Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

if you suspected your partner to be cheating on you would you consider hiring a private investigator to follow him/her?

2006-12-02 11:37:30 · 32 answers · asked by tetley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna do something insanely fun for my 15th b-day parT. like, i don't want it to be some friends hanging around watching a movie kinda thing cuz its been done to death and it gets annoying after a while. plus, its my last b-day that i'm celebrating with my friends before i move halfway across the freaking world in a few months. i want this to be HUGE!! anyone got any good ideas on something i could do??

2006-12-02 11:36:44 · 8 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Friends

I've been trying to get out and have fun just for the sake of chillin and enjoying people's company, but it always comes down to being able to manually relate to that person and somehow forcing myself to introduce whomever to what I do. Yes I have a great smile, yes I can get people to listen, and yes I can encourage people in a pleasant manner to perform and show off. But as much as others appreciate my attention and as much as I feel good knowing I helped someone else, I can only feel exhausted or irritated with respect to that given individual.

This is really hard for me to explain since I.... I don't talk like this, but I need to clarify what I'm saying so EVERYONE can coherently understand.

Oh, also, in case anyone's wondering; yes it's the same way when I'm looking for some girl to go out with. It's not difficult to connect and get a girl to indulge in me, and intimacy is something I enjoy, but for some reason, I can't do the same without seeming confusing or creepy.

2006-12-02 11:35:18 · 3 answers · asked by Mikey C 5 in Friends

Ok im 14 and i got an almost 3 month old son i had him september 11th. and i have a best friend named dylan which i named him after i met dylan 3 or 4 months before i got pregnant when i told him i was pregnant he accepted it because it was mostly not my fault because the father of my son is not the best person in the world he is currently in jail for stagetory rape. but dylan almost killed him when he found out what the guy did to me so yea were close like family and i really like him and he gets along well with me and enjoys being around my son and acts as if hes a father figure and takes care of me at school and comes over alot to hang out Do you all think i should like be with him as if we were dating? because i like him alot and he likes me back and is perfect for me according to alot of people and my parents even approve of him well one does the other is also in prison. but what do you all think? anything will help?

2006-12-02 11:35:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I think I might be crazy but !!!!!!you just discrived my exact same sittuation ,in other words this is too much of a coinsidence,,,are you Jose? Im just asking {more than likery I m twieking to hard}but just in case let me give you some advice........from a person that is going through the same exact situation,and as the strong and beautiful woman that I happen to even though my flaws and mistakes my deffects of caracter and my not so happy lifestile....dont treat her like that ,,honestly it is hard as it is as an individual to not love my self enough to not do those things ,but you really should think twice about putting some one else down to make your self feel and lookbetter,because you dont!!! not in myb eyes youdont !!!!you never Know the tables could some how turn
on your *** and she might just get off the drugs go back to school and become a very beautiful and successful woman.........Meanwhile you on the other hand could end up using drugs and loosing it all.KARMA

2006-12-02 11:35:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey! I have my crush for secret santa this year and I have NO idea what to get him! We go to school!

2006-12-02 11:34:33 · 8 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so i was interested in this guy and he really had no interest in me because he is friends w/ my older brother, and didnt want to mess up his friendship, but now he told one of my friends he was becoming interested, and i am completly over it! it was like i only wanted what i couldnt have, if he ends up asking me out, what should i do? turn him down or say yes and see what im really feeling? im super confused! Thanks.

2006-12-02 11:33:21 · 20 answers · asked by sublime_girl06 1 in Singles & Dating

A SPOTTY MAN

A HAIRY MAN

OR A UGLY MAN

2006-12-02 11:33:14 · 22 answers · asked by ewrewr e 1 in Singles & Dating

should i tell the guy i like, that i like him.i think he likes me too but how could i tell him im bad at talking to guys. so should i tell him? an how do i tell him?

2006-12-02 11:32:21 · 5 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Singles & Dating

There's a dance coming up and im going with my best friend because me and my boyfriend just broke up and it's next SAt. How can i tell him i really like him. Ive known him forever and he's been through it all with me
all the boyfriends I had have never been so comforting and loving we did go out once it was in the 3rd grade LOL!!
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-02 11:31:56 · 14 answers · asked by Colee 1 in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow, I'm having a guy friend come over for the first time. He is coming over for dinner and to watch movies. My family is in the process of remodeling our home. There really isn't a mess but there is open walls and drywall is in the process of being put on. Will he mind coming over because the remodeling? I don't want him to think of me differently....I know it sounds stupid, but I have OCD and I worry so much. And when he comes over, do I tell him we are remodeling and sorry about the mess?

2006-12-02 11:31:51 · 6 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Singles & Dating

Im not very popular and i basically hang with this girl, I basically hang with her because there is not one else and i just dont want to be a loner. I dont care about friends anymore, i just want graduate i dont care really. But then i also care about being embarresed and i dont want to be thought weird of. Since highschool started i hung out with this girl, i knew no one so i just hung out with her. We barely even talk we have lunch together and we follow eachother. Shes so boreing sometimes. Then my other friend she started wanting to hang out with me, but shes not that quiet and she can always find someone to hang with. Now she thinks that im her best friend. Well i do really like her, but what if one day she ditches me? I need backup you know what i mean? Then i want to hang with both of them but they dont like eachother and the one who is chatty and kind of annoying kind of blackmails me. she goes like hang with me or her its you choice, I told her we'll ditch that girl but then..

2006-12-02 11:31:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My best friend had asked me this question a few minuets ago. I told her that it really doesn't matter what other people think about who you're dating. (Like people criticizing you about who you are dating and such) Though she gave me the reply "It sounds easy to ignore it but it's not"
So ... I thought of myself in her position. It would be kind of embarrasing at first, but does it really matter about the opinion of others? If a person were to tell you "Ew, your dating him?" Or things like that. If it doesn't, how do I tell my friend that she should just ignore rude comments? (Because she is going to get asked out by someone she really likes soon) Does critizing on who your dating even last long in high school?

2006-12-02 11:31:07 · 23 answers · asked by Kimmi 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 34 and my brother is 40... we both have 2 kids and live less than a mile from each other. He has only seen my kids twice in 2006 and he and his wife never want to do anything with my family. I have tried to build a relationship with him, but my brother does not seem interested in bringing our families together. Yet he is very disappointed and he is trying to make us feel guilty that my wife and I wont be at Christmas this year. What is you opinion on this?

2006-12-02 11:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I LOVE the muppets. I remember watching the Muppet Show a long time ago.

My favorite characters:

The Swedish Chef: I love to cook too and I am a little destructive like he is... plus you have no clue what he is saying.

Beaker: the sidekick to Professor Honeydew. He is funny and you have no idea what he is saying.

Statler and Waldorf: the two old dudes that have sarcastic remarks about everything. Love it.

2006-12-02 11:30:22 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

strictly for fun, so ... have fun!

2006-12-02 11:29:18 · 3 answers · asked by Bubbles 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 11:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by Kenneth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In my experience over the years, and my last three relationships coming off the back of affairs with taken/engaged women - women are far more likely to cheat than men, despite what we are led to believe.

Most women I've known over the years have cheated, but only a few men..

I believe the "men are cheating b*astards" is a myth - im not saying it doesnt happen, but I dont think its rampant, whereas, my experience of a broad range of women from barmaids to it consultants, is that women are the ones who cheat.

Your thoughts?

2006-12-02 11:29:00 · 12 answers · asked by Im a killer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The thought it would ware off i started when i was 4

i broke 7 boards and broke my arm 3 times but i still skate and my best friend just got a skatepark in his house and they wont let me skate there. so what can i tell them to lt me skate more and skate there

2006-12-02 11:28:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i just started talking to a girl over the phone who i was hooked up with by another friend who works with her. I've never seen or talked to the girl before and i am wondering what makes for a good conversation. and whats a good time and place or situation to meet her in.

2006-12-02 11:28:26 · 2 answers · asked by Changed 3 in Singles & Dating

if so...why?

2006-12-02 11:26:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son always picks on his sister, hits her, trips her takes things from her. He also will not listen to me or my wife about running jumping on furniture, picking up after himself etc. He is good for everyone else, teacher, babysitter, Aunts, Uncles. What can we do to get the information to stick in his head. Usually gets put in the corner after we have asked to listen a few times. What can we do?

2006-12-02 11:26:45 · 18 answers · asked by miky2tones 2 in Family

So, yesterday I was talking to myguy about going out this weekend. He said that tonight would be better for him. He lives about 45 minuts away, and had to come to the next town over from me to get something. I suggested that he come over after he was done, instead of going back home and then driving all the way back here. I had asked him to help fix my door, which he said he would. So, he comes over, fixes the door and a few other things. He watched the last of the football game and then said he was going home!!! What the??? He said he didn't realize I wanted to go out (duh- it's Saturday night!) and he was tired and not dressed to go anywhere. I suggested that we just get a pizza and hang out, then. He said he wanted to go home and said he was tired again. He wants to get together tomorrow night and told me not to be angry. Of course I am! Do I call him and see if he is home? If so, what do I say? (We have been together forever- but it's been complecated). Thanks for the help

2006-12-02 11:26:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've heard that men do, sometimes by the third or fourth date they are in love. What do you think?

2006-12-02 11:25:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend in 2nd grade and her brother likes me and i like him and i dont know what to do i mean we both really like each other and I want to go out with him. Hes catholic and i know hes not a bad kid.I really like him and he really likes me and i wanna hook up what sould i do

2006-12-02 11:25:49 · 14 answers · asked by Peachy 1 in Singles & Dating

does she whant spaceor is she mad at me?

2006-12-02 11:25:10 · 3 answers · asked by nene 1 in Family

why does this happen..how can anyyone do this though u r soooooo in love with someone/.?

2006-12-02 11:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by fabulous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You have a serious problem. You cannot resist logging on, tuning out, and searching for something outside of yourself to meet some need, living a fantasy where women and young girls spread for you over and over again. You do this every day, often several times each day, while rejecting the love of your real, flesh and blood wife.

Be very careful how you respond to being confronted with your behavior. If you lie or decry the invasion of your privacy, you will lose what little credibility you have left with me. Your behavior has placed our marriage, our well-being, and your career in serious peril. Before you deny any of this, consider that all you needed to do was stop. Instead, you have been willing to place your marriage and your future in jeopardy on a daily basis.

I am worthy of 100% of the love, affection, attention, time, energy, and passions of the heart that are yours to share. Can you renew your promise to me, and keep it forever? Choose now. Choose forever.

2006-12-02 11:24:35 · 16 answers · asked by RiverGrrl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My online boyfriend lives currently in another part of the world. He had been keeping a secret from me and lying about it for quite some time. He pretended his looks were different then what they really were. He was afraid to tell me the truth about this secret. He told his friend he was feeling so guilty about lying to me and was so afraid he would lose me, from this one little lie. His friend thought that it would be a good idea to pretend that my boyfriend had died. His friend called me and told me my boyfriend had past way in an accident. This broke my heart so much. I didn't think I would be able to go on in life without him. This happened one month ago.

Then 3 days ago my boyfriend called me and told me the truth. I don't know what I should be feeling or behaving like. In my heart, I want to forgive him and start over with him again, I really feel his is the love of my life. Or should I dump him and start over with someone else? Am I a fool?

2006-12-02 11:23:58 · 38 answers · asked by Sultry Carino 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 11:23:34 · 20 answers · asked by Jessica l 1 in Friends