I've noticed this in a lot of guys and that is that most guys aren't extra nice to women unless they plan on getting something in return like a date or things of that sort. . .You're only nice if you plan on scoring or getting yourself a date. That's a sad fact. So I'm here to ask if there are any minorities out there: men who are nice to women even if they don't plan on getting something in return. Nice = you give compliments, you hold the door for them, you help them with stuff, you smile at them, etc. . .
I personally don't always look to score when being nice to girls. So how 'bout you? What are you like?
2006-12-04 09:26:35 · 22 answers · asked by LaissezFaire 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there are a few of us out there that are just decent people, for the rest, you are a bunch of pigs. Quit being so damn selfish!
2006-12-04 09:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl surrounded by guys and some dont expect a "favor" when being nice. Some are genuinely good guys who are well mannered and were raised to respect women. Others do want sonething in return. They may even be an angel up until they realize the girl wont give it up, and then the true colors show-- it's disgusting. I've seen and experienced both sides of this.
2006-12-04 09:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm usually always nice to women unless they start to get the wrong idea or they're just... nasty. Doing the gentleman thing like holding the door or giving them compliments even if I'm not looking to get together with them. I tend to tone it down if I'm with somebody but there's no reason not to be nice just because you're not looking to get anything from her.
2006-12-04 09:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm nice to women, it's called respecting them. I am nice to my wife and not expecting her to do anythying for me. I hold the door for women all the time, it's called being a gentleman. Why is it that people think that men are only interested in sex if they show a little bit of respect to a woman? People need to get their minds out of their pants.
2006-12-04 09:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Me i take pride in being nice to girls without expecting something in return all the people at school think its whack but i like it usually because if you don't expect it the girls want you more then the guys who do expect it.
2006-12-04 09:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow good question. I have realized that too, maybe that's why i don't have bf because most guys want to bang ya than go on to someone else once he has had enough. But i am not saying all guys do this. there are some decent ones out there somewhere.
2006-12-04 09:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 03:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this depends on age, but sure. I work with a lot of men and women at my job and in my community service activities. The women are just as valuable as the men. And their friendship is valuable too.
2006-12-04 09:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm always nice. It's the human thing to do. That would be the difference between those of us who are intelligent and walk upright and those who still grunt and drag their knuckles on the ground.
2006-12-04 09:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm nice to everybody, even my ex-wife.
I may not agree with you, and I'll say that in a straight forward fashion. However, it's not hateful to disagree, and I will do so respectfully.
2006-12-04 09:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋