2006-11-30 11:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by pebbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It wouldn't be fair to your husband and even your friend. You dont want to put her in a complicated situation like that. I mean if you feel that you cant possibly be in love with your husband and are a lesbian...then take the steps you feel you need to take. But make sure you are concious of other peoples feelings and how it will change their lives. Im not in your shoes, so I cant imagine what ur feeling but make sure you really think about what your doing before you take action. Good luck!
2006-11-30 11:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Fi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds like a double standard but here goes...
Girl w/ girl is different than the regular "cheating" criteria. I would think that girl w/ girl really isn't cheating. It's really hard to explain but I suppose it's the 'feel' of the situation.
If you really want to act on feelings with friend, ask hubby what he thinks of you messing with another female. If you want to sell him on the idea, tell him that you may let him join or watch sometime. (it's a guy thing) ;)
2006-11-30 19:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have respect for your husband and don't do anything with your female friend.
2006-11-30 19:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋