I have a girl, we have been together in this relationship for almost two years now.Now suprising thing is that, yesterday when i checked her cell phone, i found this message in the draft foder "sorry if i have hate your fellings, i want to find time so that we sit down and discuss, aim weak with our relationship. i want to abort it, but iam not saying that we become enermies no, it'll also take time for me to forget about you." Your friend for life." Now guys whom do you think she type this sms to? help me before i ask her about it.
2006-11-30 19:49:58 · 9 answers · asked by KING TOOTER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lover........sorry
2006-11-30 19:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start what are you doing checking out her phone. As a bloke (man), that is something you never do. You have betrayed her trust, and freedom. In other words you have, done the worst a person can do.
I would talk to her and ask her what her feelings are for you, and never mention that you checked her phone, from that you will know what her reaction will be. From work and see what you are doing wrong.
Obviously you have overstepped in her private life, as this other person is infatuated with your lady, but for God's sake never let her know you know.
Talk with your heart my friend and, be a little open minded, and accept your friend has other people who are interested. However remember, the message read 'we are friends for lie'. Obvioulsly that is a hint a no was said to that person.
Just enjoy what you have and work on it, but do not stress
2006-12-01 04:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by kirsun10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats an awkward question, I think maybe you should sit down and talk to your girl and find out for yourself. Its your life and only you can sort it out. But to be honest with you if I found that on my partners fone i wouldnt be too pleased. I hope things go okay for you, I know what its like to be hurt in this way. xx
2006-12-01 03:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by spensmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the date on which it was written in the more section..... How long has she had the phone ?
Personally I think it is to you. You need to sit her down and talk about it...... Oh and does she know that you riffled through her phone.....? She might hit the ceiling so best not to mention specifics.....
Good luck and hope you can reslove it.
2006-12-01 05:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long shot, I know.... but could she have been writing a text on behalf of a friend (then sending it to her) for her to send to a fella?
If you are going to ask whom the text was for, you will have to tread carefully. ... reading her texts etc... already a bad start... and relationships are about trust...
2006-12-01 04:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Boring Old Fart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isnt much anyone can say to that maybe she was sending it to you but I would totally ask her about and she may get defensive because you looked through her phone but that needs to be talked about.
2006-12-01 03:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you shouldn't have snooped and maybe that it is for you because you do such things and she no longer wants to be in a relationship with somebody that doesn't trust her .
2006-12-01 03:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't look in a womans hand bag, under wear, or mobile phone without asking her first.
2006-12-01 03:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
did she send it, if she did it was not for you, unless of course you havent checked your messages lately
2006-12-01 04:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋