Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

I've noticed this in a lot of guys and that is that most guys aren't extra nice to women unless they plan on getting something in return like a date or things of that sort. . .You're only nice if you plan on scoring or getting yourself a date. That's a sad fact. So I'm here to ask if there are any minorities out there: men who are nice to women even if they don't plan on getting something in return. Nice = you give compliments, you hold the door for them, you help them with stuff, you smile at them, etc. . .

I personally don't always look to score when being nice to girls. So how 'bout you? What are you like?

2006-12-04 09:26:35 · 22 answers · asked by LaissezFaire 6 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's wrong for me to date a 16 year old when I'm only 14 I don't think it is but be free to state your opinion!!!!!

2006-12-04 09:25:32 · 15 answers · asked by caramel_hispanic 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy named ryan i like him but i dont know if he likes me we used to be really good friends last year and talked about the most random things but this year were not friends are lockers are one away from each other and today he put a got milk sign in my locker and then took it out and he stares at me in the hallway constantly but he did call me a ***** and a goody goody does he like me or not i dont want to ask him though

2006-12-04 09:25:30 · 7 answers · asked by cali_hottie_hollister 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a white female, and my boyfriend is asian, his family are muslim, he isn't religious, and neither am i or my family.

Nobody will accept us as a couple and people hate us being together. They try to pull us apart.

How can i make them see, we love each other?

2006-12-04 09:25:15 · 14 answers · asked by Freedom 2 in Family

ahhh. I like him a lot. and we are REALLY good friends. So today, I brought him some of his favorite candy, and he kinda acted weird about it. At first he looked at me, and then he started laughing and said thanks. Later on, he asked me why I brought them and I said it was because I knew he liked them. And he was like, "Yea, I did. They we're really good. Thank you." and then he laughed at me again. Why does he keep laughing? Is it a good thing or a bad thing?

2006-12-04 09:24:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first to all, i want to say hi, i found this page and decided to join for some advice and maybe try to help someone...
i have a girlfriend, and we dated for about 5 1/2 years. Just recently we had a fight about me having feelings 4 one of my friends. I never cheated on this girl, and even though she knows that, at the end she decided to break up with me. She tells me that she doesnt love me the way she used to. And even though she had tried to tell me about her feelings now it is to late that she cant love me again. All this took me by surprise, and i ask her to give me a chance to win her heart back but it didnt work b/c most of the times i got desperate and start asking her to love me back.
It has being a couple days since all of this just happen. She tells me she still care about me alot but the love for me is gone. I ask her if she could love me again but she doesnt know. Now she treats me like a friend and i dont know if i should keep trying or give some time to win her heart.

2006-12-04 09:24:37 · 14 answers · asked by AL 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 09:24:07 · 8 answers · asked by §$treetHu$tler§ِ 2 in Friends

I met this guy through mutal friends about a month ago. He called me the day after we met... and has called or answered my calls since. A week ago he went to my hometown with me to hang out with some of the mutal friends that we had been with the night we met. While we were out that night he was into taking pictures with me and my friends, and kept finding ways to touch me. Throughout the following week he would call me on breaks from work. He called this past saturday and we talked for awhile. He told me to call him later when I got back into town. So I called him about 4 or 5 hours later and he asked if he could call me back in 20 min. It's been almost 3 days and I have yet to hear from him, and when I tried calling the next day he didn't answer? Is he clearly not interested? And why would he just not answer or call back after calling me so often prior to this?

2006-12-04 09:23:25 · 5 answers · asked by punkrokgrl2 1 in Singles & Dating

i have asked a couple of questions regarding my earlier questions if i should be waiting for two weeks to get an answer on asking the love of my life to marry me. the feedback on here is basically 70% saying that i shouldnt have to wait even a couple of days for an answer. the sad thing is I really agree, & now i dont know what to do. but i did tell her that this friday is the deadline for her to answer me. but, here is another thorn in my side. she has a FINAL EXAM to take in 8 days on tues. she must get 149 out of 150 right to pass her RN course. so do i become an *** from hell on friday & ask for the answer, or wait until the day after the exam & then ask. if she doesnt give me an answer on friday, i walk, she cries, & most likely fails the test. if i wait, dont pressure her, & she STILL fails, well that isnt my fault, and i can always know that her failing school wasn't my doing. im stuck once again and im getting mad at this waiting game by keeping everything inside my head!!!

2006-12-04 09:23:21 · 21 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 09:23:16 · 32 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 09:22:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys like it went girls are mysterious and play hard to get. What do guys like about girls the most that get them attracted to them?And how do you know you have the guys hooked on you?

2006-12-04 09:22:47 · 3 answers · asked by jayjay 1 in Singles & Dating

tonight i'm going to meet my mom's new bf, we're going to his house to decorate his christmas tree. it's gonna be him, my mom, my brother, me and his two kids (who are really young). i'm so nervous! how do i make a goosd 1st impression on a marine?!?!? what do i wear? how do i do my make-up and hair?!?!?! wtf do i do?!?!? HELP!

2006-12-04 09:21:49 · 6 answers · asked by santaz_lil_slacker 2 in Singles & Dating

I still like him for some reason. The reason I say I don't know if he knows I still exist is because he used to say hi to me in stuff in the hallways @ the end of 7th grade like maybe he liked me or something. You see in 8th grade I had to go to different school. Now we both go to the same high school. But that was over a year ago so he probaly forgot about me and then moved on. I still like him though. What do I do? He isn't in any of my classes this year. How can I let him know I like him without freaking him out? I don't think he has a gf. What can I do to let him know I like him? He is always with his friends in the morning, afternoons,&lunch. I want to tell him myself but I don't how. I'm shy please help. What can I do that's not writing a note&putting it in his locker or telling one of his guy friends I think he is cute? I have tried smileing and making eye contact at him but I don't think he sees me. Any suggestion please? I really would apprecate it

2006-12-04 09:21:45 · 1 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Singles & Dating

Just asked a question and had lots of answers, thanks, so what do you guys see as a soul mate, cos I thought i'd got one, talk to her about anything have good times, what else, i'm quite confused!

2006-12-04 09:20:30 · 9 answers · asked by Julz 1 in Singles & Dating

If you thought your bf/gf had a mental illness that wasn't being treated (or was being ignored altogether), how would you convey your concern and suggest they get help? I care A LOT about this girl, we've dated for some time now, but, looking back, I have always known there was something odd about the way we relate to each other. I think I know what is REALLY going on (though she hasn't told me; she may or may not know herself). I do respect her privacy, but I also care for her a lot, so I am torn about what to do. Half of me says to let her come to her own conclusions while the other half instinctively knows she will just continue to blame herself for the disintegration of our relationship b/c of this potential condition and, therefore, am almost willing to let her hate me (for bringing this to her attention) in the hopes that she will eventually agree w/ me (even if she never talks to me again) and get the help she needs. What would you do?

2006-12-04 09:20:23 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

My fiance left me, took all his things, even asked for the ring back...

i asked him if he still loved me and he said yes,
and I asked him if he was still "in" love with me and he said yes, and I then asked him do you still want to be with me, and he said "I dont know"...
what does this mean...
If you could give me an honest answer...that would be great...
Thanks,

2006-12-04 09:20:19 · 7 answers · asked by ArticExplosion 2 in Singles & Dating

long overdue, I cant seem to move on until I complete this task, I've lived with the same woman for the last 17 years and just cant commit, just cant seem to find contentment...

2006-12-04 09:20:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I never seem to maintain my interest in a guy very much past the first date. Why is that? are my standards too high? have I lost sight of what is important? I am interested until I get to know them bettter, and then "poof!!" its all gone!!!! any suggestions would be great!

2006-12-04 09:19:52 · 14 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Singles & Dating

i really really like this guy.i cant stop thinking about him.i think hes the one!we are only seeing eachother casually,we have only kissed,yet he wont ask me out on a date!he says he likes me etc etc.i did end my 6 year relationship 8 months ago which he knows about.he does ask about my ex so i dunno if thats got something to do with it.

i have a date with another guy this week.this guy is ok but i cant stop thinking about this other guy,but i aint going to wait round forever.i want im to know that im ready to date people.

should i text this guy that im crazy about saying that i have a date with another guy and that i wish it was him that i was on a date with?

how else could i ask him?im really shy!!! but i want him to know that i aint going to wait for him!!!!!!lol xxx

2006-12-04 09:19:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think this is a much more natural balance for a relationship than a purely 1 to 1 set up. After all men seem to have twice the sexual appetite of women so would this not be the perfect solution ?

2006-12-04 09:19:06 · 35 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm awful sorry if this is a weird question, but here's my situation:
This year, we have an end-of-the-year dance.
This year, boys are starting to ask out girls.
This year, everyone is getting their first kiss.

I try not to run with the crowd, although I've had boyfriends, and I know love is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately, with my luck, I probably won't have such a good catch, because I'm considered a study-freak, an acne-face, and a girl-who's-like-never-gonna-get-a-boyfriend. Anyone out ther can cheer me up? Is love really all that great? Is there any chance I can find someone to love by the end of this year? Any stories that will prove your point? Please, I'm asking this form the heart, because it feels horrible to see everyone else hooked up and experiencing the magic of a love that will last forever in their hearts. Serious, don't say anything mean or unreasonable, I'm feeling lonely. Thank you.

2006-12-04 09:18:24 · 6 answers · asked by PrettyKitty 3 in Singles & Dating

That I get cold sores or should i just hold my tounge?

2006-12-04 09:17:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are you plans for new years?

2006-12-04 09:17:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-04 09:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have asked a couple of questions regarding my earlier questions if i should be waiting for two weeks to get an answer on asking the love of my life to marry me. the feedback on here is basically 70% saying that i shouldnt have to wait even a couple of days for an answer. the sad thing is I really agree, & now i dont know what to do. but i did tell her that this friday is the deadline for her to answer me. but, here is another thorn in my side. she has a FINAL EXAM to take in 8 days on tues. she must get 149 out of 150 right to pass her RN course. so do i become an *** from hell on friday & ask for the answer, or wait until the day after the exam & then ask. if she doesnt give me an answer on friday, i walk, she cries, & most likely fails the test. if i wait, dont pressure her, & she STILL fails, well that isnt my fault, and i can always know that her failing school wasn't my doing. im stuck once again and im getting mad at this waiting game by keeping everything inside my head!!!

2006-12-04 09:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is suppose to the hospital tomorrow to begin dialises but is now refusing to go. What he said to me was
that once he was on it he would only live no more than two years. Frankly I don't believe it but I need to know for sure. I question his excuse because this is not the first time he's put off any appointments with his doctor.

2006-12-04 09:17:06 · 4 answers · asked by zzap2001 4 in Marriage & Divorce

M friend introduced his brother to me a few months ago, and since
then I see him sometimes around school, and sometimes he goes by my
mom's
classroom to wait for his brother after school. He always talks to me
when he goes. The other day he asked me what I wanted for Christmas and
he was fidgeting with a [Starbucks]apron he was wearing, then he asked
if I liked Starbucks. I had been to Disney few weeks earlier, so he
asked if I and had a nice time and if I had been there before. He
always
says addresses me with my name and he's usually smiling when he talks
to me..sometimes I'm pretty sure his voice even gets softer while he
talks to me. Then the next day we were taking a picture for class and
he
said "Go ahead Tiffany" with the hand gesture thing.. and then he
whispered by [not to disturb the tutoring] and when he walked out the
door he
waved again.Well I passed by him on the way to class today..I don't
know if he saw me, I was going to say Hi, but

2006-12-04 09:16:59 · 21 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Singles & Dating

hey wats up there is this guy i love and iam scared of him because he is in a gang but one time i went to his house and we were talking and he said he loved me and we started to make out then i let him get into my pants big mistake now he thinks that he can get me any time and any place and his friends come up to me and ask if they can sleep with me what can i do

2006-12-04 09:16:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was all good. I had one bad week and she downgraded me to friend with no chance of romance. I really like her but, she wants to be only friends. Which sucks, because I have strong feelings for her.

2006-12-04 09:16:36 · 2 answers · asked by azulmusicmarketing 1 in Singles & Dating