Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

I am attractive, have a cute figure, own my own house, good job, financially and emotionally stable.

Men never ever approach me or seem interested.

What makes men approach women? What can I do to be approachable? I see all sorts of women get approached so I don't think it is just about looks.

I am very very shy with men, but I am not a rude person or a bi tch.

Suggestions please.

2006-11-30 15:00:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfrind and we ahve been going out for 6 months. I think that it is time for a break. I tried it about a month ago. And he talked me out of it. I really love him. At least what I think love is. I don't want to break up with him. I just want a stop for a week or so. I dont want to hurt him though. But we fight alot and I hate it. I just think that it would be good to have a break? Just to get stuff out? You know. My best friend wants me to dump him and so do some other people. But alot of people want us to stay together, So any advice? It would help??

2006-11-30 14:59:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm in high school. So there's this guy, I met for almost a whole month. I really like him. The more we talk to more I like him. I want to tell him I want to date him but I think its too fast. But it jsut feels like I need to be with him to feel better. I mean we talk but we both seem pretty shy. We would always smile and laugh. I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no he's been trying to stay single but he asked me if I was also in a relationship and I said no, I'm not. I asked him to go to lunch. And we went to lunch. After that before lunch end I asked to see his phone and I put my # in his phone.By then end of the school I asked him is he going to call me. He said maybe then smiles..How do I know if he would be intrested in me or not???

2006-11-30 14:59:04 · 9 answers · asked by karrybaby 2 in Singles & Dating

She was my finacee'. I think about her all day, every day. I dream of her every single night. I am still very much in love with her. Someone please help me by telling me the best way to let her go. I am killing myself more and more everyday by holding on to her.

2006-11-30 14:59:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance of 2 years is leaving me because he believes I have cheated on him. I HAVE NOT!! He has a recording of him and I and the TV. He said that it is not his voice and that I had two guys here. Then he listened to it again, and realized it was his voice and the TV. He is now accusing me of doing it with the comcast sales guy. I am not that type of person. I have been cheated on and know how it feels. I couldn't demean myself nor could I hurt him. I have done everything I could to help him and us. He had major surgery at the begining of our relationship and when his disability ran out I supported him financially and encouraged him to do good for himself. He finally got a job 4 weeks ago and now he is leaving. I know he is just insecure because in all of his major relationships the woman cheated on him. He thinks I am into weird stuff and I am not. I just want to spend the rest of my life with him and have a normal happy relationship. I know I can't, how do I not let this bother me

2006-11-30 14:58:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love to please my lover in any way I can so I ask and experiment....and spend plenty of my time time working up to the deed it makes it unbearably exciting.

2006-11-30 14:58:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Says is like family, talks on phone if have problems, but if busy and I say I am sick, feel like I am going to faint, or I am worried abt something, etc., person will call/email whenever he feels like it. Says I "always have problems." Darn right I do--I have hypoglycemia which is dangerous when one is feeling bad. I also get extremely upset at times which is not good for my heart; it starts racing very very fast.

I feel a true friend will not say "you always have problems" or seem to think in the back of their mind that I am ok and just ignore me and talk to me some time later, even the next day. Prime example, I said I am sweaty, feel sick. Person does not call, e-mails next day. Was busy w/ family? Ok, still can call. Family knows me & knows situation. Doesn't care if I am ok or assumes I am?? Cannot spare 5 minutes? This is no friend in my opinion. Should I ditch this fair weather friend? If so, how?

2006-11-30 14:58:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I live together in his home with our children. The girls are his and the boys are mine. 17 yr boy, 17 yr girl, 15 yr boy, and 14 yr girl. Yes, as you can imagine there is never a dull moment. I thought I was ready to face this. After all I have first hand experience, I too came from a broken family into a new one with kids. They have chores or did till I got fed up and now do it all myself. They have rooms of thier own and can not even manage to keep them clean. Looks like a city dump upstairs. 17 yr girl has a good cat but, the rules were his daughter was to take care of her or the cat goes. She has been told time after time. holy cow she is 17 what is so hard about taking cat? Now she has been told the cat must go. The 14yr old, 15yr old and 17 yr girl are now all grounded for disrespect. I have been told they hate me..wish I would move out and even swore at. What should I do keep them grounded til they apologize and respect? What should I expect from my bf? Help.

2006-11-30 14:58:15 · 15 answers · asked by italliansweety67 5 in Family

so there's this guy.
it's been a few days now, like maybe even three weeks?
but still it's been hurting me so bad.
this guy i had really liked for a long time had recently started talking to me...well like a month ago anyways...
and we then started talking way more. and then started hanging out.
but one time we did, he was all over me.
it was wierd..and kind of un-called for if you ask me.
he had never seemed like that type of guy... but it just seemed right.
no, we didn't go all the way.
we were just all over echother i guess. then the next day..well we were still talking. but when the week started, he didn't talk to me again. and he still hasn't said a word to me.
and what hurts me the most is that now he has a girlfriend.
seriously, i just want to ask, what had happened to me..?
any ideas on what to do?
i still want him....

2006-11-30 14:58:12 · 4 answers · asked by lee 1 in Singles & Dating

just interested

2006-11-30 14:57:42 · 1 answers · asked by Nat L 1 in Friends

I need to buy a gift for my best friend because i know she is buying me something. She said she was having trouble thinking of gifts, but knows exactly what to get me. What is a good gift from a guy to the girl who has everything?

2006-11-30 14:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by colgatetotalgel 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy...and some people think we're going out, but we're actually not. I don't know for sure if he likes me, but I kinda think he does. The only problem is...I like him, but I wouldn't want to date him. He's really sweet, but I just want to be friends. How do I send him signals through body language (so we avoid awkward conversations) that I just want to be friends without hurting his feelings?

2006-11-30 14:56:47 · 10 answers · asked by ~*MysteryGirl*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

You see this guy was the guy of my dreams i loved him. But one really bad day. I wanted to be alone so i didnt want him there. The way i told hi, i didnt realize but it was mean. I didnt mean to! I was so upset. A few months later, since i was free, a lot of guys wanted to date me, but i'd just feel more worse. I never admitted that i like him again, so i told him i like a differ guy. he got jealous. but it wasnt true.
A year past and i realized that i did really love him, i wanted him back but im so scared and embarressed, not only that but he's dating again! i cant do that! WHAT SHOULD I DO???

2006-11-30 14:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by LuvaLuver 2 in Singles & Dating

me too...we just met at the internets, and we are really half world apart having different nationalities...help me please. Shall I continue with him or start forgetting about him? I have no idea if he has a plan to make formal divorce with his ex....my feelings of meeting him one day depends on this.

2006-11-30 14:56:07 · 9 answers · asked by Nami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it that the girls that guys like don't like them back but the girls that they don't like . like them??????? is there a reason or is it........wat?


please help thanks

2006-11-30 14:56:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems like they're the one's going out and not him and me. i know this jealousy seems really wrong. i simply can't help but feel like there's something going on between them. they've only met each other twice and it seems like she knows more about him than i do. is it my fault that im not talking to him enough and asking him questions? im just afraid of being the annoying girlfriend.

2006-11-30 14:55:39 · 17 answers · asked by angela l 1 in Friends

2006-11-30 14:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by chickie 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister has been acting evil since she started hanging out with her boyfriend. A big oaf who is always playing video games. She was a very sweet young lady. But she has turned against us. My mother recently married a young African man and he is living with us. The guy is very decent, smart, kind and very personable. She hates his guts for no reason. She teases my mother and calls the guy (behind his back) an African monkey. Today, I told her why she hated him so much. I suggested she may have a crush on him. She went balistic and attacked me. I love my sister dearly, but this time I had to defend myself. I restrained her so that her punches wouldn't hit my face and I threw her on the ground. She was not hurt. She went to her room and locked herself in there. What is going? She is 19 years old.

2006-11-30 14:55:07 · 20 answers · asked by R R 2 in Family

there two children involved as well

2006-11-30 14:55:06 · 11 answers · asked by dalizking 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-30 14:54:47 · 26 answers · asked by dontknow 2 in Singles & Dating

knowing her she is going to humiliate me in GYM class please guys wat should i do?

PS. i was thinking of moving out of town and change name like Joe Bob Sanchez (good huh)

2006-11-30 14:54:40 · 11 answers · asked by legendaryhonor 2 in Friends

2006-11-30 14:54:33 · 10 answers · asked by AD 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy and I were best friends, and over the summer he'd come over every day. well we kinda got to like each other and we'd hug and stuff, and it eventually led to one small peck. and one small peck turned to a longer peck, turned into open mouth, which lead to some tonge, which lead to all tongue and for like 5 minutes at a time. well for the school year he had to move to texas, then he comes back for the summer. he also said that he might come back for christmas too.I found out he has a girl friend, and is most likely to kiss her too. So my questions are: How do I react when I see him again during chistmas & summer and do I keep liking him like I did even though I no that he'll just go back to texas and get another girl friend. I really liked him, and still kinda do, and I think he feels the same way, but i don't no if i can deal with being his 'best friend'(and best friend is all its going to be) just for the summer.help

2006-11-30 14:52:35 · 10 answers · asked by alien 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have had a huge crush on this guy for about a year and a half. I know he likes my friend, but she doesn't like him so I know he will get over her sooner or later. What should I do from here? Should I try and talk to him more and eventually tell him I like him? And how do you tell a guy you like him? If I give little hints will he catch on?

2006-11-30 14:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by BttrflyBeauty91 2 in Friends

We try to leave messages to eachother in the morning and at night. We even have been talking to eachother evey night. Although we have only been talking for 3 days. If he wasnt inerested would he of not been wasting his time on me this far??

2006-11-30 14:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by Imyourfantasy4u 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex lef me las mnth. She saying how she doesnt luv me and want to muv on. afte 2 wks of acting out we meet for diner and she sayin shes scared n wants to move on. After we kiss n cry n say good bye. then day after she calls me n tells me how much she missd me. So we get bac 2gether n the whole week she tells me all this stuff about marraige and movin in with me. Im cool w/ this. She goes to see her friend 4 de wk n when she coms bac the distance from before is bac. On thanksgvn after dinner she ask me if i am mor in2 this then her. sayin she wants 2 muv on. I call her friday she says she dosnt feel the same and only cam bac 2 see if she can force herself 2 luv me. I dont undrstand. y say all that stuff n not mean it. Is she confused wil she call me . or is it al ovr. should i call her. she is online should i tlk 2 her then. I truely luv her n miss her i want there 2 b something. i tlked 2 her freind n see dosent have any answers 4 me. should i try and talk to the friend again.

2006-11-30 14:51:54 · 2 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 14:51:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 14 years old and Mom is 33 years old.

2006-11-30 14:51:26 · 25 answers · asked by Linda H 1 in Family

I always wondered. I gotta guess the females make the big bucks.

2006-11-30 14:51:14 · 4 answers · asked by cagewalker 2 in Singles & Dating

im madly in love with this guy ok but i dont think he likes me but im not sure cuz sometimes he flirts with me but i love him so freakin much i cant stand it like he sits next to me in some of our classes and he flirts with me but i know if i asked him he would say he didnt but it would probably some sorta maucho pride crap cuz we went out like years ago and we broke up cuz i didnt like him and such but now i like him again but anyway i just love him so much and i dont know what to do!

2006-11-30 14:50:58 · 8 answers · asked by pringle sucker 1 in Singles & Dating