My friend is avoiding me because i didn't want to throw eggs at a house on halloween. She has constantly been trying to take my friends away but luckly none of my friends like her. Should i ditch her???
2006-12-02 10:45:23 · 18 answers · asked by Cayla Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The reason that she wanted to egg the house (for so many of you that want to know) was that the old lady in the house was giving out rasins.
2006-12-02 11:02:32 · update #1
obviously tha person doesn't deserve to be ur friend if they're goin' to egg a lady's house or givin' out raisn they're obviously despriate for attention...take my advise an forget bout her
2006-12-02 11:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by jls10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends are not going for her, then you don't really have anything to worry about. A friend would respect your desire not to egg a house, no matter whose house it is. If the house belonged to a person you both don't like, think about the other people who live in that house...the humiliation they might feel that their house got egged. Or the expense of any damage the eggs might cause--they have been known to destroy the paint on cars, for example. Did the house belong to a person who gets picked on a lot? Then it definately would have been wrong to add more stress to that person. Put yourself in the position of the potential target; I think that's what you did on Hallween.
It's hard just to "ditch" someone, but it sounds like she (he?) already began the process by avoiding you. If you really want to end the relationship, just don't care if she's avoiding you. Do nothing. Don't pursue. Think of it as an "out" instead of as "being avoided". If you have other friends, don't sweat it.
2006-12-02 18:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Silhouette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should, that's not even a friend at all. Just because you didn't throuw eggs at a house on halloween she's been avoiding you? Plus to make it worse trying to take your other friends away from you? That's not right and you shouldn't stand for it. DITCH HER!
2006-12-02 18:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is immature...ditch her. If she is that lame, then you really don't need to hang out with her. Let me repeat that. If she is avoiding you because you won't egg a house then she isn't worth waisting your time on. It's tough, but go and find some new friends!
2006-12-02 18:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of smile at her in the hallway but never realyy hangout with her she is being very immature eventually she will realize how selfish she is being
hang out with your friends you have now
that was a smart decision w/ the eggs
you don't have to worry she'll want you back soon
make sure she says sorry though
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-02 18:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Colee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like her, tell her white lies on why you didnt throw eggs.
Like;
You were afraid to get caught by the neighbours.
You were afraid to get caught by the police.
You were afraid that your parents would know and make for u a trouble.
You pretend that this family that lives in this house are friends of your family and you cant throw eggs on them coz u see it un appropriate.
If you are not close friends, just ignore her coz she will forget this incidence with time.....
I wish I gave you the best answer.
2006-12-02 18:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Khaled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to throw eggs at people's houses! You should just ignore her, or tell her you might get in trouble, if the police see you doing that.
2006-12-02 18:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she is trying to make you feel bad for having a mind and will of your own who needs friend who are controlling and think only what they do count obviously you are both young but she is acting childishly and badly. you keep the good ones let her go controll someone else.
2006-12-02 18:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by louci2shoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the trouble maker.
2006-12-02 18:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Changed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! At least until she grows up a little
2006-12-02 18:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋