Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

there is this guy at school that i like. I want to tell him how i feel but i am afraid he doesn't feel the same way and if i tell him he might treat me different(like not flirt or be as good as friends with me anymore.)What do i do?

2006-11-30 11:34:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it too much to ask to want a friend that is loyal, reliable, dependable, nice, trusting, and respects me and my privacy and is there for me?

What do you look for in a friend?

2006-11-30 11:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend and i broke up two days ago from being together for five years we was about to get married in feb and move together in jan he is my first love I don't want him back because he is not doing anything with his life. It still hurts soooo bad. I really loved him even though he was not a good person. i have to move on but how?

2006-11-30 11:33:10 · 5 answers · asked by mstrina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She was flirting with me and when she push me to the wall I was leaning and she tried to walk by and she got trip up by my feet, but didn't fall. I told her I didn't mean to trip her. It was an accident not on purpose. Then, she called me a dick wad. In a rude way. I said sorry to her, but she didn't want to hear it. Ten minutes later I apologize again told her it was an accident not on purpose and she said I was kidding about calling me a dick wad.

She one of those drama queen type of girls.

Do you think she hates me now? Is she weird or what?
What do you think this means?

2006-11-30 11:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i believe that there is no rule that says you can only be in love with someone after a certain amount of time....do you believe this is true? if you have been in love, how long did it take you to fall in love? is it possible to fall in love in a month? how do you know when you love someone?

2006-11-30 11:32:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:32:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi there. I know this is a sex question, but I was wondering what women think about guys fingering them during foreplay. Its something I like to do to see if my girlfriend is "ready" and its nice for me too. Can it be a turn off? If so, what are the best ways to get her excited before intercourse? I guess I am just looking for some new ideas here. I have also tried oral but I like it less. Thanks! Serious answers only

2006-11-30 11:32:31 · 13 answers · asked by Help_Out_Thanks 1 in Singles & Dating

okay. I love any guy that can dance. There 3 possibilities
#1 is a guy who pretty forward (which i like a lot) and really funny, taller and bigger, strong enough to pick me up (i weight 126), and really adorable
#2 is really shy (which drives me crazy) but he's real nice and sweet and a little funny in a cheezy (which kinda gets on my nerves a bit) not athletic at all
or last but not least
#3 whose shorter than me (which is weird) cute, strong, funny, and in between forward and shy, athletic too
HELP ME PLEASE!

2006-11-30 11:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by missattractive1 2 in Singles & Dating

One minuet he's looking at me, the next he's ignoring me. This has been going on for months and it's driving me crazy!
Does this mean that he's shy, he doesn't like me, he's trying to play hard to get, or what?






i would go talk to him, that idea scares me shtles.

2006-11-30 11:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together for seven months...lived, loved, laughed, and recently cried. We've made it through a couple of obstacles...now I want to move to the next step....whatever that is....what is that? And what comes after that step.....and the next one...and the next one? What are all the steps in a relationship?

2006-11-30 11:31:03 · 3 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

would you rather die rich and famos but have no chance for love? err poor but have a magic charm that tha ladys cant stand? or would you rather die of the old age of 90 with a great friend filled life and an adverage amout of money, but at the same time there is no love for you. that should test what kind of person you are.

2006-11-30 11:30:40 · 4 answers · asked by chris 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Weddings

My mother in law has been dating her boyfriend for 15 years...off and on...they are constantly breaking up and getting back together. My dilemma is, she insists that my children call him "Grampie"...I've asked her NOT to do this, because when they break up, my kids are confused and sad that "grampie" is gone. I don't mind that they call him by a nickname, but I don't want them to think that he is their grandfather. After 15 years, he hasn't married her or even divorced his first wife.. he's a jerk and a bad influence. My husband says to just "put up with it", but I'm not like that, and every time I ask her to stop (no matter how forward I am) she does what she wants, anyway. Should I just suck it up and let it go, or continue to stand my ground?

2006-11-30 11:29:49 · 12 answers · asked by VA Mamma 3 in Marriage & Divorce

married before for 6yrs and has a child from that marrage.my bf is very religious and talks about religion all the time.he told me he married his 1st wife because it was expected of him from the church.he said after 3 mons he knew he made a mistake but made a promise to god to make it work.he said his wife was a control freak that was never happy which in turn made his life hell which led him to cheat on her with 2 different women.i do know he tryed therapy with her and gave her a child to try and make her happy and do the right thing as he said.i asked him if he did not love her why stay married and have a child and he said thats what his religion expects divorce is highly looked down on..he knows what he did was wrong and seems deeply troubled by it. i'm just afraid he might be a wolf in sheeps clothing and using his devotion to his religion as a excuss to cheat on his wife and end up doing the same thing to me.

2006-11-30 11:29:20 · 19 answers · asked by jakiekelly09 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it really illegal to protect your girlfriend if someone tried to abuse because someone was trying to hurt my girlfriend and i just started going out with but that's not my point my point is i sent the guy to the hospital is that illegal because alot of people is saying that it's illegal for me to send someone to a hospital under any condition.

2006-11-30 11:29:09 · 12 answers · asked by Teodoro 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you like to wear thigh highs or garters? What about other kinds of lingerie?

2006-11-30 11:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guyfriend that is really going through some tough times now. Recently he was arrested because of an altication that he had with his son. He's 37 and his son is 16. He son "bucked" on him one night we he was told to get ready for bed - it was a school night. So they exchange some words and I guess some blows. His son pulled a knife on him. Well since his son's mouth was bruised - my friend had to go to jail that night. He was release the next day.

Ok. Well over the holidays my friend got his place together so I could come over after I got home. When I was over there that's when I found out he had to go to an eviction hearing this past tuesday. So I felt like a bomb twas dropped on me because 1) He didn't tell me this 2 weeks ago when he told me that he got to go to court after the christmas holidays because of the altication 2) this was the 1st time that I ever been to his house and I felt that I was being using. BTW - We have been dating on and off for about a year now.

2006-11-30 11:28:39 · 16 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

for example they say i just hit 3 base with tamika or something

2006-11-30 11:28:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:28:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:26:38 · 28 answers · asked by Kayd 1 in Family

OK...Well me and my boyfriend have been on a bumpy road but living together.. he's 23 im 18. he's sweet and everything but he's always lying about the smallest things! he told me he told off one of our managers(yes he works with me), and that the manager was intimated by him...i did my snoopying around and it was a lie, plus he's in a hurry of me getting pregnant and forces me to have sex with him, another thing is he lied about having a enagagement ring for me..i didnt make the suggestion of us getting married but he did....now i cheated on him with our general manager, we are both attractive to each other..and not for looks either its for our personalilty, we've known each other for about 4 yrs., weve been very close and he just moved out his house(His wife was cheating on him)......should i leave my bf? We've been going out for 9 months..and if i break up with him it isnt to go into a relationship with my GM.....help!

2006-11-30 11:26:12 · 24 answers · asked by Ivevy 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, here's the set up...
I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now...things between us have been nothing but great...but there's a small problem...
His ex...
She dumped him while we were still friends...and she's such a persistant biatch! She keeps calling him off and on, saying that she still loves him and crap, when SHE cheated on HIM!

Well, my boyfriend keeps getting depressed and crap cuz she's talking sh*t about our relationship and blaming him for their break up...
I cant stand her! And I cant kick her butt cuz I almost got in trouble for it a few times...
What should I do?!
I love him and I want us to keep our realationship...I cant loose him...

2006-11-30 11:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by La Reina 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like one of my good friends. I dont know how to ask him if he likes me and I dont want to tell him that I like him. How do I make it obviouse that I like him and dont directly tell him and how do I know if he likes me?

2006-11-30 11:25:41 · 3 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Singles & Dating

look im afraid of rejectoin, and ive been turned down like 4 times, i know not a lot, but i also dont have confidence cuz i dont hink i can compete with people and now i work out like crazy, play sports like football and wrestling for my school and im a jr. and 17 yeas old, i just hate it when i see a girl a i know that i dont have a chance with at all, i mean like y cant i be like the guys off of the show "Beauty and the geeks" they learn how to talk to the hot girls and what not, i think i need that kind of help, and people tell me tobe myself, i dont think i know how to be myself, well thanks for your time, i hope your answers work but i dont know

2006-11-30 11:24:19 · 14 answers · asked by cody e 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there any other ways of marriage that you don't have to get married in a church by a priest?

I'm athiest and I'd feel weird if I was married by a priest in a church (or out of one)... so are there any ways to have a nice fancy wedding without getting married by a priest?

2006-11-30 11:24:15 · 8 answers · asked by seme.desu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im on probation and want to get married to my boyfriend when im pregnant

2006-11-30 11:23:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex a few days ago flirts with my best friend on and off or at least until I am around. Why does he do that to me when we are suppose to be friends? My best friend said that she can't stand him and wouldn't do that to me. Does he flirt with her because he still has feelings for me and just wants me to be miserable just because he is? He has never done that before and he knows that she wouldnt even consider going out with him. He also wanted to take her to homecoming but she said no. Later on I told him that I didnt want to be friends with him because of the way he has been acting. To avoid an argument I didnt tell him the exact reason. All he said that it was up to me and wasn't going to change my mind about it. What could that mean when we have been best friends once before? His he just grieving? Because after all, he broke up with me. Is he trying to make me jealous or is he making me miserable just because he is? Help from someone that has been in this situation.

2006-11-30 11:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 13 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile and he always tries to kiss me but i turn away so he kisses me on the cheek . Im not quite sure how to kiss? this is my first kiss but i dont know how to kiss help wat do u do?

2006-11-30 11:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 11:23:45 · 4 answers · asked by Shivers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships