I have been in this problem for almost 4 years ago. There is a friend in the church that I've bn caring for, all these time. Despite my so honest to her, all she's still been saying till now is NO. Yet, there is someone else that I don't give much story, and that want me so much, up to the point of preparing ground for marriage according to my wish. Should I continue to wait or forget about the first lady and start my life with the seond one that has been showing her love and her interest to me? To be honest, I am thoroughly confused; please help me out
2006-11-30 19:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Ladson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't waste your effort on someone who does not care for you. that is my opinion
2006-11-30 19:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by jmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright Ladson, buddy, lets see if we can work this one out for ya.
You are a church goin man... Im sure you are familiar with Eve. Yeah, woman preferring lies rather then truth goes back to the beginning of womankind. but i have no idea why.
And for your second question.... You know that expression hind sight is 20/20? let me give you a little foresight through my hindsight.
I had a similar experiance. I want someone that didnt want me. But there was someone that wanted me, but i didnt want her. So... what did i do. I went out with her anyway. I thank God everyday that i didnt marry that crazy b i t c h.
the moral of the story, eventhough you might not get the one you want, rebound woman are never good for you. I would say that being confused is good. See, you can use that that to get the woman you want. Do whatever you think is best and if it doesnt work out, you can tell her that you were confused. and then try again.
never settle for anyone. but dont be locked down to this one woman. you'll find someone that you want that wants you too. dont give up on that, or on the woman you want. I'm just sayin, keep your eyes open. Good Luck.
P.S. really, I'm serious, dont get with that other chick, unless you find that you really like her someday.
2006-11-30 19:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by zerohour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me clear up some of your confusion.Ladies do not love lies rather than truth. Ladies seek accurate knowledge and search for truth. Ladies would not be involved in religious organizations that don't teach truth . Maybe you should check out another religious organization. It sounds like that just may be where most of your confusion is coming from.
2006-11-30 19:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by alliance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 10:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Notice what all three of you have in common - none of you are interested in the people who are interested in you. Instead, you're all interested in people who aren't interested in you. Think seriously about why that is and things might start to make sense.
2006-11-30 19:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by freshmeatpuppet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! where are you from?? whatever anyway yes u should give up on the first one sounds like you've wasted too much time on her already. that being said you should prepare yourself because the first one will most suredly come after you once you STOP paying attention to her..beware.. i hope my jibberish confused you like yours did me!! im kidding good luck you!!
2006-11-30 19:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some girls would reather a lie ouer the truth cuz some times the truth hurts more that the lies thats all i can say
2006-11-30 19:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the chik that wants to be with you now. if it doesnt work out 4 u than u can go back to trying to get with girl #1.
2006-11-30 19:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by squadman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop paying attention to the first lady for a while -see how she responds. sometimes we take what we have for granted. maybe she doesn't realize that you care for her the way you do...
2006-11-30 19:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by chantal h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends. You cant have feelings for the first girl and be with the secound girl that would be wrong to yourself and to her. I would follow my heart if I was you.
2006-11-30 19:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are westing your time considering and confusing yourself about the first. go with second and marry her.
2006-11-30 19:37:36 · answer #11 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋