happiness, you have to be attracted to each other for starters. then you also need to have things in common, things that the other one doesnt like, little secrets that you reveal at various times (not bad secrets), you need to love the others company, but love being by yourself. the perfect relationship is happiness
2006-12-04 09:27:30
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answered by Soccergrl77 2
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1) Not jumping to conclusions--live in the moment. Don't plan the wedding or the kids after the second date. Don't assume that you two are meant to be.
2) Enjoy the honeymoon stage but don't be surprised when it ends--relationships are just happy all the time. Sometimes you'll find it hard to love that person. That's fine. Arguments are a part of a relationship that makes it stronger.
3) Don't fall in the love with the concepts of marriage and love. If you do, this is all you'll want from a relationship. When there is a problem that sacrifices once of these concepts, you'll want to give up.
4) Communication--so many couples forget about communication. They criticize their partners because their partner can't read their mind. Communication in a relationship is key.
5) Trust/Respect/Honesty--HUGE for relationships. YOU HAVE TO TRUST YOUR PARTNER! You can't assume he's going to cheat on you. Respect his personality, and be honest with him.
6) Be independent -- codependency can get you into trouble very quickly. It's great to be two seperate individuals who enjoy being with each other.
7) Work as a team--no better way to say it.
8) Don't expect love to get you through it. Love isn't the only thing you need in a relationship. You can always tell someone who has had a successful relationship and those who are serial daters by the way they respond to the quote, "all you need is love!"
9) Be friends first. Those who are friends first have a higher success rate in their relationships.
10) Don't get married too young--meaning before you're at LEAST 22. Finish college, experience life, and THEN decide if you want to settle down.
2006-12-04 09:27:32
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answered by FaZizzle 7
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Is there any such thing has a perfect relationship. but if there was such a way has having a prefect relationship i would say that a couple that listens to each other all the time, does whats best for them both. love and care for each other to the end for others life like what people a did age a go u know u see those old couples on the street all the time still holding each others hand still in love after all these years. but a perfect relationship can never be, know one is perfect.
2006-12-04 09:36:24
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answered by Anonymous
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There is no real "perfect" relationship, but there are many things that can help make it feel that way. Some of the things I think help a relationship go towards perfection are honesty, trust, laughter, understanding of certain limitations/beliefs/choices/etc, respect, loving the person for who they are, putting everything on the table so there is no confusion, and being in the relationship for the right reasons instead of something like you felt bad for them or whatever. There are more things I'm sure, but I just can't think of it right now.
2006-12-04 09:30:41
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answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5
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there is not one. all of us include bags. some persons deal with it more advantageous suited than others.... yet for confident, marriage/relationships are Admiration, recognize, pastime and believe. If betrayal is going, with the pastime getting shared with somebody else, the finished element is interior the lavatory, (few marriages survive betrayal in any type of satisfied way.....) that is besides major to save recognize and admiration going for your spouse.... snide comments and by no skill with the ability to remedy alterations without resentment and rage will kill any courting... even as that occurs, some training of counseling frequently provide the couple the language to remedy a situation or issues. Marriage/relationships, besides get seriously shaken with unreasonable expectation even as having toddlers..... no human being ever tells a pair that having a baaayyyybeeeee isn't the stunning romantic element we are all informed... as my mom suggested, toddlers can smash some thing So, having a positive personality enables, alongside with choosing someone with a similar history, faith, politics, preparation, smarts, besides produces an prolonged lasting, more advantageous well matched association. As you will discover, your question is faaaarrrr more advantageous complicated that what ought to look before everything look..........
2016-11-30 03:33:01
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answered by Anonymous
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There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Every couple has their ups and downs sometimes there's more downs then ups but the real question to ask is are you perfect for each other?
2006-12-04 09:26:31
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answered by Tori 1
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The perfect relationship is not.... there is no such thing. Every relationship is different and everyone's idea of a relationship is different... You have the good and bad and mess ups and screw ups... you will build that relationship by being there when its not so perfect :)
2006-12-04 09:26:41
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answered by BrookieB 3
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Getting a CAT, they are loyal, loving, affectionate, don't leave dirty pants laying around the bedroom. Yeh they do bring home the odd present albeit a frog, or a well gummed bird, but that there way of showing that they love you!
But they can't put the shelves up...but then i was married to one who couldn't so no loss there!
2006-12-04 09:28:39
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answered by untanuta 5
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Understanding is the best policy for all relationships. Tolerance is what brings perfection.
2006-12-04 09:25:28
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answered by Ms New Booty 3
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It's no such thing as the perfect relationship....It's about what you put into the relationship...everyones views on this question sucks...
2006-12-04 09:36:15
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answered by fattie69 2
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