so i was interested in this guy and he really had no interest in me because he is friends w/ my older brother, and didnt want to mess up his friendship, but now he told one of my friends he was becoming interested, and i am completly over it! it was like i only wanted what i couldnt have, if he ends up asking me out, what should i do? turn him down or say yes and see what im really feeling? im super confused! Thanks.
2006-12-02 11:33:21 · 20 answers · asked by sublime_girl06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're not interested anymore, then just say so. Turn him down, but say, "If you'd asked me a while ago, I would've jumped at the chance, but sorry, I've moved on now, and I don't think it would be fair to you to say yes."
2006-12-02 11:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go on a first date and see what happens and how your feelings change or will they stay the same either way you need to find out,maybe this is faith maybe ur meant to be with him,you'll never know unless u go on a first date
2006-12-02 19:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about going out as friends...Its a good way to find out if it was infatuation or if you really have a connection.If it doesnt work out for you just tell him you look at him as a big brother..
2006-12-02 19:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound like my sister she dated my brothers friend and my brother didnt really care until they had sex but w/e i think you should go out with him and have a good time to see if u still have feelings for him
2006-12-02 19:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by pearl l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not like you have to make a serious commitment with him. Go on a date or two and see what happens, if there is no spark tell him!
2006-12-02 19:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by kgsult 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont say yes if you dont like him, because if you say yes and you go out with for a while it will hurt him more when you break up. and you dont want to lead him on if you dont like him and he really likes you. If he asks you out just say, that your not interested, and say your sorry if you lead him on.
2006-12-02 19:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by la bella vita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn him down, your first instinct was right; it's never a good idea to date one of your brother's friends!
2006-12-02 19:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you've moved past this, then you should politely let him know you are flattered, but no thank you. To accept at this point would be doing both of you an injustice.
2006-12-02 19:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by crazyjeans12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him a chance, mabey it will turn out that he's a great guy...mabey not. You can always break things off when/if you start to feel like he's not right for you.
2006-12-02 19:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would turn him down. i dont think it is a good idea to get involved with your sibling friends.because when it does not work out you end up having your sibling mad at you too.
2006-12-02 19:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋