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Do you think this is a much more natural balance for a relationship than a purely 1 to 1 set up. After all men seem to have twice the sexual appetite of women so would this not be the perfect solution ?

2006-12-04 09:19:06 · 35 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

Fallen from grace
You look so inocent

2006-12-04 09:24:11 · update #1

TRINITY
Grow up and answer the question inteligently or not at all

2006-12-04 09:24:47 · update #2

NICOLE B
There's the real problem
But what about harmony amongst women

2006-12-04 09:25:58 · update #3

HEATHER FEATHER
A lot of women just don't show it

2006-12-04 09:27:13 · update #4

MELODY
You're not telling me why, disprove my point please

2006-12-04 09:28:03 · update #5

ANGELA
Excelent argument

2006-12-04 09:32:18 · update #6

HELEN
Why should girl power = frustrate men
That's all wrong

2006-12-04 09:37:46 · update #7

JAVELIN
making sense

2006-12-04 09:39:03 · update #8

Brian M
Believe it or not you are a minority group
We are animals first humans second
Christians comes way down the order

2006-12-04 09:40:53 · update #9

KALMAN 1
I'm just trying to rouse guys like you from behind your wife's apron. Did she tell you to say that?

2006-12-04 09:42:47 · update #10

KEKET 25
Are you saying it revolves around women then? Why should it be so ?

2006-12-04 09:44:40 · update #11

AAH THIS IS MARVELLOUS
SO MUCH MIXED REACTION
KEEP IT COMING GUYS

2006-12-04 09:45:29 · update #12

NELLYNOO
Good girl, but you sound a bit busy to fit any more in

2006-12-04 09:46:53 · update #13

LIMA
That's en exageration and you know it
I don't know a man alive who hasn't been regularly disappointed by his partner

2006-12-04 09:48:47 · update #14

DIZZY
Ah pet if only
They are so hard to find though

2006-12-04 09:50:35 · update #15

NEICEE
Ah but you're only a cartoon

2006-12-04 09:52:33 · update #16

SOMUCH DEFENCE BY THE GIRLS ON THIS ISSUE. IF THERE ARE ALL THESE WOMEN WHO CAN OUT SCORE MEN EVERYWHERE THEN WHY ARE THERE SO MANY MEN CONSTANTLY BEING TURNED DOWN
IT JUST DOESNT ADD UP ?

2006-12-04 09:55:29 · update #17

NEWGRAN
You are always my voice of reason

2006-12-04 10:20:44 · update #18

WHAT'S WITH THE THUMNS DOWN? DOESN'T ANYONE LIKE A DEBATE ANYMORE?

2006-12-04 10:21:27 · update #19

35 answers

Nah, I think that they key is finding someone who matches your sexual appetite. If you get hooked up with someone who is on a completely different sheet of music as far as sex drive goes, then you are asking for trouble. It will be doomed and it will never work.

2006-12-04 09:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 1 · 2 0

First of all, in my experience, I've almost always had more appetite than my men, so your ratio is horribly off.

Secondly, it's really not a natural balance; while by the time we reach older adulthood, women outnumber men, more male children are born than female children, so if anything, the numbers are skewed favoring women having more men. In addition, the species has not only continued because it used to be one man to ten women - before monogamy, it was each person for him or herself, and there was both polygamy and polyandry.

Also, there are societies where people are perfectly happy today where both polygamy polyandry take place - for example, there is one society where the men travel around as individuals, and if a woman accepts one, she takes him into her house for as long as SHE wants, and when she's done with him, signals for him to leave by moving his belongings away from her front door. Then she chooses the next man she wants to stay with her.

Any balance is strictly going to depend on what's acceptable for all parties involved. Personally, if any man of mine ever said something resembling your question to me, he'd have more new bruises than he could count, and would certainly be down a few hours a week of extremely pleasurable sex. At the same time, I'm sure there are women (and men) out there who would love to share their partner with another member of the same sex, and possibly even want to join in...

2006-12-04 10:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

That is so niave it is comical. If you were old enough you'd already know that by 40 the ratio is completely opposite. What is sad is that our society is so narrow minded that 1:1 is the only acceptable ratio. If people are happy, what difference does it make. The only reason we exist as a species is because at one time it was 1 man to 10 women.

2006-12-04 09:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 2 0

If you can't satisfy one woman you're sure as hell not going to satisfy two. And I havn't met many men who could keep two women happy. So, more or less you're asking if it's ok for men to be selfish inconsiderate juveniles.

In which case the answer is "no". You're not a boy anymore, so get over your delusions of grandeur and realize that the world doesn't evolve around you. Or guys in general.

2006-12-04 09:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Usual 3 · 3 0

You would be lucky if you had half a women!

If your women's sexually appetite is not like yours it's because YOUR NOT DOING IT RIGHT!!

Your not satisfying her.You may just be think about your own needs.If you were making her feel good then a women would probably excel your sexual desire.

Your women may be miserable and you have the cheek to want to make another women view sex as boring too....com one FIX UP AND LOOK SHARP!!

2006-12-05 00:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lil CeeCee 2 · 0 0

i think there is a balance, just the matter of finding someone on ur same level. So many people have found the total opposite of themselves and that is what causes so many problems.

I had found a match to my appetite, but we are no longer together and he was the closest to me. Other men are good, but not up to my standards as far as stamina and variety...

2006-12-04 09:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by ~Niecee~ ☻ ☻ ♂ 4 · 0 0

Most of the women I know have as much, if not more sexual appetite than men. Your are prob. not satisfying your women enough so she doesn't want to have sex with you. Or, maybe she has someone on the side.

2006-12-04 09:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by lima 1 · 1 0

I disagree,

all men don't have twice the sexual appetite my dear.....

I'm a one on one woman...I give 110 % to any relationship..& it's not just the sex that makes a relationship...
but...


you're just talking sex ...sorry..lost site of the question for a sec..

thought you were talking meaningful...

2006-12-07 04:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, because sex was created by God to be between a husband and wife, meaning 1 man and 1 woman.

Get your head out of your pants. That's the problem with this world, people think too much about sex, and put so much weight into sex, and think less of more important parts of a relationship.

2006-12-04 09:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2 2

Sounds more like a fantasy american men have....or if you prefer, go live in a country where polygamy is accepted....b/c here in america...we have trouble keeping a relationship between one man and one woman together...add another woman...and you get a whole other heep of problems

2006-12-04 09:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

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