All I can say is that the woman is just difficult.
2006-11-30 11:16:30 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to someone about excluding her from the dinner if she has a problem getting along with people. No reason to include people like this in on family functions.
2006-11-30 11:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 17⤊ 0⤋
Well......if I were where you are, I'd prbably match her indignance with my own........that would be very amusing.....often 'difficult' people just don't seem to notice what a drag they're being. Sometimes the only cure for that is a taste of their own medicine. If you do that, be sure not to let it get too out of hand.....it willl be Christmas after all. Otherwise, just stay clear out of her way, or try your best to see what you can't do to patch things up.
2006-11-30 11:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 2 · 13⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-28 02:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by faccone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm the type that prefers not to be around people who are asses. It doesn't matter if it's Christmas or not. Why pretend for one day, or is it because you may get a gift. So what. I can live without some things.
2006-11-30 11:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 1⤋
Christmas Vacation Movie quote: "It's the holidays, and we're all in misery!"
Stay clear of her as much as possible. If she is going to start trouble, confront it head on, and then give her an ultimatum: "Straighten up, or leave my home "
You are ultimately in control of your own home. Anyone who thinks differently should be confronted.
2006-11-30 11:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 13⤊ 1⤋
I would say either avoid her tactfully or try to learn why she is so difficult so you can better understand her.
2006-11-30 11:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 13⤊ 1⤋
Knock yourself out being nice to her. Maybe she'll react in kind. At least you'll feel good.
2006-11-30 11:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by masha 3 · 13⤊ 1⤋
JUST TRY TO BE CIVIL
AND NOT RUIN THE HOLIDAYS
YOU CAN TAKE IT FOR ONE DAY
2006-11-30 11:18:46 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 13⤊ 2⤋