I been dealing with this girl who seems to want to be with me but were no together. we talk about the things I think only couples should talk about and she tells me all her secrets and such.
back ground info
I am a lone wolf type guy I do things on my own and prefer to have only one other person. she is a little gang member and seems like she could not survive with out a group to take care of her. she has also been sleeping with her gay friends bi boyfriend and last night she told me she was using meth again.
question time!
how do I tell her politely that I want no more contact with her because I find her a weak unintelligent crack whore and that I would prefer to go after a woman that is more intelligent than I and not far less intelligent than I?
honestly I think the only reason I am around her is because she makes me feel better knowing there are more messed up people than me.
2006-12-02 10:47:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just be honest with her and explain why and she should be able to understand that.
2006-12-02 10:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by mysterious_yet_sweet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry, but I laughed. You are a very funny person!! But back to your question. I think you are the type of person that can be honest. tell her just that, or tell her you are to busy to be with a crack head, cheat. tell her something, but some reason i think you are better than this. you are who you hang with in this society after all, sad as that is. do you want people to think you are this way to? just be straight forward and good luck!
2006-12-02 18:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her names, even if it might be the truth. Tell her you have no desire to waste your life on someone involved with drugs, gangs, etc. You are putting yourself in a dangerous situation when you are with her due to her drug use. If the cops are watching her, they won't hesitate to grab you up in a sting, however innocent you may be.
Encourage her to go to drug rehab and tell her goodbye until she cleans up her act. And start feeling better about yourself so you don't attract these kind of women in the future.
2006-12-02 18:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by tmp326 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could do what I did when I couldn't lose my meth-addict druggie "friends" who'd show up at my apartment at all hours of the day and night bringing strange people with them and not leaving me alone.
Move and don't leave a forwarding address.
Change your phone number.
It worked. It's the only thing that'll work when you're dealing with a dependent, clinging, mentally borderline drug addict.
2006-12-02 18:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Move
2. Stop answering her calls (change number)
3. Avoid her constantly, this one usually works...eventually.
4. Get a restraining order
5. Write her a letter explaining...nahhh just avoid her at all cost.
6. Good Luck
2006-12-02 18:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by jupitor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple. Dont be too nice to her. Break it down to her that she has nasty filthy habbits and a descent person like you would never settle for that. Maybe the harsh reality will set her problem *** straight. The truth hurts but break it down real hardcore. Dont spare her by being nice. She needs tough love or a real good ***** smack
2006-12-02 18:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by Evilish13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, buddie, you shoul have seen her troublesome ways from the beginning. I am one such as you and went out with a girl such as yours knowing that she wasn't "the one" for me. i think you should tell her politely that you think you guys are better off friends, and from the way that she's described, she'll get over real quick. besides, you don't need that kind of a chick anyway, she'll probably burn you or dog you her 1st opportunity.
2006-12-02 18:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Changed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her this book for christmas:
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys (Hardcover)
2006-12-02 18:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by aznbrik 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, you really dont think highly of this girl so i feel the best thing for you to do, not only to help yourself but to actually act like a decent human being and not use someone to your mental gratification.....is to not contact this woman, return calls, or respond anymore. UNLESS you are quite capable of being honest and forthright about how you feel. otherwise i would save yourself the trouble and her the heartache, and walk away.
2006-12-02 18:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't wanna hang out with her than don't simple as that. Tell her to go away and "keep off the meth crack whore!!"
2006-12-02 18:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by starz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be to the point. You don't have to do it in a harsh way just be nice about it but put your foot down, and tell her you don't want her pining over you anymore.
2006-12-02 19:01:08 · answer #11 · answered by amber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋