Im not very popular and i basically hang with this girl, I basically hang with her because there is not one else and i just dont want to be a loner. I dont care about friends anymore, i just want graduate i dont care really. But then i also care about being embarresed and i dont want to be thought weird of. Since highschool started i hung out with this girl, i knew no one so i just hung out with her. We barely even talk we have lunch together and we follow eachother. Shes so boreing sometimes. Then my other friend she started wanting to hang out with me, but shes not that quiet and she can always find someone to hang with. Now she thinks that im her best friend. Well i do really like her, but what if one day she ditches me? I need backup you know what i mean? Then i want to hang with both of them but they dont like eachother and the one who is chatty and kind of annoying kind of blackmails me. she goes like hang with me or her its you choice, I told her we'll ditch that girl but then..
2006-12-02 11:31:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
BUT THEN I DONT WANT TO, I NEVER WANT TO DITCH ANYONE BECAUSE I KNOW HOW IT FEELS AND IT HURTS. BUTI CANT STAND LIVING WITH A FRIEND THAT DOESNT EVEN TALK TO ME BARELY... BUT THEN ALMOST EVERYONE HATES THAT CHATTY ONE THEY THINK SHES SO DAMN ANNOYING... and im scared one day she'll ditch me when she finds a better friend what can i do? help?
2006-12-02 11:32:57 · update #1
First of all the girl your hanging out with now is not a token friend that you can just push aside and keep in reserve when a person you think is better or cooler. She doesn't deserve that. Friendships are earned and not to be abused. It's selfish to think you can return to your reserve friend when you get ditched by another friend. I think it's time you reexamined your moral ethics, apologize to her and discontinue your friendship with her because it's based on a lie. She probably thinks your being her friend is authentic and sincere where it is not. That's not fair. You may have or will destroy her self esteem. I've known people to commit suicide because of this. Your playing a dangerous game with someone else's life.
2006-12-02 11:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by zzap2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look just hang out with one and another day the other one if one gets made then you found out that she is not really your friend friends are the ones that care about you not the ones that tell you what to do
2006-12-02 19:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by chukles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋