the same man
2006-12-05 08:29:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is totally up to him. I was in a situation like that with a former college class mate. We went on conference, and partied at a local bar in Gander Newfoundland. There was this really hot guy that walked in wearing a 3 piece suit. He was so sexy. I wanted to get to know him better, but so did my classmate. I had ask him if I could buy him a drink. He said,"No". because he was designated Drives. SO we settled on Coke instead. While I was getting him his soda he was dancing with my classmate. To me she was really pretty. I knew she was only;y out for a one night fling because she had a man at home waitting for her & 3 children. Once I finally got back to him with his soda he asked me to dance. While danceing with him I felt so comfortable with him I rest my head on his shoulder. He said that the other class mate was just in if for a piece and that he knew that because he was a bar tender by trade, and could point slu*s out a mile away! He knew I was diffrent.Before the night was over and he left suddenly he have me a business card with his phone # on it in front of my whole class. So he choose "ME".We are more in love than ever, and are moved in together wondering when the honeymoon ends! So good luck! I hope the example helped
2006-12-05 08:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Who else is supposed to make the decision?
Hopefully he's smart enough not to choose a shallow girl who will compete for his temporary, limited attention.
2006-12-05 08:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by chocolate-drop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - but expect a long wait before he 'chooses'. Most guys just LOVE having two women fighting over him!
2006-12-05 08:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's up to him. He is going to chose who he likes or doesn't want to be with.
2006-12-05 08:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody chooses for them selves you cant make him choose you just like she cant make him choose her. but some advice .... if hes letting you go through the stress of that, is he really worth it ?
2006-12-05 08:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by love_ridden_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course - attraction is not a choice.
2006-12-05 08:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by will l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y3S.....CUZ HE WILL CHOOS3 TH3 ON3 H3 CAN CONNECT BETTER 2
2006-12-05 08:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...yeah the girls r not gonna choose for him
2006-12-05 08:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always
2006-12-05 08:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋