Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

I am despressed.

I live in Scotland. I love living in Scotland but I sometimes think moving to another country will be better for me.

Then I understand that running away won't help anything.

I am lonely, I want a girlfriend but I can't fit in with groups.

I don't like seeing women kissing other women in public places.

I am worried about STI's so I am almost desperate to ask women to get checked.

They could be the sweetest person but all I think is "are you infected"

I would use condoms for intercourse but may not for oral sex (giving or taking)

I have a really bad heart problem, so I can't be around smokers and I don't like people getting drunk because I can't protect myself.

I get chest pains when I fight and the other guy does not know that so they keep throwing punches.

I take offence easily and I tend to tell people there faults as a way of defense.

I am the type of person who is scared people talk about me or are going to ignore me.

Any help?

2006-12-04 09:16:03 · 5 answers · asked by Michelino 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 09:15:56 · 16 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Friends

Do you believe that someone can change.... That things will get better the second time.... that forgiveness should be an option.... or even if that person proves themselves no matter what is was?

2006-12-04 09:15:51 · 16 answers · asked by adel d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have a three month old baby, let me add we have been together off and on for over 15 years.As of lately, he has been rude,told me to leave, and called me foul names. I know I should leave, but our baby has a disability, and will be having surgery to correct the problem next week. When I make arrangements to move, he tells me he will take me to court and take custody of the baby, and I will never see her again.I realize this is a scare tactic he is using, but my question is, what will it take for him to get custody of her? His name is NOT on her birth certificate as he "was not on board with this pregnancy" yet he now acts like the father of the year.
I do plan on leaving, but will wait until my baby has her surgery.
HAs anyone been through something similar, and how did/would you handle it? Also, why could he be acting this way?

2006-12-04 09:15:15 · 11 answers · asked by sheila a 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 09:14:46 · 28 answers · asked by cookiemonster_tigger 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey. I am 13 years old && im in the 9th grade. I am moving with my dad and I will be going to school up there. I know, like, 4 people who go to the school. One of them is homeschooled but is like my best friend. She says people are nice. My cousin who is in the 9th grade says people can be really mean. Danny and Zach are in my grade. They are excited and happy I am going to school with them (epecially danny because he likes me.) They both say it will be fine. But i cant help but feel afraid nobody will like me. Switching school's in the middle of the year is gonna be hard. Do you have any suggestions on how to make friends and stuff?

2006-12-04 09:14:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-04 09:14:37 · 23 answers · asked by stefandkids2 1 in Weddings

The wife is very educated and spends long hours at her office. The couple have been married for many years and have grown children. However, she seems so nonchalant about her man flirting and even on occasion going out on "safe" dates with other women. He says the best place to hide something is right under someone's nose..,! Could she really be that clueless and ditzy? Is she just not that into their marriage? Or could she be cheating herself? You think it really is an open marriage of sorts? He says he told her once that it was ok if she wanted to fool around outside their marriage but not to bring home any diseases or problems.

2006-12-04 09:14:31 · 17 answers · asked by jesshispet 3 in Marriage & Divorce

lately my husband has been disinterested in making love because of stress from getting layed off.He told me i should try coming on to him...and i was wondering what the best approach would be to get him in the mood.
1. The bold approach.Come into the room with nothing but my robe on,untie it...straddle his lap on the couch with my chest against his...switching off between french kissing his mouth and his neck while nibbling on his ear.
or
2. The subtle approach...still wearing my robe...get behind him on the couch and begin giving him a back and shoulder massage with warming oil.
or
3. Any other ideas?

Thanks for your comments

2006-12-04 09:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok my baby daddy thinks that just because im having his kid that it gives him the right to have sex with me! i dont want to have sex wiht him but if i dont he wont talk to me and says its not his kid and all kinds of other stuff and acts like hes not going to be a father!! what do i do i mean i want my child to have a father but i dont want to have sex with him anymore!

2006-12-04 09:12:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so i'm 15 and even though i've had boyfriends in the past [we havent kissed or had sex or anything] i've decided to court from now on. how many of you out there are courting and saving sex for marriage?

[christians and non-christians can answer]

p.s. i, myself, am a christian.

2006-12-04 09:12:24 · 4 answers · asked by Hannah 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

she hits me and my brother.She look like she came from hell. she is a nasty person she dose not tack showers.

2006-12-04 09:11:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this friend and she's really need help right now she is like the most uncool person ini the school well almost. and she asked me for help on makeing her bestter so what kind of things should i have her do. like who do u get more popular with out spending a billon dollars please right back with tips on looks and attitude.

2006-12-04 09:11:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A good friend has a birthday coming up. He really needs to rest, so I was thinking of sending him to the Marriott for a night and inside of the room I was going to get a nice flower arrangement and plan a treasure hunt for him to find the other gifts and make reservations for him to have breakfast the next morning. I was thinking about a nice engraved pen, a new name plate for his desk, an engraved bible, personalized towels and a book as the gifts to hide. What do you think? If you were a man would you enjoy this?

2006-12-04 09:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by yourplaceofrest 3 in Friends

he has just accepted a job in iraq that he did not discuss with her. they have a 15month old daughter. no child support has been established. he is training in texas. and he is not giveng her any useful info. help!! any resources out there? what should she do?

2006-12-04 09:10:51 · 10 answers · asked by DIONN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I LIKE THIS BOY NAME MIKE BUT MY FRIEND DOES TO AND I KNOW SHE'S GOING TO BE MAD IF SHE FINDS OUT BUT I REALLY LIKE HIM ALOT AND I ALSO HAVE A BETTER SHOT AT GETTING HIM THAN SHE DOES AND I'M TRIED OF WASTING TIME PLS. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-04 09:10:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been out with this younger woman several times over the course of the last two months. We have never kissed, but have fooled around a bit. On Saturday night I told her how desperately I wanted to kiss her, and she said, "Why do you want to kiss me, . . . don't you want to be my friend?" I replied that I realy DO want to be her friend..... help me, im falling for this woman, and don't know what she thinks of me yet.

2006-12-04 09:09:31 · 33 answers · asked by captainkirkwood 2 in Singles & Dating

And why isn't like the other thing? Your thoughts please.

2006-12-04 09:09:30 · 10 answers · asked by dcrosslx 1 in Singles & Dating

Seeing a girl and when we are looking into each other's eyes she sometimes looks away why would this be?

2006-12-04 09:09:09 · 11 answers · asked by Vinnie 1 in Singles & Dating

In my opinion, there are 3 kind of marriages.

2006-12-04 09:09:06 · 13 answers · asked by S. NANDA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Say you have a crush on a direct superior, say a teacher or boss... They are your age, you have loads in common, and if you had met somewhere other than school or work, you would totally fall for them. But that relationship was going to end soon, class was coming to an end, or you were transferring to another department, is it OK to then pursue your feelings, or do they remain off limits forever?

2006-12-04 09:08:23 · 13 answers · asked by katie4882 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I got back together after a 7 month split, last night she told me she had two other partners between those 7 months, I did not have any b/c I found it even hard to get close to a girl b/c I was still in love with her. I keep imagineing her with those other guys, should I let this bother me so much? Should I just suck it up and be with her, Im hopeing with time this will fade, I don't want to leave her because of this, its not like we were together at the time....Any suggestions?

2006-12-04 09:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I spend my child support money on beer?

2006-12-04 09:08:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love this guy should I tell him?

2006-12-04 09:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by K.C. 2 in Singles & Dating

when they kiss they try to take off the pants so fast or when ur macking him he gets a ***** WHY IS THAT???

2006-12-04 09:07:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I saw my best friend's girl friend with a other guy kissing and crap.She seen me and said hi i just didn't answer I was pissed off at her.Should I tell him or is it best to stay out and not tell they were going out 1 year now what should l do?

2006-12-04 09:07:42 · 9 answers · asked by god_shadow5 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 09:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by malinla93 1 in Singles & Dating

no credit card, nothing, just free?

2006-12-04 09:06:29 · 9 answers · asked by evilbombtoy 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy in my school, but I know that other people like him and I am also not sure if I want everybody to know. Do guys usually like when girls are outgoing? That's what my friend said, kind of like a 'go for it.' But how do I?

2006-12-04 09:06:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend at school and i have a major attraction to him, he flirts with me really badly but i know that he does that with a lot of girls but i cant help thinking that maybe theres something different with the way he is with me, some days hes really full on with me and other days its really cold, wats goin on??

2006-12-04 09:05:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating