I just kinda get speechless after I say hi to them! then i dont really know what else to say! A little help plz!
2006-11-30 19:27:04 · 29 answers · asked by demonboie_666 . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Bamma knows about girls. He say talk to girl like she's your friend. Don't start thinking about sex. Just talk about normal stuff. Like she was one of the guys. If you act normal she'll respond. If you try to come up with dumb rehearsed lines. You're history. Be yourself and act natural. You'll see how easy it is once you do it. Bamma otta know.
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2006-11-30 19:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly. Pretend like you're a kid first meeting other kids on the playground. The topic can be completely random without crossing the line as weird. I know most people just say "talk to her like she were a guy" but in all reality, I know that some things guys talk about, I'd rather not. Don't hide the kind of person that you are, because if you do it'll come back to haunt you further down in the road, but still, use common sense.
2006-12-01 03:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by chikachika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-01 03:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask questions and listin to what they are saying so that you can ask even more qustions. It works for me and they really feel like you are intersted in them and not just there body.
Ohh yeah, by the way, a little advice. pick up lines havent worked since 1983. trust me, i remenber the day they stopped. it was a wednesday. and a little rainy. but not too rainy, you know like a good sleepin day. but anyway... if you keep with the questions and stay away from pick up lines you should be o.k.
because sooner or later she will mention something that you know a lot about and then you can talk about that. and remember, you dont have to look at her constantly through that conversation. you can look elsewhere. it will help you not be nervous. and if you get really nervous, then you should say this line, word from word:
Sorry. I'm getting a little nervous, it's been a while since i've talked to someone as... (then you add compliment here) example: someone as pretty as you. as smart as you. as nice as you. someone with such good fashion. the fashion one is a good one cause all girls like to talk about fashion at least a little bit. then you can go off asking questions about her fashion. it really simple
They will enjoy you listening and you will enjoy backing that *** up! its a win, win. :-0 (ohh no he didnt) thats what my girl just looked at me like. she didnt know that, that first night we talked i had it all planned out. what questions i was gonna ask, what compliments i was gonna give. it aint rocket science. Good Luck!
2006-12-01 04:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by zerohour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like youd talk to a good friend when their mum is around! You know no swearing and stuff. Like ask her what shes been doing or where shes off to etc. Ask her to have a coffee (or whatever is your thing) with you and a chat. I'm sure once your in a conversation you'll relax some. Good luck!
2006-12-01 03:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well think of a few questions before you actually say "hi, my name is"....kinda like... "so do you come to here often?" or "where do you go to school/work?" make comments about her appearance like "you have very nice eyes" or about the place your at "This bar is awesome!"...feed off her reactions and keep the conversation geared more torward her than yourself.....and practice!!...the more girls you try and talk to, the better you get at it.....half the guys usually wont go up and talk so if you do, you are one step ahead=)
2006-12-01 03:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by surfmerrick24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hasitate!! Just be yourself, and eveything will be fine> You dont need any special tect to talk with a girl.
Smlie and say how are you, if the girl replies with a smile then there is nothing to worry about. You can tell whatever good stuff comes in your mind. If she is your classmet or collegue you can start conversation with discuss on the issue you both are aquinted with.............
Good Luck !!
2006-12-01 03:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by shon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same way you talk to your friends, you don't have to talk to her in any special way. If you're trying to hook up with her, then compliment something of hers; Earrings, the dress/skirt/shoes, the hair... After that you'll be making conversation in no time.
2006-12-01 03:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are some of the things you would like to talk to them about? Alot of times when I want to talk to someone I come up with ideas in my mind as to what I could talk to them about. Also girls wont bite you if you come up to them and talk say something they cant pass up but to laugh about. Amuse them...relate to what they are talking about...ask questions about things are going on in class and let the convo go on from there. Good luck
2006-12-01 03:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its jus like conversing wit a guy!.... dont look for a relationship when u meet someone, u dont when u chat a guy do u?
ask about work, play, likes, dislikes, find a mutual topic and hopefully hit it off. if it doesnt happen move on.... plenty out there and hey, start all over again!...........
2006-12-01 03:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by jayomi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋