Knew this couple,He:son of a bank president.His parents required Jim to work he chose horticulture ,a hot miserable job.Jims' parents always supported him with a extra helping in life,a beautiful home outside Orlando,Florida,a double home really,4 BR 3 bath,screened patio,pool,new volvo.etc.need money?no problem-ring! hello,momThe wife,very nice,attractive,friendly,intelligent,loved tocook and was good at it .Extremely religious,christian from a poor family in Ky.Bobbi,worked for an apt complex as a leasing agent.Jim always saw that his wife had an almost luxurious life style,complete with a sportscar,siamese cats,a new living room suite every 2 years,clothes,fancy restaurantsbaby.Everything $ can buy that can be reasonably imagined.BUT one day Bobbi decided she no longer would have sex with Jim. She just wasn't interested in it is all.Jim said he needed it she refused Now she is driving a lunch truck in Kentucky,called the weenie wagondelivering food to construction sites who 2blame?
2006-11-30 11:17:44 · 8 answers · asked by getnabargain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wrested control of the house,divorced her and put her on a plane back to kentucky,she did not want to go,and not having much money or education had to drive the weenie wagon
2006-11-30 11:30:11 · update #1
Jim did not wait around, he dated a couple of more women then found one more to his satisfaction
2006-11-30 11:32:59 · update #2
Perhaps Bobbi, growing up without a lot of money, doesn't place a lot of value on it. Materialism seems to hold no value to her. Jim kept her in a very luxurious lifestyle. Did he offer anything else, or was posession and material goods, however elegant, all he brought to the table?
Being married to someone is more than just finances and sex. It's knowing a person. Knowing the simplest thing to make that person smile.
You can't assign a dollar value on love. It's priceless.
2006-11-30 11:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a two way street every relationship takes two people to make work or not to work.they needed to have communication and to have time to talk and share feelings about all.this is the haves and the have nots and it looks like someone crossed over and the other needed to know the have nots better.live in each others shoes for a while and think about it and talk about it.
2006-11-30 11:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by russell s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess money doesnt buy happiness.....since she is getting some weenie now and Jim is not getting any
2006-11-30 11:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't follow that at all, but I would love to answer it. Maybe you could break all that up into paragraphs? And use some more spaces?
2006-11-30 11:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she didn't want everything handed to her- she wanted to work for it! People who have everything done for them done put in the effort to acheive something.
2006-11-30 11:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should anyone be blamed? Aren't they doing what they want to do?
2006-11-30 11:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do I know you...?
you have at least 2 sites up here...
2006-11-30 11:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, bc they didn't try to communicate about it much which might've been a better idea...
2006-11-30 11:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋