I've been out with this younger woman several times over the course of the last two months. We have never kissed, but have fooled around a bit. On Saturday night I told her how desperately I wanted to kiss her, and she said, "Why do you want to kiss me, . . . don't you want to be my friend?" I replied that I realy DO want to be her friend..... help me, im falling for this woman, and don't know what she thinks of me yet.
2006-12-04 09:09:31 · 33 answers · asked by captainkirkwood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Telling her you're desperate was your first mistake... and a horrible one at that. You blew it. Next time, just go for it.
2006-12-04 09:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since she didn't start avoiding you, after mentioning that you wanted to kiss her, she wasn't obviously turned off by it, SOOOOO, allow the relationship on a friendship level, to cook a little longer.
It sounds like she wants to get to know you a little better before allowing a romantic relationship to begin. It sounds like she is just not sure about that, right now but is open to it, IF that should happen in the near future.
She obviously likes you a lot. Don't blow it by being too pushy. Give her time and above all, be her best FRIEND, for now.
I'll bet she'll be in your arms very very soon.
Good luck and play your cards right with this one. She's watching you and sizing you up as we speak.
2006-12-04 09:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is intimate on a level that everything else is not (I know that sounds odd but it's true). I've been involved w/men I liked and we did fool around - but kissing them was a total turn off. You might want to reconsider what she wants . . . perhaps she does not even know. But it may be that she does not share the level of feelings you do.
2006-12-04 09:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your women sounds like she's playing hard to get and wants you to get her well if she fooled around with you it sounds like she likes you so all you have to do is buy her some french chocolates flowers and a really mushy card on your card invite her to a fancy hotel or restraunt but at the bottom write your tax is a kiss!
2006-12-04 09:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Alice C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds confused with the fooling around but not wanting to kiss. It would be better for you to move on.
2006-12-04 09:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like her hard to get role is working. Unless she's some kind of freak I'm sure she likes you if she's fooling around and remember some people think kissing is more personal than having sex. My old boss wouldn't drink after his wife, but he did everything else to her. Weird, but it takes all types.
2006-12-04 09:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by cargirldawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have fooled around and not kissed maybe she is a prostitute and someone is paying her for you, Its all i can come up with, i have never fooled around with anyone without a kiss to start it all off
2006-12-04 09:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants what they feal they can't have...she obviously knows she can have you anytime she feals like it so try not making yourself so readily available! I admire the gentleman attitude but this girl is no fool, she see's your kindness as a weakness and all that will lead to is your broken heart...don't show your emotions so much and back off a bit to see if she bites!
2006-12-04 09:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are falling for her and she isn't reciprocating, I would get the hell out right now. This can only end up badly for you... also, why has she fooled around with you if she only wants to be friends?
2006-12-04 09:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I can just speak for myself, but I hate it when a guy ask to kiss me. It should just happen it feels better when it is the right time. Continue to see her and you will know the right time to kiss.
2006-12-04 09:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it doesnt look too good with her asking why u want to kiss her. Although i dont understand what u mean about fooling around. if she asked u why dont u wanna her friend, i think thats ur answer. sorry
2006-12-04 09:12:28 · answer #11 · answered by clare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋