im finishing high school at job corps, but im in a really great relationship. im not sure if i can do the whole long distance thing. i really like thi guy and we've been together for almost 3months...i just want to know if i should stay with him, because he says that he doesnt want to break up and i dont either. i dont know someone help me please.
2006-11-30 11:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by brittany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you don't want to break up, then don't do it. Give the long distance thing a chance. If you can trust him, and he can trust you, why not? If it isn't meant to be, then things won't work out. Until then, give it your best shot.
2006-11-30 11:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by Raye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are second guessing about wether or not you can handle a long distance relationship, my advice to you is to ask yourself wether or not you love the guy. If you really and truly love him stay with him and if it is meant to be faith will keep the two of you together. However, if your not in love with him and you think that handling a long distance relationship plus trying to do good in school is too hard a task.Then tell him how you really feel about him.It will be better for the both of you to face reality and move on.
2006-11-30 19:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a lot of stuff... I have a two years long distance relationship with a few getting together...
How easy is it for you guys to find dates? How often do you guys hold yourself back from chances of having instant gratification?
How long can you stay or would you be willing to remain without having sexual contact? It depends on this kind of things.
If you wont hold yourselves back at the first chance of being with others... they it wouldnt work. How serious would you be about each other? Would you be willing to sacrifice a chance for instant gratification in order to keep the chance of building something together? or not?
2006-11-30 19:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is strong and real in both of you it will last a separation. You will know if he is being faithful by his tone of voice and the way he talks to you. If he can't handle the sepatation than it would of not worked anyhow. It takes longer than three months usually to build up a strong loving bond. Try it and see, it cannot hurt to give it a chance.
2006-11-30 19:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months is not a long time. I would break it off. it would be healthier for both of you. You need to be thinking about the job not what is he doing????
If it is as great as you say... he will understand and wish you the best.
If you hook up again later, great, if not.....oh well
You have an opportunity her to meet new people and make new friends... don't put restraints on yourself.....Go have fun and see what transpires.....
2006-11-30 19:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with him i know its hard to work it out far away but dont break his heart stay with him here what you do get a web ceamra and talk to each other that way he can see you email call him stay in touch as much as you can and when you can go see him it will make him feel good.
2006-11-30 19:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by dorota p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he says that he doesnt want to break up and i dont either"
if you both came to that why you asking us? maybe because you want to break up with him because you think you'll find someone better? thats messed up...
i think you know what you want and nothing we say will change that. good luck.
2006-11-30 19:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to and neither does he then don't. You don't need anybodies ok or permission to do what you feel is best.
2006-11-30 19:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
couple of months is a short period. take this time out & test your relationship...
2006-11-30 19:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you would rather have fun with other boys where your going, then break up with him.
2006-11-30 19:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by ftwsebftg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋