Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

But hes been ignoring me and not wanting to talk even though I've told him we need to talk and he knows it. I just want a decent closure to our relationship cuz i still want us to be friend. i'm just going to catch him at work and tell him what hes been trying to run from. so why do u think hes ignoring the fact that we need to talk and is it a lil too much to just pop up at his work(when hes alone there-no other co-workers around) and confront him. cuz otherwise i can't get a hold of him. SUGGESTION ON HOW TO INITIATE THIS???? serious answers plz

2006-11-30 18:15:24 · 11 answers · asked by jenn 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 18:15:02 · 21 answers · asked by rahul 1 in Singles & Dating

it seems like the girls that i act uninterested in liked me better then when i acted interested in them

2006-11-30 18:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey guys.
i my guy's uncle just passed away recently and he is really depressed and i don't know what to do for him except hug him and say everything will be allright.
he is 30 and i m 18 so can u plz tell me what to do
it's serious he hasn't looked this much depressed before as he looks now .

plz help me..

2006-11-30 18:13:25 · 8 answers · asked by Hally berry 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, please let me know if Im just being mean, or if he could be in the wrong. My long term boyfriend of 4 years lives several states away from me right now because he got a really great, well paying job. I cant join him, because I am saving up to afford an apartment out there, and living at my parents home while doing so~yeah its fun. Anyway, we want to see each other and I say I don't have the money, but it would nice if he went and got me a ticket to come out and visit him, considering he has been making a good living and is buying plenty of toys for himself. He agrees, but says he will only pay for up to $200 and all of the tickets cost $300. I tell him I'll give him the extra $100 later when I can afford it and he flies me out to visit for a few weeks. All is good, I fly back. Now, he still continues to buy toys for himself and knows that I am still saving up to move out there,but now he wants this $100 from me. I think that's kind of messed up, since he spends so much on himself, is just forgetting about that $100 so hard? I mean we have been going out so long, and he obviously does not need the money, so what the heck?? I'm still trying to save enough to buy Christmas presents
So anyway, am I being unreasonable??? Should I just pay him the $100??? I told him several times how messed up I thought it was that he would demand such a little amount, but spend $1000 on himself the following week O_o

2006-11-30 18:13:19 · 8 answers · asked by Liz _lo 2 in Singles & Dating

make their own sex videos with their other half to spice things up?
If so, have you ever let other people view them?

2006-11-30 18:09:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think whether wives should work outside or stay at home?
Why? and please write where you are from.

2006-11-30 18:08:59 · 20 answers · asked by Cathy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And then leave... Lol..

2006-11-30 18:08:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 6 months ago I started working together with a very nice guy. We have similar interests and I could tell he was interested in me. At that time I had just split up from my boyfriend and I needed badly to be liked by someone. We spent a lot of time together, also outside the work. It was only flirt and deep conversations. He often had phonecalls during what he went out and acted weird. Then I finally heard from another person that he has a girlfriend. He never told me about her although he spoke about many of his friends and everything he did. Finally I asked him about that and he admit he was in a relationship with 'a girl'. Still no names or details.
Now we have started to go out with the same group of friends and with me he still isn't talking about her. I know her name and I saw her once but he even didn't introduce her to me. I don't flirt with him anymore and I don't talk to him about personal things anymore as I find that a friendship should be equal. What's wrong with him

2006-11-30 18:06:04 · 10 answers · asked by rottentotten 2 in Friends

if a guy at school (u dont know him) asks you out, what would u do? lets say hes not bad looking, seems nice, tall, azn. =D

2006-11-30 18:05:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't help but being attracted to the avatars in every question, you really make my day. How do you feel about male avatars?

2006-11-30 18:05:26 · 13 answers · asked by quilm 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to think about whether this guy likes me from school
here are the details:
1. He once grabbed my waist by surprise when i was in class with him
2. He occasionaly makes fun of me
3. He tries not to make eye contact with me in the halls
4. He invited me to a totally supervised and controlled party he had, but at the party i told someone i like him and then on the last dance, that person told him something(i dont know what) and he walk fast over to me and asked me to dance
5. He only talks to me every once in a while
6. He knew last year when i told my friend she should invite him to a party she was having and asked me if i had, but when i said it was true, he just left it at that
7. The conversations we have are really short and there is no eye-contact

What should i think?

2006-11-30 18:04:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had custody of my children all of their life. After asking for a child support increase for the first time, I was sued for custody of my 2 children. We have been divorced for 6 years and I felt that it was time for an increase. It took 18 months, but the judge ruled in my favor in October. My ex- husband has only elected to see the children 10 times in 6 yrs. He called today to inform me that he had arranged for someone to pick the children up the day they get out for Christams& take them to the airport 3.5 hrs away, put them on a flight unaccompanied to go a state away. Then he would put them back on a plain in the wee hours of the morning on the 26 & fly them back home(unaccompanied again) for the people to pick them back up & bring them to me. He is doing all of this for 3 days visitation. I do not begrudge him the visitation( I believe it is good for the girls to see their father),but they are only 6 & 8 & have only flew 1 time&it was with an adult. What do I do?

2006-11-30 18:02:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girl and I have been together almost 4 years and she has bothered me about getting married for at least a year. This is by far the most important girl I have ever been with (I'm 27) I love her to death. Now, just 2 days ago she actually got on her knee with a ring and asked me to marry her. I said yes and we went and had a great night. The next day, she tells me that she had slept with my friend one drunk night, after he tried to convince her that she needs to be with him and travel the world. The reason she gave is that she was so confused and worried that I would never ask her to marry me. The pain of thinking of her with this other guy is extremely hard to deal with, but she has begged me to not break it off, and told me she would never drink again. What should I do, she cheated on me, but it is a girl I don't think I will ever find another one like again.

2006-11-30 17:59:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i believe a guy will do anything to win a girl over if he truly likes her, if he believes she's the one. it doesn't matter what obstacles there may be (like a work relationship, student-prof), he'll do it.

agree?

2006-11-30 17:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by Eden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 17:59:05 · 37 answers · asked by chapped lips 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This is so backwards, but she doesn't want anything too serious (or so she says, at least not yet) b/c she figures I am too good for her. Now I know what you all think, and I have thought the same thing, but I am now convinced she is the first persin to ever say that and mean it. I am as sure as I can be. So, any suggestions for getting her over this? It's ridiculous, really, but I want her to realize how much I want HER w/out overdoing it. How do I convince/help her let go of this BS idea she has?

2006-11-30 17:59:00 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

If you were a hot girl and God commanded you to
sleep with me or you would burn in Hell for eternity,
would you take your chances with hell?

2006-11-30 17:58:59 · 4 answers · asked by PoohP 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i are staying at a hotel tomorrow night somewhere and we need something funny to do there that is funny on video..its for a school project..we just need something funny that we can't really get in trouble for..like something they would do on jackass...my friend wants to dress up as spider man and run around...but that isnt funny enough..any suggestions??

2006-11-30 17:58:29 · 3 answers · asked by DefLeppardxXx 2 in Singles & Dating

is it bad to ask a guy.... when are u going to settle down??? is that stupid to ask him?

2006-11-30 17:58:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is eighteen and his girlfriend is 16. They just had a daughter on November 8, 2006. Neither one of them have a clue about taking care of a baby. The baby lives with the mother and the maternal grandmother in a home with no heat and no hot water. They are using kerosene heaters to heat up the house. I confronted them about this situation and they got upset. Now they no longer allow my son or myself to see the baby. I have called child protective services, but so far nothing has been done. They also threatened to have my son locked for statutory rape if he continued to try to see the baby. How do I go about getting custody or should I even pursue it knowing my son may go to jail? Only serious answers please.

2006-11-30 17:56:03 · 8 answers · asked by Itsy 2 in Family

ok so theres four of us...and were all really close and everything, but one of us, is considered to be very cheap, she has this credit card thing, and she always says how she has no money on it, which who knows if shes lying, she neverr has anyyy cash on her, and doesnt even hesitate to pay for or help out one of us, when we dont have money, its not like we dont like her, but its preattyy annoying, to have a cheap friend. also when we all go out o eat, she says she cnat pay the tip or tax cuz she has a credit card, and only ends up paying for EXACTLY what she ordered maybe even less. what do we do?

2006-11-30 17:55:50 · 13 answers · asked by buddah 2 in Friends

Mine had an arranged marriage in 1993. Initially she hated my mom,family. I accepted. I seperated her from family and started living together.Then she started hating me, my job. we have seperate bed for last four years, no physical relation since 8 yrs. Only dilemma is my sons and their future.Pl advise what action I should take. My age is 42 yrs and holding important and high posts in govt.

2006-11-30 17:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by shailesh m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and he foned me yday to tell me hw much he tinks of me, like sexually n stuff coz he tinks im so hot-n he also feels that we should tink about gettng marryd nxt yr.

is he messing wit me in any way? do guys usualy tink/talk lyk dis?

2006-11-30 17:55:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My older brother is 30 still lives at home and is an alchoholic his wife is 24 and really sexy i'm 19. they have been together for 6 years and have a 14 month old girl i have always had a crush on her recentley my brother has been treating her like **** so a couple of months ago we started messin around we kiss and pretty much everything but sex whats the hold up? why wont she give in?

2006-11-30 17:54:12 · 17 answers · asked by Big Daddy 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine had an arranged marriage in 1993. Initially she hated my mom,family. I accepted. I seperated her from family and started living together.Then she started hating me, my job. we have seperate bed for last four years, no physical relation since 8 yrs. Only dilemma is my sons and their future.Pl advise what action I should take. My age is 42 yrs and holding important and high posts in govt.

2006-11-30 17:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by shailesh m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think it is too early to makeout on the first date. or do girls like physical contact throughout a date. I don't want to offend her but i dont want her to think i'm boring either and the first date is the most important.

2006-11-30 17:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 17:51:48 · 9 answers · asked by hereforhelp 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my grandma and my grandpa and my brother and my brother got hit for no reason five times in the eye with a book becasue my gandpa said he wasnt supposed to be reading... what should I do? should i talk to my g-ma?

2006-11-30 17:51:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im just a carpenter but she is from a wealthy family. I love her but If I propose we will be ostracized. Her family thinks I'm beneath her. Im not a politician, doctor or a lawyer, I just build the nice things they enjoy.
Can I prove my self to them? or just marie thier daughter, or alow her to meet a man that can provide her a finantialy sound future?

2006-11-30 17:50:57 · 17 answers · asked by morbidsmindtrip 3 in Weddings