i have this friend and she's really need help right now she is like the most uncool person ini the school well almost. and she asked me for help on makeing her bestter so what kind of things should i have her do. like who do u get more popular with out spending a billon dollars please right back with tips on looks and attitude.
2006-12-04 09:11:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she dosn't have a good self astem a little chuby anything u can contribute well help her greatly
2006-12-04 09:22:34 · update #1
and no camm 300 not popular people can have good taste witch is y i said popular people or peolpe with good taste. key word OR!
2006-12-04 09:25:18 · update #2
For a "popular" girl with "good taste" you sure do have terrible spelling and grammar.
Whoops. I'm not popular, I shouldn't have answered this.
2006-12-04 09:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Seven Costanza 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Popularity rarely lasts. Helping her to find things that bring her joy and make her feel comfortable in her own skin will do her the most good in the long run. People are drawn to those who are comfortable with themselves. Few of the popular girls from my class are happy with their lives; however, those of us who pursued our joys even if others didn't approve, enjoy life.
The fact that you want to help this friend improve herself shows that you are a kind, compassionate person. Those traits will get your farther in the world than any amount of popularity or money. Besides, while you're helping your friend, you might find some really cool interests for yourself. Keep up the good work.
2006-12-04 17:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by Julie N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You or her should not care about what other people think, however what really helps is being involved in activities like sports, joining a gym, joining clubs or just hanging out with people and being friendly yet confident. If you command respect and stop worrying so much about what other people think, they'll automatically be drawn to you (or her). Of course your presentation is important - it's always important - because that's how people learn about your personality, but make sure you're comfortable in the way that you dress - dress well and "cool", but at the same time be true to your personality - don't try to copy people or change yourself, but bring out the best in you and present that to the world!
2006-12-04 17:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anjali C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for her attitude she needs to have a lot of self confidence and let it show!! She needs to make people almost intimidated to talk to her(sound weird but it works) Now for looks maybe do her hair in a sassy look at me kind of way.And some nice (doent have to be expensive) clothes always helps.
2006-12-04 17:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by aj 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You can't. The best thing to do is help her feel confident in being herself. If she has to change in order to get people to like her, then those people have nothing to contribute, especially friendship.
2006-12-04 17:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That leave's me out. I don't want to be popular and my taste sucks (just check out my wife!).
But I like myself and that's all that d@mn counts!! So I would tell your friends, that "being cool" isn't all that it's made out to be. Being "real" is more important.
2006-12-04 17:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you saying people who arent popular dont have good taste? She should just be herself and stay away from you.
I hate popular people.
2006-12-04 17:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by camm300 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
she shoudl just be herself you shouldnt cahnge what you liek or who you are just to be "popular"
2006-12-04 17:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by tor-van 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋