Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating since the beginning of Spring this year, and it's starting to get really serious and we are going to meet family members soon, but there are a few things that I just won't do because I'm uncomfortable with it, even in marriage, and I won't change my mind.
Most has to do with sex. He wan't to have oral sex, but I will not, I don't like it, I've had bad experiences. He also wants to have sex a lot, and says that sex is extremly important in a marriage, but to me it is somewhat important, and I feel different about how much sex I'd be comfortable having. I don't want marathoon sex, because then it just starts to be all about sex and nothing more.
I know I sound insecure about these things, but if this is what is totally imporant to him in marriage,and is not to me, then should we even continue things. If I stay, I may feel pressured, if I go, I don't know how it would make me feel.
2006-12-02
10:53:25
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