My bf and i have been goin out for 1 month or so. We are in our early teens. I think i am his 1st gf, and he is my 2nd. neither of us have ever kissed anyone. he is an only child so he and his mom especially have a very close relationship. his mom seems to like me, if not, accept me.
i really want my 1st kiss. i have no idea about him. How do i get it? i am afraid to make the 1st move b/c i don't want to freak him out, or i don't want his moms' disapproval. How do i let him know i want him to kiss me, and how do i get him to? (lips)
I am also TERRIFIED of rejection, regrett, or embarassment.
I alrady make myself look like an idiot enough.
2006-12-02 10:54:48 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go with the flow and let things happen as they come, but don't go too far!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 10:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Changed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not an idiot my friend b/c you're not the only one who wants to get their 1st kiss and when you make the 1st move it usually has a 90% of chance that the guy is going to respect you b/c not every guys like when the girls make the 1st move. The only chance you have is to wait until he gets on his skin and don't rush him b/c you're still in the early ages qhich means that you'll lose nothing if you don't already get you're 1st kiss...
Don't rush my friend b/c you don't want to have any regrets tomorrow....
2006-12-02 19:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know 'bout that! i am 17, i have been in only one relationship so far, and i have never kissed a boy! i can't wait either, but i'm not desperate for it. i know it will come at the right time, and will happen at the right moment! i am also a huge flirt, so i'm comfortable in my skin! lol
but i feel like being sarcastic and cynical right now, so here goes
"don't kiss him! kissing leads to touching, which leads to all sorts of other stuf...." Wayne - my wife and kids.
lol
pay no attention to dat quote!
and you're not an idiot, you're just a teenager!
who needs loads of talking to by someone who you trust who is an adult, and who understands you (before you go ahead and do something stupid- lol)!
good luck!
2006-12-02 19:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are things you can do to lead up to a kiss without being too committal. After you hug him, let go only slightly and look into his face. He's probably scared and nervous too. But if you make it easier for him, then he might make a move first.
Good luck.
2006-12-02 19:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by hobbes84k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you hug him give him a little kiss on the cheek or neck, that way you dont have to be worried coz your not looking at him.
That will tell him that you want to kiss him, then its his decision, but do it away from everyone else, he will probably be too scared if anyone is watching
2006-12-02 19:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by dan.harris9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should and when you are talking to him you wait untill he is looking at you and wait for the moment then you gab his head and you give him a kiss on the lips
2006-12-02 19:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by teddy_girl2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you really like him and you feel like kissing him is a way of showing him.i know how it feels to want to kiss someone,i feel that everyday with my husband.hes the best kisser in the world
2006-12-02 19:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got kissed the second month. she knew me alot cause we were friends for about a year. she asked me so she can be sure if i wanted a kiss. ask your bf.
2006-12-02 19:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by EZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for the right time to come and it will happen
2006-12-02 19:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what its not going to be a good kiss so just do it and then you guys can practice
2006-12-02 18:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by saltynsassy3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋