Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

my best friend broke the news to me that she cheated on her hubby. They were having issues and she went for the temp fix. She knows that it was wrong. But he still dosen't know about it. I'm not sure what advice to give her. Or what to do. Can someone help please!

2006-11-30 19:55:50 · 14 answers · asked by mandy b 2 in Friends

I already have this so far but am thinking maybe its too much..."A TALE OF 2 PEOPLE" Once there were 2 people who became very good friends.They enjoyed each others company, talked about life, Loved the Lord and knew almost instantly that their friendship was special.They became lovers and since they've always known that their relationship was a gift from God-thus- he slipped his love on her finger,now they are engaged!
its a love that'll stay,its a bond thats forever do join us on an intimate evening as we celebrate our engagement DATE: TIME PLACE ATTIRE RSVP?????? IS THIS TOO MUCH????

2006-11-30 19:54:34 · 6 answers · asked by MJ 1 in Weddings

My ex-boyfriend has been bothering me lately, hes trying to get me back! Im 9 months pregnant to my now boyfriend tho. my ex wont stop calling and he wont stop comin over. How do I tell him to back off!?

2006-11-30 19:52:16 · 13 answers · asked by Yahmina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-30 19:50:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a girl, we have been together in this relationship for almost two years now.Now suprising thing is that, yesterday when i checked her cell phone, i found this message in the draft foder "sorry if i have hate your fellings, i want to find time so that we sit down and discuss, aim weak with our relationship. i want to abort it, but iam not saying that we become enermies no, it'll also take time for me to forget about you." Your friend for life." Now guys whom do you think she type this sms to? help me before i ask her about it.

2006-11-30 19:49:58 · 9 answers · asked by KING TOOTER 1 in Singles & Dating

Initially I thought it would be fun to have more than one flavor combo for each tier of my 4 tier wedding cake. Then, after talking to the baker it occured to me that maybe that's too complicated. The baker is happy to do what we want, but how do you pass out cake that offers multiple flavors & fillings and get it all straight! To me it seems like we (the bride & groom) should just choose what we want ... one cake flavor & filling ... and be done with it.

Doesn't having multiple flavors to choose from just create unnecessary confusion for the guests & the servers to boot? And all 4 tiers will get cut into leaving exposed, leftover cake instead of just cutting what is needed to serve the guests, right?

We are having a chocolate fountain (with dipping items), fruit, crackers & cheese for snacks after the party gets rolling into the night, so there is some variety of treats other than just the wedding cake.

Has anyone had a multiple flavor wedding cake? How did it go?

2006-11-30 19:49:33 · 15 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Weddings

Thinking of separating from hubby.We've been married for 7yrs but found out stuff that has devastated me entirely.I want him to tell me something but for some reason I can't even stand the sight of him or touch anything he owns.

We have two kids together and I am 7 months pregnant with my 3rd

2006-11-30 19:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

have a boyfriend we have been together for 6 years.I am 24 and he is 23. both good looking and educated... I have moved here for 3 months and we have been apart since then.He wants to move here and marry me. We are REALLY good with each other and have so muh fun nd love each other SO MUCH, but the problem is that he is SOOOOOO jelous and gets mad whenever I talk to any guy or laugh or anything. When we are together, we are perfect, but when I even TALK to another guy,(i repeat...talking, not flirting or something) he becomes SO sad and sometimes doesnt say aythingbut suffers inside... I dont know what to do :( sould I break up after 6 years or I have t quit talking to all male creatures!!! cause I am sure I cant change him. I have tried for 6 years but failed....

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I knw he does it cause he loves me. I have talked to him. but he thinks it is ME who should change, and he thinks you cant have any Guy friends if you are with somebody...But I know tha

2006-11-30 19:47:03 · 21 answers · asked by alwayss_ready 3 in Weddings

It made me feel kinda weird, though it was very nice of her, do you think it is okay for a woman to buy a man roses?~ it made me feel confused?

2006-11-30 19:46:43 · 12 answers · asked by WriteAndWrong 2 in Friends

Just need help with cool/fun games to play,dares we could ask the bride to be to do etc.
THANK YOU:)

2006-11-30 19:36:29 · 2 answers · asked by shiloh jolie-pitt 4 in Weddings

just watched "click it"(Adam Sandler) and it got me to thinking I would have to say rewind so i could fix some of my mistakes not all of them as some taught me some really good lessons and one big mistake years ago brought me my youngest daughter(One of my greatest joys in life ever) who is about to have her 1st child. Rewind and force my oldest daughter to leave her boyfriend 11 months and 25 days ago

2006-11-30 19:31:27 · 2 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family

My 13 and a half year old sister has been acting really weird lately... shes been crying and trying to avoid people. I know that shes keeping something from us. My mum wont do anythink. Citae wont do anythink. Ebelle wont do anythink. Her boyfriend wont and of course dad wont...
but I WANT to help her. I cant let my little sister go on like this. I dont know whats wrong!
She hasnt even been talking for the last 6 days...

PLZ HELP GUYS!!!

-Yasmin

2006-11-30 19:29:53 · 51 answers · asked by Yahmina 2 in Family

2006-11-30 19:29:49 · 24 answers · asked by Jon C 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend of 9 1/2 months. We've been friends for over a year before that. We're in our early 20s.

We talk about marriage all the time and our future kids. However, little things about our future seem to clash. Like he wants dogs. I don't want slobbering pooping tearing things apart machines. He wants to be able to pee in the shower. I don't wanna shower in that. He wants to wear shoes in the house. I don't want whatever he stepped on outside (poop, mud, gum, etc.) all over the house. I know these are little things, but I can't stop thinking about it.

Is it too early to even be thinking about these kinds of things in the future? Should I worry about this way later? I really don't know if he's downright serious about that kinda stuff. I don't wanna surprise him and bring something like that up outta nowhere.

I know it's normal in a long term relationship to talk about the future. And compromise is important.

I'd just like to hear what you guys think. Thanks. : }

2006-11-30 19:29:48 · 19 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just kinda get speechless after I say hi to them! then i dont really know what else to say! A little help plz!

2006-11-30 19:27:04 · 29 answers · asked by demonboie_666 . 1 in Friends

it will ruin the relationship. do you think she's going to hate me when i tell her. is sex that important that someone will leave someone they love

2006-11-30 19:26:00 · 37 answers · asked by JESSE 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in this problem for almost 4 years ago. There is a friend in the church that I've bn caring for, all these time. Despite my so honest to her, all she's still been saying till now is NO. Yet, there is someone else that I don't give much story, and that want me so much, up to the point of preparing ground for marriage according to my wish. Should I continue to wait or forget about the first lady and start my life with the seond one that has been showing her love and her interest to me? To be honest, I am thoroughly confused; please help me out

2006-11-30 19:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Ladson 1 in Singles & Dating

Why doesnt he ask me directly?
Its not really bothersome to me, I’m just curious

Why does my best friends older brother (19yrs old) [ note: I am 17, and a senior in HS ] never ask me questions directly?

For example, yesterday, I’m walking downstairs where my best friend and he was sitting. He is turning on his new HDTV DVD of Superman, and I hear him say,

“Wait, Kate has to see what its like before I switch it to High Definition” I get downstairs and sit on the couch and he obviously sees me. (he looks right at me) and he asks his sister “Has Kate ever seen Superman?” and my best friend (his sister) says “I don’t know Casey, why don’t you ask her yourself?” and he says “Kate, have you ever seen Superman?”

Why does he always do this? He never asks me directly, or speaks to me directly. He talks to me like I’m not in the room. Why?

2006-11-30 19:22:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just don't understand myself. I am in Love i know i am!!! I have been with this guy for 6 years on and off. When we are together after awhile I kind of lose interest in him, so he leaves once he leaves I am a total wreck without him, and I know I love him, so why do I only want him when I can't have him?

2006-11-30 19:21:52 · 19 answers · asked by RachelSusan 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years and she has lied about cheating 3 times. She has now asked me to marry her. I know there is a huge trust issue here, but keep this in mind. She has been with me during my great times and bad times, which includes three life threating seizures, where one seizure she actually saved me from drowning during a seizure. I deep down love her and cannot imagine being without her, nor with these new seizures I don't feel comfortable alone. We have had the best times of my life together, but I have also been hurt extremely bad. What should I do?

2006-11-30 19:16:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay there's this guy that I really really really like, actually I'm in love with him. I was best friends with him before... when he suddenly told me how he felt. We've been going on tons of dates, he's been saying he loves me yet now for some reason he's all confused about everything saying things like how he doesn't know if we're meant to be "together forever" or even bf/gf (no, we haven't made anything official) so he doesn't want to get in too deep. And yes I know "I love you" seems quite deep to me too. And I told him that. But now I'm just soooo confused today he just said "i love you" out of nowhere, how can you say that yet not even know if we're supposed to be gf/bf?


p.s. over the last few days I've cut off the lovey dovey stuff and have just trying to act like he's just my friend since he's making me sad.

2006-11-30 19:15:00 · 13 answers · asked by dabombae 2 in Singles & Dating

My nature is good but i am a shy guy

2006-11-30 19:13:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from a friend

2006-11-30 19:10:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my husband and a nother man who is just the oposit of my husband. me and my husband are tring to work things out. But i am in love with his cousin he doesn't know i love or have a major thing for him. [the other guy] he is such a jetalmen and is sooo cute and he doesn't drink like my husband does. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!

2006-11-30 19:09:58 · 9 answers · asked by distantangel78 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It kills the lack of passion in your life. No arms to hold you you.. No shoulder to cry on.. No warm body to mingle with yours to give you the warmth in a cold night. What do you think I should do.. Hey it is not about sex.. so no hints to that please.. It's the passion.. the deep connection. How do I fulfill that?

2006-11-30 19:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by Chichou 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 19:08:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 19:07:29 · 15 answers · asked by Trevor 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 19:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked my boyfriend who is marry another woman soon, how much i mean to him and where do i stand in his heart?
This is his answer; "I also don't know where you stand. You're someone I miss when you're not around, someone I feel sad when I see you suffer, someone I am looking forward to see everytime and someone I feel who is special to me. I might not spend al my time with you but you're always in my mind. I keep missing you!"
What does this mean? Does he love me?

2006-11-30 19:05:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 19:04:09 · 12 answers · asked by Sopwith 4 in Marriage & Divorce