Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

I have been apart from my ex for 24 years and in 83 we filed a legal separation, but never filed a divorce, am I able to remarry or do I need to get a divorce?

2006-11-30 11:23:35 · 8 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this guy hes a new stundent at my school but i was rejected to day so what can i do to make this guy like me

2006-11-30 11:23:26 · 14 answers · asked by love kills 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my man is cheating on me with one of my best friends? And I just found out that she was at his house and the shorts she had under the skirt was off and they were comin out the room. I asked her about it but she says nuttin happened..but i don't believe her. Her bf saw them comin out the room and told me. And what is really ****** up is my man and her man are tight and we are suppose to be friends. This is some drama. Help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-30 11:23:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:23:16 · 12 answers · asked by perfectasianguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi,
I am very very confused about this guy...i used to like him a lot and i think he knew it, at least vaguely...but nothing came out of it andhe didn't seem to care about me and now i am losing interest in him...but now when i am giving less and less attention to him he seems to be paying more and more attention to me...i don't really get it!!!! is he playing games with me...coz if he is i DO not want to waste my time...but i would like to know if he likes me or not...what do u think his behaviour suggests???

2006-11-30 11:23:15 · 5 answers · asked by pat 1 in Singles & Dating

we were arguing then he grabbed my arm and then as i turned my head i felt a thump now he sorry but im still scared. what should i do?

2006-11-30 11:23:12 · 33 answers · asked by kisha 1 in Singles & Dating

he's been acting weird this week like asking me if i want to come over and then saying no. well i told him that i wont be able to see him for a couple of days . and he said huh? and i said it again but i said i could come over tonight if you want me to and then he said no dont worry about it. were are you going anyways and i told him i wasnt going anywere.

2006-11-30 11:23:07 · 10 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I have dated 4 guys named Jason. It's kinda weird! LOL

2006-11-30 11:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by Blondie4u 1 in Singles & Dating

Its not really bothersome to me, I’m just curious

Why does my best friends older brother (19yrs old) [ note: I am 17, and a senior in HS ] never ask me questions directly?

For example, yesterday, I’m walking downstairs where my best friend and he was sitting. He is turning on his new HDTV DVD of Superman, and I hear him say,

“Wait, Kate has to see what its like before I switch it to High Definition” I get downstairs and sit on the couch and he obviously sees me. (he looks right at me) and he asks his sister “Has Kate ever seen Superman?” and my best friend (his sister) says “I don’t know Casey, why don’t you ask her yourself?” and he kind of smiles and says “Kate, have you ever seen Superman?”

Why does he always do this? He never asks me directly, or speaks to me directly. He talks to me like I’m not in the room. Why?

2006-11-30 11:21:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been really hurt but he swore it was me who he loved.I thought we had the "perfect relationship". He was the most romantic man I have ever met .He told me constantly that he loved me with all his heart soul essence and being..He said that he simply couldnt live without me .The only one problem that we had was his family just took a dislike to me and this made him really miserable. The family then coincidently just re-introduced the ex into his life and although he didnt seem interested at fihe admitted that he talked to her again..Initially he still swore that it was me he loved...but eventually he accepeted her as a friend. I couldnt understand this and I ended it. He cried like a baby and told me that "I was a beautiful, lovely person, that he " would never ever be good enough for me". Yet he let me go telling me that "he could never protect me from his family" A couple of weeks later he is back with her. I am broken! I always knew he was weak but I was convinced that he loved me.

2006-11-30 11:21:42 · 15 answers · asked by kimknowsbest 1 in Singles & Dating

I have read answers for my question and others, my question titled "do dream man exist". You suggested that I tell him that I love him which make sense but how easy is that if you have never propose love to anybody before. I had lots of proposal in my life and up to this point I only know answers but not to ask for love. Any hint out there because I find " I love you" crazy. I wanna make it perfectly without a dry throat.

2006-11-30 11:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by ALS 3 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, in your opinion which type of guy would you reccommend for your friend if you were to set her up on a blind date and why would you choose who you did? I need help deciding. Here are the potetial candidates:

1) Downhome Country Boy loves to show & raise horses. Knows value of $. Has always had to work for everything himself. Loves to drink whiskey & have small house parties. shaggy brown hair & goatee. Weight~ 200 Height~6'0

2) Uptown Chicago Gangsta~ loves to flaunt money, expensive clothes,& flashy cars. Long black hair,tounge ring, tattoos, & cocky attitude. Also a BIG drinker/smoker. Weighs ~125 and~5'6.

3) Sloppy Hippie Guy w/ never combed long sholder length hair, baggy pants, and always a tye-dye shirt. He weighs about 270 and is about 5'7. Plays guitar, smokes, drinks like a fish. Very Smart, though.

4) Nerdy Chemistry/Video Game Lover~ Very Smart, but never had a girlfriend. Long curly hair, tan, Italian, w/ glasses. ~ 160 & 5'6. Drinks occasionally.

2006-11-30 11:20:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im finishing high school at job corps, but im in a really great relationship. im not sure if i can do the whole long distance thing. i really like thi guy and we've been together for almost 3months...i just want to know if i should stay with him, because he says that he doesnt want to break up and i dont either. i dont know someone help me please.

2006-11-30 11:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by brittany 1 in Family

t.i. is mine and we met on myspace.com i asked which one do you think is fine out of them three

2006-11-30 11:20:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:19:55 · 32 answers · asked by jrgimp 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Help im ok talkin to people but not at the point were i want to be,i hate going to school because i can't talk to no one,.no girls talk to me and i have trouble talking to them i don't know the true reason why i feel mad lonely and sad(depressed and stuff).i don't know wat to do im turnin 18 dec 3

2006-11-30 11:19:55 · 10 answers · asked by flyd.rpap1 1 in Singles & Dating

when I was young I use to always have problems with women. but now I can get any women I want. I mean I dont even have to try.. is there any women out there that might be a challenge?

2006-11-30 11:19:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our family (mainly my grandmother), and my family can seem pushy, will not listen, and always wants their ways...what are some ways to deal with this? Thank you in advance.

2006-11-30 11:19:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband will often tease me that I act just like my mother. I will come back with he acts just like his mother. This got me thinking. Does your significant other act just like one of their parents, or like one of your parents? Or is your significant other off on their own path? I'd love to hear other's views on this. Thanks

2006-11-30 11:18:27 · 3 answers · asked by shortcakegirl45 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why will girls date guys who are not very cute. they might be short and bald or tall and chunky. but men wont date women who are not twigs. alot of my friends who are girls are bulit or well porportioned. so we all now what it is like....... so why.

2006-11-30 11:18:05 · 9 answers · asked by ulamciadilaucurats 2 in Singles & Dating

Knew this couple,He:son of a bank president.His parents required Jim to work he chose horticulture ,a hot miserable job.Jims' parents always supported him with a extra helping in life,a beautiful home outside Orlando,Florida,a double home really,4 BR 3 bath,screened patio,pool,new volvo.etc.need money?no problem-ring! hello,momThe wife,very nice,attractive,friendly,intelligent,loved tocook and was good at it .Extremely religious,christian from a poor family in Ky.Bobbi,worked for an apt complex as a leasing agent.Jim always saw that his wife had an almost luxurious life style,complete with a sportscar,siamese cats,a new living room suite every 2 years,clothes,fancy restaurantsbaby.Everything $ can buy that can be reasonably imagined.BUT one day Bobbi decided she no longer would have sex with Jim. She just wasn't interested in it is all.Jim said he needed it she refused Now she is driving a lunch truck in Kentucky,called the weenie wagondelivering food to construction sites who 2blame?

2006-11-30 11:17:44 · 8 answers · asked by getnabargain 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just can't stand underwear, so i just won't use it. But a lot of ppl have called me an unsanitary slut, whereas i think it's cleaner than having a piece of cloth there for 12 hours straight!

2006-11-30 11:17:35 · 8 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by pebbles 1 in Friends

they are now split up and have been for over a month. He was thinking about coming back to me. She told him she never wants to date him again. But, they are still friends and she causes problems everytime he talks to me. He and I would be together and she would text message him and start a fight. Because she is jealous. So, he quit talking to me because he hopes they will get back together.

He says we cant be friends right now but maybe in the future. Ok, I know this is going to sound stupid but I want to be friends with him. And I dont know how to make him see that she is the one causing the trouble not me. He says he still cares about me and always will but right now he is going through changes and wants to stay away from me because it causes to much heartache? Does this mean that he still wants to be with me but wants to explore before he comes back? I just want to be friends and stay in contact with him. Is there anyway I can show him that its her thats causing the problems?

2006-11-30 11:16:35 · 10 answers · asked by flower c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

All I can say is that the woman is just difficult.

2006-11-30 11:16:30 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

my wife of nearly 30 yrs has never had a honeymoon..this is perhaps the last gift i can give her..its certainly the biggest!! how do you get to the land of 5-0 and steve mcgarret? thats all she would like is her dream honeymoon..never got round to it..for numerous reasons..but the time is near...I LOVE THIS WOMAN FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART...SHE IS A GODESS...i am a romantic,chocs flowers gold diamonds aquamarines..weekends away..but no honeymoon..so how do i get to 5-0 land how long can we stay do we need visas??? how much is it all going to cost(funds are limited..but i shall take my cinderella to the ball!!!!.well hula skirt land !!i know i am not the perfect hubby..but somehow i have to do this for her....otherwise we will be on zimmer frames and never get there..so please someone tell me where to start..this is the woman of my dreams i worship the ground she walks on..I LOVE HWER TO BITS...SHE IS MY DARLING WIFE JAN..XX

2006-11-30 11:16:28 · 13 answers · asked by hondanut 4 in Weddings

Do you think its possible for long distance relationship to work? I lived in England for a year and one of my friends from over there I really like. Im not sure if he feels mutual...but im now living back in the states and I was wondering what people thoughts are on long distance relationships? What advice if any can u give! Thanks

2006-11-30 11:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by Fi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this guy ive known him for about and year and everyone thinks he likes me but he always says no and i never thought about liking him until now ive kind of got a liking for him and i really want to know if he likes me back, hes always asking for hugs from me and poking me in the sides and stuff so can someone tell me if he likes me? o yea i dont really look at myself as pretty actually i think im very ugly- im not very thin but now fat either my hair never works out right so i always have it up and i just dont think im very cute

2006-11-30 11:16:05 · 9 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

She meets them online in chat rooms. She says she never meets them in person, or sends pictures, but they buy gifts off her online wishlist in return for sex chat and emails describing her fantasies in detail. I asked if they know she's underage, and she says that's why they buy her stuff! Sometimes she even says she's younger than is! Would men really buy gifts for explicit emails from a teen, or is she doing something more?

2006-11-30 11:15:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1 1/2 years ago, my husband told me he was tired of me and needed a break from me and that he was going to move out. I asked him not to, but I said that if he thought he needed to do that to help him, then ok. He stopped speaking to me then and when needed an answer to something, he asked one of the kids to ask me or he would have the kids do whatever it was he needed instead of letting me help. He never moved out. A month later, he left me note in my car telling me he wanted a divorce. I asked him what could I do to help make this work, and he just said nothing and wanted to know how much money was I going to want so he would know how much to budget for. After 1 1/2 years, he still has not moved out. We are invisible to each other and live in the same house. I tried and tried to have conversions with him trying to make this work. I am now leaving myself. Should I tell him, or could I leave him a note stating I am moving out? Which happened to you...letter or person?

2006-11-30 11:15:34 · 18 answers · asked by Babygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce