ok my baby daddy thinks that just because im having his kid that it gives him the right to have sex with me! i dont want to have sex wiht him but if i dont he wont talk to me and says its not his kid and all kinds of other stuff and acts like hes not going to be a father!! what do i do i mean i want my child to have a father but i dont want to have sex with him anymore!
2006-12-04 09:12:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he needs to grow up. A DNA test and child support may speed up the process.I hope you don't fall for that stupid *** game he is running, because he will do you like that for years if you don't wisen up and if you have to have sex with him to be a daddy then he may not be the best father for your child anyways. Believe me from experience good step-fathers are a dime a dozen. Don't be the fool in this situation. He will play you as long as you let him.
2006-12-04 09:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by cargirldawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl your body is changing and your mind too. Your coming into motherhood. And a lot of women go through this change and men become little boys again. With the mind frame, I want, I want. But not thinking about the child or you at times. You need to talk to your baby daddy and tell him why you are not feeling sexually when he is around you. At this time in both of your lives he should be thinking about your and the child's welfare. But if he doesn't want to be a father that's okay. Because ever man can help with the making of a child, But not ever man can be a father. And the same goes for women too. Any woman can have a baby, But not ever woman can be a mother. If he is telling you that the child is not his. Then tell him that's what DNA test are for. And take his butt to court and they will make him pay child support. And he won't be able to get a passport to leave the country. He will have to support his child.
2006-12-04 10:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have sex or any relationship with him if you don't want to. If he is the real father, let an attorney handle it. He'll make sure you get the child support and what ever else is deserved for your child. If he fights you on being the father, get a dna test done to prove it. Again the attorney can handle it.Good Luck.
2006-12-04 09:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Zig Zag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl your in trouble, that a$$Hol& just used you, he's ganna say anything to try to get what he wants now that he thinks he can take over your life and control you, just because he thinks you won't leave him since your having his baby. Don't be dumb and show him who's in charge, It may be hard for you to do this but don't let him control you and if you show him you really mean it, then if he loves he'll respect you and stop, but if he doesn't and he acts like he's not the father of his baby, then that shows you how, much he loved you, he just wanted some and doesn't want more to deal with.
2006-12-04 09:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lilmamasita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through, my baby's daddy acted very similar before he went to the army. But I stopped it before it went too far or too long, and granted he was gone for the first year of our son's life, but now he is back and everything is going great. Just let time do it's thing, and if everything works out then great, if not then there are some great people out there who will treat you right and help you through this hard time. (without trying to use you and manipulate you) So just take your time and just be the best mom you can be and live life to its fullest. It will be hard but you will be able to do it, you will have great motivation from your baby. Just hang in there, you can message me at ashreesue860@yahoo.com.
2006-12-04 09:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ashree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously that guy is a jerk I have a friend that is going threw the same thing. You just have to say "no" and he may be the father but you can always find someone who is better and cares for you more.
2006-12-04 09:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by faredogg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to have sex with anyone you don't want to! And forcing you to do so is called rape. Sounds like he's very manipulative. Once that baby is born have a paternity test and that will make him take care of his respondsibilities.
2006-12-04 09:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That tramp,she takes images of herself making pouty faces on the digicam,similar to a slut does. OMG OMG OMG!!!! Edit-what is quite humorous is all of the morons who thinks that is critical.
2016-09-03 12:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex w/ him. Screw him if he thinks he can toy w/ you like that. If that's the way he is then you don't want him to be around your child anyway.
2006-12-04 09:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have to do anything you don't want to .. if he denies that the kid is his there is DNA testing
2006-12-04 09:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋