Well, here's the set up...
I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now...things between us have been nothing but great...but there's a small problem...
His ex...
She dumped him while we were still friends...and she's such a persistant biatch! She keeps calling him off and on, saying that she still loves him and crap, when SHE cheated on HIM!
Well, my boyfriend keeps getting depressed and crap cuz she's talking sh*t about our relationship and blaming him for their break up...
I cant stand her! And I cant kick her butt cuz I almost got in trouble for it a few times...
What should I do?!
I love him and I want us to keep our realationship...I cant loose him...
2006-11-30 11:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by La Reina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He dated her for 3 years and he needs to get over her...(I just found this out)
It's been almost a year and a half they've been broken up...
2006-11-30 12:45:30 · update #1
Listen if you love the brother don't even sweat the small stuff...i.g. the Biatch. You two must have something pretty special if it's been a whole year. Now the thing I am concerned about is that he keeps taking her calls. He's not exercising his natural right to IGNORE his ex and refuse to listen to her Yang about your relationship with him. Take it to him and let him know "Listen I've had it up to HERE with Ms Ex so and so. Give him the option to choose not taking her calls or yours. No infact tell him that's it, Stop taking her call and letting her cause a rift between the two of you. Remind him she was the fool to let your good stuff go, and you're not about to let her interfere with Your Love Life, she blew now let her blow that Sh** out her A** and keep it moving. If she keeps it up, I know somebody that knows somebody that can break the Hefer's Kneecaps...!!!
2006-11-30 11:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having problems right now too, only with an ex wife. My man is totally depressed because she keeps "getting in the way of our relationship" and she really doesn't like me. I think your man's ex is jelous, and she realizes that she ****** up. Now the only thing she can do is interfere. Just remember, she's not going to be a permanent part of your life. If you guys stay together, she's going to have to get out of you're lives. I always kill Kathy with kindness. I am always so nice to her that she just can't stand it. Meanwhile, constantly support your man. Comfort him after this chick has brought him down. I think he needs to say something. He needs to tell her to back the fu(k off. She needs to hear it from him that he wants nothing to do with her. If that doesn't work, just do your best not to fight with her. Know that you are better than her (obviously), and your man knows that too. Prove to them both that you're not a cheater, and that your going to be around for a while (hopefully).
2006-11-30 19:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Raye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This nonsensical pathetic mess brought to you by yet another illiterate product of the American Public School system.
2006-11-30 19:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down coz if you kick her butt or bad mouth her, it will create a bad impression on you for ur BF...dont let her win...be suportive to ur BF and treat him the best, this is your best way to win.
2006-11-30 19:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Saranghae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋