I've been trying to get out and have fun just for the sake of chillin and enjoying people's company, but it always comes down to being able to manually relate to that person and somehow forcing myself to introduce whomever to what I do. Yes I have a great smile, yes I can get people to listen, and yes I can encourage people in a pleasant manner to perform and show off. But as much as others appreciate my attention and as much as I feel good knowing I helped someone else, I can only feel exhausted or irritated with respect to that given individual.
This is really hard for me to explain since I.... I don't talk like this, but I need to clarify what I'm saying so EVERYONE can coherently understand.
Oh, also, in case anyone's wondering; yes it's the same way when I'm looking for some girl to go out with. It's not difficult to connect and get a girl to indulge in me, and intimacy is something I enjoy, but for some reason, I can't do the same without seeming confusing or creepy.
2006-12-02 11:35:18 · 3 answers · asked by Mikey C 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You get what u put out.If u put out knowing all and trying to help all then that's what u will get back. Try just being friendly and drop the knowing all thing and see what happens...People will be alot different towards u.It's not fair but that's how it is.Good luck
2006-12-02 11:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. There are some things that only time can change and I have a feeling that this is one of them. Just be yourself. You are constantly changing and one of these days it will just click and you will enjoy all of these things that you are having a difficult time with. Being patient is often one if the HARDEST things to do. Don't worry about the little things in life, save it for the big ones that actually MATTER! :)
2006-12-02 12:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get it...
2006-12-02 11:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋