OK...Well me and my boyfriend have been on a bumpy road but living together.. he's 23 im 18. he's sweet and everything but he's always lying about the smallest things! he told me he told off one of our managers(yes he works with me), and that the manager was intimated by him...i did my snoopying around and it was a lie, plus he's in a hurry of me getting pregnant and forces me to have sex with him, another thing is he lied about having a enagagement ring for me..i didnt make the suggestion of us getting married but he did....now i cheated on him with our general manager, we are both attractive to each other..and not for looks either its for our personalilty, we've known each other for about 4 yrs., weve been very close and he just moved out his house(His wife was cheating on him)......should i leave my bf? We've been going out for 9 months..and if i break up with him it isnt to go into a relationship with my GM.....help!
2006-11-30 11:26:12 · 24 answers · asked by Ivevy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well me and my boyfriend have been on a bumpy road but living together cuz my stepfather kicked me out! hes 23 im 18. he's sweet and everything but he's always lying about the smallest things! We work in an arcade, he told me he told off one of our managers(yes he works with me), and that the manager was intimated by him i did my snoopying around and it was a lie, plus he's in a hurry of me getting pregnant and forces me to have sex with him, another thing is he lied about having a enagagement ring for me i didnt make the suggestion of us getting married but he did,now i cheated on him with our general manager, we are both attractive to each other and not for looks either its for our personalilty, we've known each other for about 4 yrs, weve been very close and he just moved out his house(His wife was cheating on him)Should i leave my bf? We've been going out for 9 months and if i break up with him it isnt to go into a relationship with my GM, we both know it will be to much drama.Hel
2006-11-30 11:53:46 · update #1
You need some counseling girlfriend. You are with one guy who treats you like crap, makes you have sex, that is rape, just in case you did not know. And you are having an affair with a married man, oh because his wife cheated on him that I guess makes it OK. You need some counseling. And more assistance than anyone here on yahoo answers can give you. you really need to take a good look at your life. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-30 11:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need help here, your are 18 living and working with your boyfriend now seeing a married man, get a new job and move out out on your own forget the men if you think the b/f is lying wait till the married one starts.
2006-11-30 11:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, DO NOT LET HIM GET YOU PREGNANT! And don't marry him either. You should leave your boyfriend asap. If he's in a hurry for you to get pregnant, and lies when he doesn't need to, there is something wrong with him. Guys who lie about stupid stuff are extremely insecure and trying to live in a fantasy world. Please trust me, I have been in your position . . . when reality hits these guys too hard, they're the ones that blow up and hit you. Your GM is not right for you right now, either. Try to find a guy your own age who is truthful and not married! Take care of yourself, sweetie, you're in shark infested waters.
2006-11-30 11:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I cheated on my boyfriend I would tell him, just be honest (no, it's not going to be easy!). Chances are high that he will find out eventually because you all work together. The trust will be gone from the relationship, but it sounds like you don't want to be in that relationship anyway. Besides, if your boyfriend forces you to have sex with him that's called rape and you shouldn't even give that dirtbag the time of day!!!!
2006-11-30 11:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by tahoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG girl you need to leave him soon. Yeah sure he's sweet you say, but he is trying to make you have his child. Did he even ask you if you wanted a child? Can you honestly say you want to be with someone who is this controling? And it doesn't sound as if he really wants to marry you. He may be useing the pregnacy thing as a way to keep you with him. This doens't sound safe, and no girl should ever let herself get put into a situation that she can't get out of. So go ahead and leave him, even if you dont get with your GM.
2006-11-30 11:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an idiot? You don't say one single positive thing about the guy you are dating, but ask other people if you should break up with him?
Use your head for something other than to grow hair girl! Good grief! Why are you with him in the first place? Are you that needy?
Get out and get on your own and grow up (sorry to be so blunt but you deserve it)... work on your self esteem...apparently it needs help if you've voluntarily stuck with a liar for 9 mos, who forces you to have sex...
*walks off shaking head*
2006-11-30 11:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him anymore break up with him. Don't continue to cheat on him...Don't tell him you cheated on him...this will create a lot of problems at home and work...too much drama..avoid it. Just break up with him. Move out...and if you like the other dude start talking to him. Remember its your life...do what you want...just avoid hurting those that do love you...don't cause him pain, otherwise he will hate you. What he doesn't know won't hurt him. I bet he would not want to know...he may say he does want to know...but trust me he doesn't want to know. Also, you are soooo young, and there are soooo many hot guys out there...don't think about marriage until you're like 25 or older.
Best wishes!!! Good luck.
2006-11-30 11:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you know you was wrong about cheating,, now said that.....Don't ever let a guy push a baby on you if your not ready then your not. As for the rest well i would tell the b/f what you did and hope he for gives you because the man you cheated with was married and will cheat on you.
2006-11-30 11:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by babie919 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should leave ur boyfriend but not bc u cheated. but bc u are too young to get pregnant, u have alot of time for that, u should expierence life alil b4 gettin tied down like that, plus he sounds controling, and liars are worse than a theif, bc a theif can stop stealin but a liar just lies more to cover up the other lies. plus if u cheated on him then u dont really feel him like u once did. and its not good to work with someone ur envolved with, u need time to be with other ppl and have that space outside the relationship..so ya time fo him to get to steppin.
2006-11-30 11:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one you don't really love him you would never hurt the once you love you need to talk to him and tell him how feel and so he could move on now that's low you should tell him how you really feel about him and i hope he does not get mad but I no he will be hurt. how would you like it if someone you love did you the same way ,you done you boy friend I hope the young man your going out with will do the something to you and see how good that feel
2006-11-30 11:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋