hey guys.
i my guy's uncle just passed away recently and he is really depressed and i don't know what to do for him except hug him and say everything will be allright.
he is 30 and i m 18 so can u plz tell me what to do
it's serious he hasn't looked this much depressed before as he looks now .
plz help me..
2006-11-30 18:13:25 · 8 answers · asked by Hally berry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh .. 30.. i dont know how really help you but i try to not say "everything will be allright" not saying its bad to say i used to say it too.but when i got it back to me when i had hard tiem i thougth to myslef.. "how the ... do you know that? u dont know how i feel or how it will be.." thats what i fett b/c of depression and sadnes..
my suggestion would be talk it out, talk about best memories, of their relationship but mostly u say nothing u just listen leave the talking up to him it will free his mind and help him if hes not ready wit for another time, or just try to make him to talk it out when ur in quiet peaceful private place by saying "he must been great person.." see if he picks it up and goes from there. thats all i can suggest.
2006-11-30 18:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by ed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn - where does a thirty year old go to hook up with 18 year olds?
look, his uncle died. it sucks, but its part of life, let him be depressed for a while, just give him comfort...if he cant handle it, then, well then hes just not mature. which, you know, maybe why he cant get a girl within a decade of his own age.
2006-12-01 02:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him, Sweetie. It'll be a lot easier for him if he knows that you're feelin with and for him
2006-12-01 02:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Encourage him to talk about his uncle so he can get it out.
2006-12-01 02:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue.....continue......what your doing,time will heal, for the next month or 3, he will be alright good as before, its natural
2006-12-01 02:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by the Magician's Assistant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep being there for him
2006-12-01 02:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by s p 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get him in the bedroom and get wild and nasty.
2006-12-01 02:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are praying for this family!
2006-12-01 02:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by glima31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋