sure of is that he's not planning on staying with you forever if he's holding on to condoms to use with someone else. So, if you were planning on a permanent relationship, then you'd be wise to say so long. If you just wanted a casual short term relationship, then you're fine.
And btw -- If they're 3 years old, they're not good any more.
2006-12-05 08:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you actually, truthfully know and feel that he lied to you than, hit the road but tell him why.
This happen to me with a woman and an IUD but I felt it and when ask she lied. A few days later I found the box for it burning the trash, she forgot it. I left without a word. She was doing half the guys in town. when I went back home to school during the week, she partied.
2006-12-05 08:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very same thing to my oldest sister. She found comdoms in her husbands truck. And they definatly don't use them. We looked at the dates and item numbers on the box and the price sticker. Went to a few local gas stations and discovered when they were purchased. Because a retailer can look at the dates and item numbers and tell you when they were purchased and manufactured. If he bought them while you were dating, you know you have to get rid of him. But if he bought them before even just days before you started dating then its up to you about the next step you want to take. But a little research and determination goes a long way.
2006-12-05 08:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you over look it ?? If you feel he is using them with someone else then doesn't that mean he's cheating on you ?? Why would you over look that ? Because you didn't catch him in bed with her ? Easy way to tell if they really were in his drawer since 2003, look at the expiration date and check with new ones from the store.
2006-12-05 08:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to know if he's lying. Go buy a box of condoms and compare the expiration date. Then compare them to the ones that he has. If he just bought the the expiration date should be close to the ones you bought.
2006-12-05 08:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by chulababy210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha Use it? What kind of guy would have a condom in his drawer for almost 4 years? Great guts but bad lie . .
2006-12-05 08:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a box of condoms in my draw that i never used if my guy went through my stuff and asked me why i still keep them my answer would be what were you doing in my draw?, and would move them to another place.
2006-12-05 08:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it on the bright side. At least he is using condoms if he is cheating. It would be worser to find he is having sex with someone else unprotected also because that puts you at risk. So look at it on the bright side. However if you are together he should not lie and be honest about it. Men are men thats their nature. Im not saying dont be mad but give him that much at least he is using a rubber!
2006-12-05 08:36:17 · answer #11 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋